2 Teen that rape the girl.

[alphacock]

Its pretty wrong to rape someone while drunk.

 

[Blacky94]

Rape in general is wrong. Being drunk is no excuse for rape either.
And did something like this happen? or what exactly is the point of this Thread? A discussion? Sorry if I am being dumb... but I kind of feel not so good lately....

 

[alphacock]

Rape in general is wrong. Being drunk is no excuse for rape either.
And did something like this happen? or what exactly is the point of this Thread? A discussion? Sorry if I am being dumb... but I kind of feel not so good lately....

just trying to get something to talk about lol.

 

[SimplyJakeAndAlex]

Well it's pretty wrong to rape someone period... the psychological effects on someone that got raped are irreversible they'll feel inadequate for the rest of their life.

 

[Otage]

Rape is definetly wrong. Even that when someone is coming on to you wayyyyy too strong (while you have clearly stated that you're not into the situation. Many times)feels very uncomfortable. Rape would brolly be thousand times worse than that. I don't how is it in other countries, but if someone is passed-out (due alcohol) and somebody takes advantage of the situation, it's not rape. It's sexual abuse. I think that that is wrong too. I mean rape is a rape, no matter what.

 

[jw4833]

Well it's pretty wrong to rape someone period... the psychological effects on someone that got raped are irreversible they'll feel inadequate for the rest of their life.

Thank you so much Jake for saying this...your response touches me so deeply because if you've read any of my earlier posts, I was raped by someone whom I had considered to be one of my best friends. I recall having a session with a counselor last year who had advised me to let it go and move forward. I was trying to explain to her that its not that simple. Moving on initially was a lot easier because I had my lover who was previously before we became intimately involved, one of my best friends. Although I have stride in regard to moving forward with sporadically dating as of late, however, I am very cautious although I am very polite and courteous in their presence, I do have those flashbacks that will appear in my mind of the relationship that was established with this guy for a substantial period of time that displayed no signs of this happening within our friendship. That's how close we were and this is possibly why I have such a difficult time accepting that he did this to me. Therefore, with that being said, my late partner, he cared so much about me that he made himself my protector in which he accompanied me wherever I went in public as well as emotional support. However, now that he's deceased, all of those feelings regression/psychological effects from that incident have surfaced. What matters worst is when you are referred to counselors who are supposed to open and accepting to what you are going through and instead, they are very opinionated on a subject matter that they have no way of knowing what you are feeling or experiencing. I was so close with this guy and he shared so much with me personally that there was no way that I would have believed he had that side to him. Again, thanks so much because I could not have said it better...JW:big hug:

 

[SimplyJakeAndAlex]

Thank you so much Jake for saying this...your response touches me so deeply because if you've read any of my earlier posts, I was raped by someone whom I had considered to be one of my best friends. I recall having a session with a counselor last year who had advised me to let it go and move forward. I was trying to explain to her that its not that simple. Moving on initially was a lot easier because I had my lover who was previously before we became intimately involved, one of my best friends. Although I have stride in regard to moving forward with sporadically dating as of late, however, I am very cautious although I am very polite and courteous in their presence, I do have those flashbacks that will appear in my mind of the relationship that was established with this guy for a substantial period of time that displayed no signs of this happening within our friendship. That's how close we were and this is possibly why I have such a difficult time accepting that he did this to me. Therefore, with that being said, my late partner, he cared so much about me that he made himself my protector in which he accompanied me wherever I went in public as well as emotional support. However, now that he's deceased, all of those feelings regression/psychological effects from that incident have surfaced. What matters worst is when you are referred to counselors who are supposed to open and accepting to what you are going through and instead, they are very opinionated on a subject matter that they have no way of knowing what you are feeling or experiencing. I was so close with this guy and he shared so much with me personally that there was no way that I would have believed he had that side to him. Again, thanks so much because I could not have said it better...JW:big hug:

JW buddy I always read your post... even the dirty ones LOL... and I knew that you were raped before... as my Alex has been sexually abused by a priest at 12 years old... while some people believe that there's a difference between the two and that one is less important the the other... they're not different one often includes violence, while the other is more attributed to emotional manipulation or blackmail. So both are pretty bad and both are unforgivable and unforgettable.

