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35 years Later: Something Beautiful Happened

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Now that is one special situation that even a strong Atheist like I am would almost ask if there is a god... :eek: Fuck no I stand the course:) Well I have said before I was adopted years ago... I even remember what was playing in the plane Boing 747 from Air Canada, it was "By The River of Babylon" a song by Bob Marley [the Melodians as corrected by fellow JeanGuyOZ] but remixed by Boney M, which without a doubt became my favorite song of all time. And it was playing as we flew over the United States (the modern Babylon LOL). I arrived from my 25 degree Celsius under a shadow country to a -19 degree in Mirabel International Airport, the yellow airport (which doesn't exist anymore) on December 19th 1980, I was my parents Christmas gift (My sister came after me a month later). I remember it as it was yesterday and there is a certain smell when winter arrives in Canada that recalls me the smell of this country when I first land on it.

Everything was new to me in this new country, snow??? What the hell was that white stuff covering the ground, and it's fucking cold too, my god I was in a winter wonderland hell:p Not only the snow was white, everyone in this place was as white as snow (they must be all sick hahaha), to think that they call us the colored one: I am sick I'm black, I am shy I'm black, I'm dead I'm black... these people were chameleon, they're sick they turn green, they're shy they turn red, they're dead and they turn blue LOL.

From the shity hole I was from, I come into a mansion with so much stuff, that it took them 2 hours to find where I was hiding the first day :rofl:. I was so not used to eat regularly that I would hide food in my room, which was cleaned the day after by our nanny, it went on for a month, until my mom understood the patterns and explained to me where was the fridge and that food will never go out in this house. And that eating butter with a spoon wasn't good for me :rofl::rofl::rofl:.

That's the beautiful story of my arrival in my new family in Canada... but I also mentioned that I'm from a huge family back then from my Sugar Cane country, and when I was a kid my dad said to me that I would have serious nightmare and I'd name pretty much all my other sister and brothers, and he tried his best to find them without success.

In the mean time, while my sister and I were making our ways through society, another two individuals had been adopted in pretty much the same time that we were, something around a month or two before we left and they made their way through Canada as well.

One of my aunt on my mother's side got a new boyfriend, and he happens to have adopted two kids from the same country, same orphanage and from the very same sister that presented me and my sister to my father. Well guess what? The girl look just like my sister and the dude is a total replica of me... they are younger than we are but we look so similar that it's obvious they are the lost family.

35 years later will I finally have find two of my original family member? We look so alike it's horrible... the dude has the same shape than I do and the same facial features... even Alex almost fainted. I guess it's time for a DNA sample. What you guys think?
 
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There are several things that comes to my mind and one of them is that the world is small after all. No matter gods and religions and all that nonsense, miracles can happen or let just call it a perfect coincidence :D

I hope the DNA tests will give you the final proof for this :)

... when I'm thinking there is two of you X_X :p
 
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There are several things that comes to my mind and one of them is that the world is small after all. No matter gods and religions and all that nonsense, miracles can happen or let just call it a perfect coincidence :D

I hope the DNA tests will give you the final proof for this :)

... when I'm thinking there is two of you X_X :p
Oh that's what Alex said when he cried... now I don't know if he cried from emotion of me finally gets some unanswered answers or that he'll have to deal with two Jake ;)
 

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The Melodians. Not Bob Marley.
 
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The Melodians. Not Bob Marley.
Well I remembers it from Bob Marley and Boney M... but the song isn't the point of the story now was it... but thanks you dude I'll update my data files:p
 

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Beautiful Jake. Nothing can defeat reality.
 
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Yeah, time for a DNA test to get a final proof, even though, considering all the other proofs, it's basically impossible for you to not be blood related...

now I don't know if he cried from emotion of me finally gets some unanswered answers or that he'll have to deal with two Jake ;)

maybe both...:p:)

P.S. Thanks for letting us all read your story! :)
 

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Well I remembers it from Bob Marley and Boney M... but the song isn't the point of the story now was it... but thanks you dude I'll update my data files:p

I know, it's just me being picky. :)

It's actually the second time on this board that I have had to set someone right about a song incorrectly attributed to Bob Marley, which is slightly odd for a board that is supposed to be a discussion about gay porn and gay-related topics. :p
 
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I know, it's just me being picky. :)

It's actually the second time on this board that I have had to set someone right about a song incorrectly attributed to Bob Marley, which is slightly odd for a board that is supposed to be a discussion about gay porn and gay-related topics. :p
Well I don't mind being corrected at all... that's the process of learning... one cannot pretend to know everything although at young age I can say I do know a lot and I did look them up on Google... so thanks for the update now I won't make the same mistake twice thanks to you ;) Well it may be a board about gay porn and gay related topics but don't you think GH has crossed the boarder of being just a gay topics board? After all I believe that a bit of everything won't do any harms as one cannot just talk about gay stuff everyday, I love gay stuff and gay related topics but I also love to hear about quantum physic :)
 
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Oh.,that nice to hear my friend..i'm glad for you, well happy family re-union :)
I think you just met your doppelganger :D
 
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The Melodians. Not Bob Marley.

