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What age difference to you think is not ok to be in a relationship with some one for me any thing passed 4 years is just weird what do you think
 

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I have 5 years younger and 10 years older. Ofc it's not some strict rule, but more like the baseline of age gap I usually seem to like. And 5 years younger is really a stretch. Best is usually some one as close to my age as bossible. Again, not a rule but that's how it usually has gone;)
 

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hard to say. there's always the half plus seven rule...
I think it's more about maturity for me. Is the guy more mature if he's younger. If he's older, is he way above my level?
 

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I'm 43 and as long as 18 year old's keep hitting on me, I'll keep fucking them...
 

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What age difference to you think is not ok to be in a relationship with some one for me any thing passed 4 years is just weird what do you think

I think it REALLY depends on the state of life you are at.

The difference between 18 and 22 is HUGE, but, the different between 60 and 64 is tiny.

I don't think you can put a rule on it. I think it's down to the relative maturity of both partners. If you are mentally at the same level of maturity, it should be grand.

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I'm 43 and as long as 18 year old's keep hitting on me, I'll keep fucking them...

That's great Brmstn69. I think that is the spirit!!!! :thumbs up::thumbs up::thumbs up:
 
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brmstn69 if 18 years older are hiring on you then please share your secret
 

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my future husband is 21 years younger than I am. We moved in together after 2 years and everything works fine. I think if both partners have the same "maturity level" the age does not matter. (only thing that drives me crazy is his playstation addiction - I am too old to sit hours in front of a monitor (if it isn't porn:))
 

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brmstn69 if 18 years older are hiring on you then please share your secret

Confidence, I ain't pretty, I look like a biker, dress like the Blues Brothers, and don't give a shit about what others think about me.
And it helps that they have daddy issues, lol...
 

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I like guys older than me. I've hooked up with age differences between 0 and 25, and only the older ones interest me. At the moment I'm hung up on a guy who is 17 years older than I am, but he doesn't want anything more than a physical relationship :'(

Btw, I have major daddy issues and I am well aware of them.
 

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What age difference to you think is not ok to be in a relationship with some one for me any thing passed 4 years is just weird what do you think

Wow, only 4 years? Just 4 years doesn't make such a big difference.
 

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If I'm 28 and the guys 18 is that weird?

Also when the guy is old enough to be your father that's when it gets a little weird.
 

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If I'm 28 and the guys 18 is that weird?

Also when the guy is old enough to be your father that's when it gets a little weird.

It's wierd if you think it is. But if you are both happy and get a long, does it really matter? Personally I find 18 year olds always too young for my taste nowadays, at least sex/relationship vise. My taste has matured with my own age, which I like a lot:)
 

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From -2 to +5 years my age would be reasonable for dating.
When it comes to hookup, I'm more flexible!
 

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As I've mentioned several times in earlier posts, my first bf was 18 years older than myself and we were together for almost 4 years. After that, the next guy was 10 years older and we were together for about five years...so it can work...besides...I've learned a lot and I have become a "wise soul" for my age as well due to all that I've learned from those relationships.
 

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much too old -i passed the 50 years ago

My dear Loretta - you surely are not old!!!! My grand-dad now is 90 and he always says: " I feel like I would be 20, but my crappy body speaks another language. But I'm not old but only a little bit ahead of you!"

So Loretta how can you say you are "old"? You are only a little bit ahead of us - but wiser! p:p:heart:p:p:heart:p:p:heart:
 
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