Welcome kielkin!
To answer your question, by that we try to get members active, that they will be even actively participating after they've reached their 25 posts and being able to post their request and find a liking in being sociable and in contact with other forum members and also help others & especially newbies.
Some just need a little 'encouragement' and when they see it's nice being an active part of the community they might stay longer than just for getting their daily dose of porn.
We have a bunch of pretty great guys and girls here but many just don't get to know them because they go straight to the downloading areas.
There is also so much more here than just downloading videos.
Besides that we are not keen on being flooded with requests in not only the request area but also in other parts of the forum.
We think that that here should be an environment of giving and taking and not only taking & leeching especially when you want something special.
I hope we hear more from you in the future even when you finally are able posting your request.
PS: Being straight is no 'excuse' for exceptions either.