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worst day of your life?
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goejavin
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I can...the moment I got the call from a policman telling me that my partner of 20 years was found hanging by the rafters of our garage on Thanksgiving day. But from that day, I've spent every waking moment (aside from taking breaks here on GH) working with many organizations to prevent gay suicides, especially teens....so while sad his legacy exists. While unscientific, I like to think I prevented over 100 teen deaths in 3 years. So, good things do come from bad situations.
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o.. m.. g.. GOEJAVIN!! That's so sad to hear!! .. im actually really really surprised.. I never knew.. this had happened to someone i somewhat know! A friend of mine this is earlier back in the day.. he had an online bf. and then later found out he committed suicide.. and this is when we were like 15?... really scary stuff.. im sorry <3
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I really feel sorry for what had happened to you Joe! 
It's admirable that you are now one of those who prevent others from doing the wrong thing and save them and their their family, friends and partners don't have to go through what you unfortunately had to.
I can't really name a certain day which is my worst one. It was just the whole divorce of my parents. Not the divorce itself but how they did it. Especially my mother.
There were just so many things said and done which still hurt although it's ridiculous after almost 10 years but for me it's hard to forget especially when I remember when she started talking about suicide and I just stood there and didn't know what to do or to say & just felt so helpless...
In the end she never did it :whew: but there was one time I really thought she would do it and take me with her. :/
It's admirable that you are now one of those who prevent others from doing the wrong thing and save them and their their family, friends and partners don't have to go through what you unfortunately had to.
I can't really name a certain day which is my worst one. It was just the whole divorce of my parents. Not the divorce itself but how they did it. Especially my mother.
There were just so many things said and done which still hurt although it's ridiculous after almost 10 years but for me it's hard to forget especially when I remember when she started talking about suicide and I just stood there and didn't know what to do or to say & just felt so helpless...
In the end she never did it :whew: but there was one time I really thought she would do it and take me with her. :/
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Bo.
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Thanks for sharing your stories, goejavin and AlSun. I'm really sorry to hear that has happened.
Sometimes it's good to talk about our bad days because maybe it could help us to forget them. It would be the best if we could forget all our bad days, but sometimes it's impossible to do that. Even tho it's not easy to do that, we must try to forget them somehow, and to try to remember only even the smallest things that have made us happy in our life.
I don't think there is a person who has never had a bad day. I've had few too, but I can't divide any at this moment and talk about that.
Sometimes it's good to talk about our bad days because maybe it could help us to forget them. It would be the best if we could forget all our bad days, but sometimes it's impossible to do that. Even tho it's not easy to do that, we must try to forget them somehow, and to try to remember only even the smallest things that have made us happy in our life.
I don't think there is a person who has never had a bad day. I've had few too, but I can't divide any at this moment and talk about that.