To be honest a counselor would know that rape isn't something you can just forget and pass to another call; it if they would have been victim of rape or several sexual abuse themselves - but rare will you find a victim of abuse or rape who pretend to be able to fix the mind of another victim of rape or abuse, so I doubt they can do shit... the only person that can help you get over it (and you will never, the mind even when someone suffers from Alzheimer... will always recall this - go figure why?) is you. With the help of others but the only person that can help you get over or live over a rape or abuse is yourself... by serious mind conditioning and knowing that you can talk to somebody about it and that somebody will listen without trying to give any advises.

This is just like when someone is suicidal and a person who never felt depressed to the level of wanting to kill himself tell the suicidal one that life is worth living... he/she can't fully understand and the final decision lies with the suicidal person. There's very little that one can do when someone has reached the final exit... you can come with flowers and show how much love you have for the person... but leave them alone a month later and you may find them hanging by the ceiling. I am married to a depressive dude (not anymore) but when he was 19 I couldn't stay a day without calling him just to know that he was still among us... and yes it did happened that some of those days he did not replied... and it would not matter where I was in the world I would have come back home to check on him even if I had to take the concord or pay someone to fly me home in a F18 jet.

I am a psychologist and I do not pretend to be able to deal with people that have been raped... everyone including those so-called professional need to be able to set their limit and those limits are "Can I work with a victim of rape or sexual abuse?" If for some reason there is a little light of doubts... this mean you can't.

I do not have the patience to work with victim of rape, so this is my limit however I do know that I can't and will never come forward a client and act like I'm interested in helping them since I know I can't. But I did worked before with teen that claimed to have become homosexual due to a rape... That is complete balderdash for me and this mean that the person doesn't want to see the root of his problem and try to cover it with smoke. Those I can work with them.

 

[tonka]

The specific case this refers to occurred in small town Ohio. A depressed area in the rust belt of midwest America. High school football is big here.
High school party, lots of drinking. A girl was very drunk; she was taken advantage of(finger fucked) by two football jocks.
She didn't even know what happened the next day. But there were lots of texts, and a photo (not of the act).
The state was slow to act. It did act eventually, and the boys were convicted this week. Even with the conviction, the town is very divided. They certainly have not rallied around this girl.

 

[Tom]

It was reported today that now the girl is getting threatening text messages. That is just so wrong!

 

[lhardwick69]

they new she was drunk--majorly drunk and passing out and all--they new it was wrong--don't need a degree in common sense to know that--if that person isn't awake or sober to say no then they should have kept their dicks in their pants---sure she may have liked them before getting drunk and would have liked to be with them in a sexual manner--but we all see things we like and wish to be with that person but to do that person while passed out is wrong--so they will go to prison for what they done--what they should have done was plead guilty and not pretend that what they did wasn't wrong--that would be like a bunch of gay guys letting them get drunk passing out and the all the gay guys taking turns screwing them---what would they think about that--how would they feel knowing they were used while passed out---


they would be crying rape while they gay guys would be hey they wanted it--

just remember the things in life we do to others--would we want them done to ourselves--try thinking of it as if to say if this were me how would I feel--then maybe some people in this world would act like they have some common sense

 

[777]

They did it to humiliate the girl as a group activity, no other reason. Pretty sick. I read there's at least one other girl too who had been treated the same or worse by the same boys.

 

[lhardwick69]

a friend of mine passed out at a party yrs ago and few guys took advantage of him that way said next day he woke up all over his body his ass was sore and full of but he never reported it--he was more pissed that he didn't know who fucked him I was like dude they raped you and he was like it wouldn't been rape if I was awake so apparently he was ok with it--but for the girl that got raped these guys knew what they were doing was wrong but they figured she wasout how would she know who did what--and todays technology ratted them out kudos for that