Hi guys, well i am 63 and my man is 53 and we have been together for 16 years. we are soul mates, best friends and still crazy about each other. we believe in free spirit and have never had issues about each other hitting on or being hit on by other guys. we try if possible to turn into a threesome or foursome even now,but if not who cares so long as you are safe and having fun.
Jealousy should be left to the heterosexual lifestyle and not let into the gay world.
we should all be confident and honest and not inferior unless we are roll playing lol.
If you stay together because you want too, rather than trying to own your partner then it will work.
One of my partner's years ago was 20 and i was 40 and we had a free spirit too but fucked every night so i think that age is just a number.
if you keep fit, look good, go to the gym and try and bring mystery into your relationship, the age doesn't matter. my previous partners have been 20 yrs, 21 yrs and 12 yrs younger than me but all lasted between 3 and 4 years.
I met my present partner, when i least expected it. that's what makes a good relationship, take it day by day and the years just fly bye in heaven.
have fun guys whatever age you are, remember, you only travel this way once, and its not a rehearsal, he who hesitates is lost, grasp the guy whatever age, just so long as it is legal and go for it big styli, keep it up guys hehe