A question to all bottoms here

[Shelter]

Hi guys - sure you have watched like myself porn movies. And so very often I can see that the bottom has during the whole time he is fucked by his top an ironhard cock.

Well let me tell you the following: when we (my boyfriend and me) are starting in bed and are totally naked I'm rock hard everytime as well. But as soon as he is starting to fuck me I'll be limp and my cock and my scrotum is scourging back and forth.

What is with you? Is it possible for you to hold your stiffness? Let me hope that I'm not alone. (Honestly - for me it is a little problem. But my boyfriend always is laughing and tells me he likes the smacking of my little friend downstairs.)

 

[brmstn69]

Same with me, I go limp. But it doesn't stop me from ming while getting fucked. The only time it's been an issue is during 3-ways when they want to do a train fuck.

 

[Shelter]

Same with me, I go limp. But it doesn't stop me from ming while getting fucked. The only time it's been an issue is during 3-ways when they want to do a train fuck.

Thank you, thank you Brmstn69 so I'm not alone. Really I have thought something is wrong with me and after watching all these porn-boners I was doubted on myself.

 

[Otage]

If I'm completely relax, it stays hard. But yeah, some times it goes soft, but it doesn't reduce the pleasure. I won't soft though.

 

[Jase]

Well... I feel like the odd man out! LOL

It doesn't take much to get me hard, something as simple as a good nipple pinch from my boyfriend can do it. I know it's different for each person; however, I stay hard the entire time I'm bottoming and ooze pre until I .

 

[Shelter]

Well... I feel like the odd man out! LOL

It doesn't take much to get me hard, something as simple as a good nipple pinch from my boyfriend can do it. I know it's different for each person; however, I stay hard the entire time I'm bottoming and ooze pre until I .

Lucky boy :thumbs up: I would wish I could - but ...........:?:?

 

[riojackblue]

Since I am not fucked so often, it is not noticed at me so far.
But with my friend, it occurred to me yesterday, because I have now observed it.
In the beginning, he was still stiff, when he realized that his penis became limp, he started again to wank. But with the time he stopped again and concentrated again only on the fuck.

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Da ich nicht sooft gefickt werde, ist es an mir bisher garnicht aufgefallen.
Aber bei meinen Freund fiel es mir gestern auf, weil ich es nun beobachtet habe.
Am Anfang war er noch steif, als er merkte dass sein Penis schlaffer wurde, hat er wieder angefangen zu wichsen. Aber mit der Zeit hat er damit wieder aufgehört und konzentrierte sich wieder nur auf das ficken.

 

[lhardwick69]

I go limp as well a lot of the time but get hard as he is pounding me--theres been few times ive came while he is fucking me without him or me touching my cock sometimes its hard when I shoot sometimes its limp

some guys say well if youre gay you would be hard while a guy is pounding it into your ass--but nope youre not alone on this-another thing don't compare what youre body is doing to those in porn a lot of them guys are stoned on poppers or some other synthetic drug to make things happen that don't happen in real life--

 

[clemh01]

I tend to go limp when getting fucked too. I think that staying rock hard is the exception rather than the rule. I think the guys who stay rock hard may well have chemical assistance, though I suspect it is not poppers, they tend to be a vasodilator which means it is harder to keep an erection. I think the dick drugs like cialis or viagra are the drugs of choice for those in the pron industry. I do occasionally maintain a stiffy while being fucked and it is fun.

 

[naughty_gam]

For me, the state of relaxing my butthole to get fucked causes me to go soft, but once the hard cock starts rubbing my prostate, it get hard again. On a good day and when really turned on, a hands-free spurt can even happen.

Don't worry about going soft or anything - it's not a porn shoot. Once you're turned on and the ride is going nice and steady, your buddy will get stiff again and you can aim to even come together!

 

[kwhotboi]

The same with me. I am either not hard, semi-hard, or limp depending on position.
Missionary turns me on the most so get hardest with the top on top and I can watch his face as he fucks and s in me. That is a real turn on to me.

 

[Shelter]

The same with me. I am either not hard, semi-hard, or limp depending on position.
Missionary turns me on the most so get hardest with the top on top and I can watch his face as he fucks and s in me. That is a real turn on to me.

Missionary is as well for me the most liked position, because I can see him working :blushing: and we are abel to kiss p and that is for me a very, very essential turn on.

But as I can see - I'm not alone and all of you gave back to me my confidence.
And yes you are totally right you NEVER should compare yourself with a porn movie. Good counsel never comes too late! :thumbs up:

 

[jaykaytooooo]

I dont get fucked for personal reasons anymore, but when I did, I never went limp. I was always so turned on!

 

[tonib]

I tend to go soft, but for me it as much mental as it is physical. The more vocal the top, the more likely I am to stay hard.

 

[yellow122]

I go limp too most of the times. Eventhough sometimes someone can hit my prostate well and give me a hand free or squirt piss buy yeah, still go limp when cock comes in and sad about it

 

[wretch]

When we're ready to move from foreplay to sex we're concentrating on getting him inside and me comfortable but once we get going I'm hard again and get so into it my feelings take me away

 

[RazzmaTazz]

Most of the time I can stay hard while getting fucked. But it also depends on how into I am to the guy that is fucking me. I've found that the more into the guy that is fucking me, and how good the fuck is, correlates to how hard I stay during the session. So if you are fucking me and see my dick is limp you better change something because I'm probably getting bored. lol.