Hey there guys! I've been here for over a year but I think I've never really introdued myself, so here goes:
I'm a 22 years old bisexual guy from Germany. I realized I was bisexual around the age of 15, when some friends and I had a fun round of strip poker (no further than undie of course, what are you thinking?! ;D) during a birthday party and the girls weren't the only thing that caught my eyes that evening. From there on out I started coming out to my friends, best buddy first and the rest within half a year or so after, who all took it well. I did tell my older sister about it, but not the rest of my family since I really love them but (mostly my dad and grand dad) who I suspect wouldn't take it too well and I don't want to endanger my relationship with them. I'm a calm guy most of the time, friendly, open and I can laugh about almost everything, including myself. Over the past few years I've had some girlfriends but never a boyfriend, which brings me to the actual point of my post.
It's never really bothered me that I don't have a boyfriend until recently. I feel that I am getting tired of girls and the way my relationships with a girl usually are. Thus I've been trying to get a boyfriend for about half a year now. I have tried bars, discos, the shopping mall and several partnership sites for gays only and regular partnership sites. It seems that all I get, no matter where I try to find my luck, all I get are sex offers. On the internet they ask for sexdates, fotos with sexual content or just cybersex. In bars and discos they ask for a quickie or actually have the guts to just walk up to me and touch my face (or other, way more "off limits" parts of my body) without so much as introducing themselves first. The two solemn good experiences I've had are guy from England I met on the internet and who's been sort of an e-letter friend since then (on a strictly friendship basis) and one guy I met in a bar whom I was able to actually start a fun, decent conversation before his boyfriend arrived. They met over the internet but, like I said, I don't seem to have any luck. At all.
So I'm wondering, how did you guys meet your boyfriends (ex and current?), are there tips you could give me on where to find guys that aren't just after sex, no feelings attached? Can you maybe even recommend sites you've had good experiences with or name a few I shouldn't try? I'd appreciate your share of thoughts a lot guys
-Andy
I'm a 22 years old bisexual guy from Germany. I realized I was bisexual around the age of 15, when some friends and I had a fun round of strip poker (no further than undie of course, what are you thinking?! ;D) during a birthday party and the girls weren't the only thing that caught my eyes that evening. From there on out I started coming out to my friends, best buddy first and the rest within half a year or so after, who all took it well. I did tell my older sister about it, but not the rest of my family since I really love them but (mostly my dad and grand dad) who I suspect wouldn't take it too well and I don't want to endanger my relationship with them. I'm a calm guy most of the time, friendly, open and I can laugh about almost everything, including myself. Over the past few years I've had some girlfriends but never a boyfriend, which brings me to the actual point of my post.
It's never really bothered me that I don't have a boyfriend until recently. I feel that I am getting tired of girls and the way my relationships with a girl usually are. Thus I've been trying to get a boyfriend for about half a year now. I have tried bars, discos, the shopping mall and several partnership sites for gays only and regular partnership sites. It seems that all I get, no matter where I try to find my luck, all I get are sex offers. On the internet they ask for sexdates, fotos with sexual content or just cybersex. In bars and discos they ask for a quickie or actually have the guts to just walk up to me and touch my face (or other, way more "off limits" parts of my body) without so much as introducing themselves first. The two solemn good experiences I've had are guy from England I met on the internet and who's been sort of an e-letter friend since then (on a strictly friendship basis) and one guy I met in a bar whom I was able to actually start a fun, decent conversation before his boyfriend arrived. They met over the internet but, like I said, I don't seem to have any luck. At all.
So I'm wondering, how did you guys meet your boyfriends (ex and current?), are there tips you could give me on where to find guys that aren't just after sex, no feelings attached? Can you maybe even recommend sites you've had good experiences with or name a few I shouldn't try? I'd appreciate your share of thoughts a lot guys
-Andy