Actually Psalm 137. :p I do still have the 45rpm single on the Trojan label by The Melodians.

I really hope that things work out for you Jake, but there is more to family then blood as I'm sure you realise.
 

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I'm really happy for you.

I hope that the outcome of the DNA is favorable and you can embrace your loved ones.
 
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Jake, that is a truly touching story, so thank you for sharing it with us.

I am not adopted but I have an adopted daughter and I have worked with several people who were adopted. One in particular found her biological sister (same mother and father) and became close with her. They did not go thru DNA testing because like you, found the resemblances so close that it was not needed . . . in their case, they just knew!

While the DNA testing will be wonderful if you do prove to be related, what will happen if it turns out you are not. Will things change? You seem so happy now (title of your thread Something Beautiful Happened). If there turns out not to be a DNA match, will you go separate ways or try to build a relationship that you seem to want?

If you know in your heart that you are related, then is that worth the risk of disappointment. If nothing will change because of the blood test results, then I guess there is no risk, but if things will be different, I am not sure I would want that definitive answer.

My daughter is now 20 years old and while we have told here will will do everything to help her find her birth mother (she is from Mexico), she has rejected that saying my wife and I ARE her mother and father. As a parent yourself, I know you can appreciate the joy that that this provides, but as a possible sibling, I am not sure, because I cannot relate to the emotions you are experiencing.

Whatever decision you decide, please keep us informed.
 
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knowing? not knowing? thats a big test to take:( if your happy jake:) lol
 
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Jake, that is a truly touching story, so thank you for sharing it with us.

I am not adopted but I have an adopted daughter and I have worked with several people who were adopted. One in particular found her biological sister (same mother and father) and became close with her. They did not go thru DNA testing because like you, found the resemblances so close that it was not needed . . . in their case, they just knew!

While the DNA testing will be wonderful if you do prove to be related, what will happen if it turns out you are not. Will things change? You seem so happy now (title of your thread Something Beautiful Happened). If there turns out not to be a DNA match, will you go separate ways or try to build a relationship that you seem to want?

If you know in your heart that you are related, then is that worth the risk of disappointment. If nothing will change because of the blood test results, then I guess there is no risk, but if things will be different, I am not sure I would want that definitive answer.

My daughter is now 20 years old and while we have told here will will do everything to help her find her birth mother (she is from Mexico), she has rejected that saying my wife and I ARE her mother and father. As a parent yourself, I know you can appreciate the joy that that this provides, but as a possible sibling, I am not sure, because I cannot relate to the emotions you are experiencing.

Whatever decision you decide, please keep us informed. Jake, that is a truly touching story, so thank you for sharing it with us.

I am not adopted but I have an adopted daughter and I have worked with several people who were adopted. One in particular found her biological sister (same mother and father) and became close with her. They did not go thru DNA testing because like you, found the resemblances so close that it was not needed . . . in their case, they just knew!

While the DNA testing will be wonderful if you do prove to be related, what will happen if it turns out you are not. Will things change? You seem so happy (title of your thread Something Beautiful Happened) now that if there turns out not to be a DNA match, will you go separate ways or try to build a relationship that you want?

If you know in your heart that you are related, then is that worth the risk of disappointment. If nothing will change because of the blood test results, then I guess there is no risk, but if things will be different, I am not sure I would want that definitive answer.

My daughter is now 20 years old and while we have told here will will do everything to help her find her birth mother (she is from Mexico), she has rejected that saying my wife and I ARE her mother and father.

Whatever decision you decide, please keep us informed.
Well Voyager I have dwell in the shadow of death for a very long time now... yes I might be wealthy and happy today, I'm a dad (three time), I'm a husband with my dear dear (sorry can't type "dear" 50 times lol) love Alex, I'm an uncle from my original sister (godfather as well of course), I'm a successful business man but I'm Jake with no name, if those two can come up and shed some light into that path to hell I was in I'll be more than happy and the resemblance is factual, the dude is really look like me really really look like me (even Alex was astonished with our resemblance)... and i have no problem taking the risk to be disappointed.


My mom and my aunt compared the pictures of when we were young and the dude even look like I was when I was a kid... we might actually be from the same father. Here's one detail though, my biological sister is in fact my half-sister, we're not from the same father, we're from the same mother but not from the same dad. I am half Latino/Haitian, she is pure Haitian. When I was adopted my parents had a hard time to understand me because I was speaking creole and Spanish and my sister wasn't speaking at all :) except to me.

You guys have family history, you can track 300 years back of your family and you can unlike me trace back diseases and more... I don't I'm a total blank, few months ago I had a small heart failure (which scared Alex so much he put me on a strict diet), yes I have million dollars worth of life insurance, but Alex doesn't care about the money he cares about me - I love him so much) , I have no family medical records, nobody to refer to, my children (except Jasmine) have only me and my sister to look upon to whenever something happens, if those too are in fact part of our family things will clear off.

