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Are u a Single Gay or in a relationship?

logan222

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I'm single and closeted. I've tried to leave hint to my parents about my sexuality and they've left hints about how they would never accept a gay son...~X(
However, my parents are great, and I don't want to lose them. I guess I'm just waiting to have a few more good years with them before they might just disown me...but I gotta be happy too, right? I think I'll give it a few years and be on my way. I'm just sad about it - I'm really going to miss my family... :(

I've had one guy that I had a sort of unofficial relationship with, but it was totally behind closed doors. Neither of us are officially out. After not seeing each other for awhile, he completely forgot we had anything going on and now we're just friends. The good thing is I'm totally over him now, but it hurts to know that I could be just such an expendable fling to someone.

Another problem is that I attract a good amount of the female friends I make, which sucks because breaking their hearts feels just as bad as knowing that guys I like will probably never like me back...

For now, however, I'm comfortable with my situation. I'm still young and have time to enjoy my family before lurking out into the gay wild!

HOWEVER...I don't really want to associate myself to the stereotypical gay scene. It seems to be all about guys just hooking up and never making more of it. I want a keeper!
 

sergueibxl

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in couple, living together. This is my first complete relationship with a man (over 6 months now), after being single for .... 16 years. before that I was married (to a woman).... Life is just great, I enjoy my present relationship!
 

BigBenni

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Unfortunately single :( but I hope to find my Mr.Right soonest.

Really would like to have a relationship and so far I enjoy to be single :D
 

bigsal

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I'm single. Not by choice.

Romantic relationship? It would be nice. The feelings make us feel alive.

Unfortunately there are people who, after ruining everything. :(
 

cavonzia

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single,i'm enjoying it for now :)
not ready yet for intern love partnership
but wishing for it
 

Doppelhase

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relationship almost two years :) looking for our first apparment together :)
 

Arnt

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single for many years, my choice. Maybe one day I change the decision, who knows. :)
 

jaxtonypiper

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Single. Longest relationship was 5.5 years... I (sorta) dipping my feet back into the dating pool.... not sure if I am 100% ready, but.....
 

uni28mtl

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Partnered for over 8 years - open to new experiences together or separate.
 

razorw2000

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single. right now, trying to make my business work, so i'm pretty preoccupied. feel it'd be pretty unfair to be involved with someone when I'm like this, if something happens, it happens. otherwise i'm actually ok with it, because i've still got friends
 
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allen45top

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single now. was in a relationship for 18 years until my love passed away 20 Dec 2010 with cancer. He was in great health and we had a wonderful anniversary on July 4th and then he was gone in December. I am always sad because I miss him so much. I was able to take time from work and give home hospice care for him for his last 3 months. He went peacefully in his sleep on Sunday night. It was a very good day for him as he was very alert and his brothers 2 children were here for the weekend. He had helped raise them and loved them as if they were his and they felt the same way about him. I love him, miss him, and cry every day. I will never get over this loss and did not know it was possible to hurt and cry every day.
 

allex3020

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In a relationship almost 2 year :D
I have a boyfriend :heart: I love him so much.
 

Dockerhead

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Single- I'm too different to the local gay population- too straight-acting for their tastes. I think I'm insulted.
 

wowfish

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Always single , but many friends , it's the way of my happy life !
 
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R_ver

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single and im too afraid of love,, afraid of hurting the one i love and afraid of getting hurt =(
 
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