That 'bigger than life' thing still comes across even if they're short. There's something about media that gives people such an aura. Especially if it is from an entertainment that moves you on some level. The more compelling and beloved the entertainment, the larger and grander the person becomes. To a point where it doesn't matter what 'size' they are. They pack a punch.
I remember watching a singer on stage and meeting her afterward at a signing. Three rows back, dimmed lights, glorious voice -it was like she was 50ft. tall. Later at the signing, this small, demure person comes out. And I'm thinking, "All that was you?"
Same with meeting Joni Mitchell. (Although she was much taller in her youth...) You could put her in your back pocket. Same height as me, but half my weight. Some people have presence. Be it a talent.... or looks. (Or both.) Most porn stars have such exceptional physical characteristics it doesn't matter how tall they are. One can get lost in the sheer magnetism of their presence. They have that 'it.'
And no, porn stars aren't getting shorter. They always were short. Take some of the most famous vintage porn stars and you could fit them in your pocket. Except for the cock. In that department what you 'expected' to see is what you'd see. At least from all the porn stars I've met. Big. Frakkn. Gorgeous. Dicks. -To go along with absolute gorgeous asses.... dreamy eyes.... perfect abs..... It is no accident they were asked to get naked.
But you know Seeker you should run with the little guy thing. My height once bothered me until I ran with my Gulliver's Travels obsession. There was something about the cartoon version that stirred hidden, unknown passions in the core of my youthful being. The idea of climbing over some giant slab of masculine man beef. By the time I discovered cocks could get long and strong, I could while away a good part of the day just thinking about climbing up, down and around Gulliver's giant cock and balls. Clinging to it and going wild trying to pleasure a tool 10 times my height.
So by the time I was an adult and hooked up with tall guys, it was a pleasure being able to 'climb' all around their bodies. I wouldn't want to have it any other way.
Of course, if you have an itch to be the guy lifting and flipping about your sex partner, I feel your pain. Maybe you can find a guy shorter than you and give him a good work over.
Nothin's better than good nutt'n.