Just like your daughter I did decided years ago to drop any search of my original family, first because Haiti started surveying their people way after I was gone (they started in 1985). And second I had no records, no last name, no nothing, I have nothing to search for (all is under speculations, except the things that were found in my mom’s house – that how we knew my dad was Dominican, but beside that NOTHING). My mom died and I was there... she died I was three years old and I was there... I saw my mom dying (and I had nightmare of it for several years, and of course I became extremely scared of everything dying), and I did what she told me few days before; “take your sister and walk to the city” and that's how my sister and I became orphan. My mom died of syphilis which was later confirmed. Remember the stories from Dickens, he often pictures fatality, well I was in one of those fatalities, I love the story of Oliver Twist and it was my favorite as a kid, because this is exactly what I went through. In fact there’s a movie being written as we speak about my life and it’s called Lost My Roots, this is one story I started a while ago but people and family forced me to finish it. If the DNA test is conclusive I now know how to end that story.


My actual mom and dad are my heroes, no superman or batman can ever measure to them, and without them my sister and I would be dead in the bud of our lives, Haitian orphan dies quickly, very very quickly due to malnutrition, insalubrities and sickness. My parents divorced about a year after my arrival, it took me years of therapy to understand that it wasn’t my fault, and years of being thrown from one family to another, I have been sent to correctional facility, went for 6 years in foster family from the age of 11 years old. My dad would come and pick me up once in a while because I had facility to learn languages when he was assigned to work in different country as a pediatrician, and BAM! I’d return into my foster family (in my youth I have visited about 16 countries, Mali, Vietnam, Sierra Leone, Angola, Peru etc.). Life wasn’t easy for me, not at all, I did suffered a lot, I have permanent psychological scars that will go off only when I die. The worst was that one beautiful day, that turned into a horrible day, me, my dad and my social worker were sitting in front of a pile of documents, documents that was meant to place me into the hands of the Canadian government, my dad gave up, in front of me I was 16 years old he signed a paper that stated he was releasing his parental responsibility toward me and let me in the shaky hands of social services. That’s where mom came and broke the cycle, but it was too late I was already gone. The year after my long time girlfriend died of a car accident, and I lost it that day (I was 17 and so was she).


But do I hate my parents for what happened, hell no, I forgive my dad (my sister didn’t) and we are now speaking to one another in equal position, I’m an adult, I’m his son and that’s what matter. This news of perhaps having my original brother and sister in Canada is a great news as it will clear so much question, if they happened not to be blood related (which I seriously doubt) they are still member of our family as they are my aunt’s god child which makes them my official cousins. But the resemblance is horrible… and that’s why I have no problem whatsoever to go for DNA sample.
 
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Dear Jake,

since when I read your first post, I tried esteem and respect for you, now the estimate is increased, also of course the affection.

Thank you for sharing your odyssey, in doing so you made me feel one of your family, and it is not little.

As for the rest of the story, go where your heart takes you.

Affectionately.

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While the DNA testing will be wonderful if you do prove to be related, what will happen if it turns out you are not. Will things change? You seem so happy now (title of your thread Something Beautiful Happened). If there turns out not to be a DNA match, will you go separate ways or try to build a relationship that you seem to want?

This is the thought that occurred to me too. Having the same DNA isn't everything.
 
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The results are in, this weekend Alex and I are flying to Montreal, I'm too nervous to drive, and Alex doesn't like the drivers in Montreal, he almost pee himself each time he has to drive on that highway to hell that we call Decarie Boulevard, although I'd like him to pee himself, every reasons are good to have his cock in my hand :rofl::rofl::rofl: (like I need one ;)). I know it took some times, but they had three other persons they wanted to test against us as well. As per my dad we were roughly 8 children. The way he figured out is that when I was little and having nightmares I'd name all my siblings in my sleep. My sister is the last of us (well perhaps not now) but she always came as the last one that I would name and that's how he think that I was naming my family.

So we will see what's next... and if they turn out not to be related, well at least we'll have new friend to have barbecue with ;). If they are related, the barbecue will taste better, and that night I'll fuck Alex like he never was before :rofl::rofl::rofl: - OMG you guys have missed the glowing smile when he read that part, I need my sunglasses now he shines too much lol. Everybody wins, mostly him, always him LOL. Damn I love my dude p:p
 
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Done and Done

LADIES & GENTLEMEN it is with great pleasure that I announce to you all that the result of our DNA test shown that we are indeed RELATED all of us. The dude that look just like me is my younger brother and the other are also children of my late biological mom. We are family... this finally close a chapter of my life. We are going to have a family meeting in June and we'll finalize the bounds and share information about each other. Joseph, Alejandro, Tiffany and Desire are my siblings from the same mother, Alejandro is my direct brother since we have the same father and the same gene. Tiffany is my sister's direct sister as they have the same father.

35 years later, we have found our family, yes it is going to be a happy barbecue and yes Alex is going to be fucked to death :rofl:.
 
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