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Are u a Single Gay or in a relationship?

rebornme40

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Are u a Single Gay or in a relationship?
if you are single, why?
 

mrduke

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My partner left me 12 years ago. I am a little older, and it is difficult to find someone that lights the spark anymore.

Not giving up, just put myself out there and I have faith it will happen again. If not, I have learned to be alone gracefully. However I do miss companionship.

Duke
 
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XMan101

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Single and prefer it. Doesn't mean I shut the door on anything I just don't encourage it :p
 

jw4833

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Since my bf died a little over two years ago, I am Single..but by choice,...I am PRETTY busy with full time school and full time work. I do go out on dates from time to time..but I feel at this stage of my life..I would stay Single..Ive already had a couple of guys tell me that even though I have great goals that I am trying to obtain..(I graduate from college next March), they are telling me that I'm too busy and I don't have enough time for them...lol..that's a lot of nerve...therefore, when time allows..I hang out with my close friends and chat on this forum for an outlet.
 

rebornme40

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I am single. Happy? It's not so bad, though I wouldn't say that I wouldn't like to meet someone with whom I could share my interests and passions. But we live in a world where beauty is the main criteria, where many people never pass the stage of superficiality, leaving because you left your socks on the floor or so many other trivial reasons, so I'm not expecting to meet someone easily. I'm not "hot", I'm not one whose face and muscles would find a place in magazines any time soon, I dislike pop culture and all the close minding it brings with it, and I hate superficialities. My chances of finding somebody are close to 0%.


But you are only 21. You are so young and you still have a long way to go. You will meet someone.
 
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Squallmuzza

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Single just now, but that rarely lasts. I'm a bit of a fool for jumping into relationships at the drop of a hat and realising they're just a cheap replacement for my last major ex. I seriously need to sort that out but hey.

And Nilstreet, I never date anyone that's all about the beauty. Don't get me wrong, I'm kinda shallow, but just to the point where I wouldn't date a downright ugly guy. I'd take anything average and higher XD.

There are always options out there, always chances, always diamonds in the rough. I just seem to have a great set of tools for digging them out (buckets of thinly veiled compliments, a all-but preset first date scenario that you can really gauge someone from and a fantastic way to keep them addicted ;))
 

TheWatcher

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I'm single.. still not out, and my life is complicated, for a number of reasons, one being where I live, its just easier to keep it to myself for now..

As for the single part.. I won't lie it's downright hell at times, but I get through it, and when the time is right things will sort itself out, so for now, I'll use here as an outlet and chill with you guys.
 

Otage

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Single and I prefer it like that atm. Some nights there are moments that I would like to be with someone but I always get very emotional at nights. Would be perfect to be an daytime single and night time bf;)
 

Sandrik

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Single!
I left my bf 6 month ago, because .... he was totaly boring.
Sex only on Sunday, he never goes to partys, he hates to have guests in the house, he is 42 years old, but sometimes i had the feeling, that he is over 80 years old...

So i´m free again.....
 

braex27

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Single - haven't met someone I wanna be with yet.
 

boy10

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I am single. Happy? It's not so bad, though I wouldn't say that I wouldn't like to meet someone with whom I could share my interests and passions. But we live in a world where beauty is the main criteria, where many people never pass the stage of superficiality, leaving because you left your socks on the floor or so many other trivial reasons, so I'm not expecting to meet someone easily. I'm not "hot", I'm not one whose face and muscles would find a place in magazines any time soon, I dislike pop culture and all the close minding it brings with it, and I hate superficialities. My chances of finding somebody are close to 0%.

I something am similar to you. It is pleasant to meet a related soul.
Though us probably divides very many.
 

newage

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Single!
I left my bf 6 month ago, because .... he was totaly boring.
Sex only on Sunday, he never goes to partys, he hates to have guests in the house, he is 42 years old, but sometimes i had the feeling, that he is over 80 years old...

So i´m free again.....

lmao sex only on Sunday?? of all the days! thats supposed the be the day of rest :)).

I'm single...just because. :(
 
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XMan101

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lmao sex only on Sunday?? of all the days! thats supposed the be the day of rest :)).

I'm single...just because. :(

Well if I wasn't a few thousand miles away...and err maybe 20 years younger :p
 

GSucker

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Single! :D Can't handle relationships right now, not with anyone I meet anyway. That could change with the right person though I suppose.
 

rileydog

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I've been in a relationship with my partner for 14 years. I can't imagine not being in a relationship as the thought of being single again scares the crap out of me lol.
 
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