Are u a Single Gay or in a relationship?

[Sander]

I am painfully single and 7 years sexually withdrawn...

 

[cc8659]

single

 

[rtk159753]

Single and looking...not much luck since i came out over a year ago.

 

[danae]

Single

 

[loveless92]

*cough* username *cough*
Yeah, I'm single, I just can't find any gay people in my area, I'm serious. I end up hitting on guys that end up being straight and I die a little inside. Just so lonely.

 

[peter123]

*cough* username *cough*
Yeah, I'm single, I just can't find any gay people in my area, I'm serious. I end up hitting on guys that end up being straight and I die a little inside. Just so lonely.

Loveless, don´t be depressiv, you have no reason for it, you are young, cute and very good looking, you have all modern possibilities to come acquainted with gay people, so be patient...and look forward...

 

[Numeria]

I am happily married ATM. I love it. Even though its tough all the time. The good times always outweigh the bad. No matter how bad it is. As long as you BOTH want to make it work, then your relationship will last forever. =]

 

[jakeftfl]

In a relationship, happily

 

[roamer]

Single

 

[name_1]

I am single. Happy? It's not so bad, though I wouldn't say that I wouldn't like to meet someone with whom I could share my interests and passions. But we live in a world where beauty is the main criteria, where many people never pass the stage of superficiality, leaving because you left your socks on the floor or so many other trivial reasons, so I'm not expecting to meet someone easily. I'm not "hot", I'm not one whose face and muscles would find a place in magazines any time soon, I dislike pop culture and all the close minding it brings with it, and I hate superficialities. My chances of finding somebody are close to 0%.

No, I disagree. I think I see a little of myself in you, not exactly like you but I do share some of the sentiments that you have. The world or more specifically society today has placed a huge emphasis on the outer beauty thus it becomes a relatively clear cut distinction between the 'accepted' and the 'rejected'. The 'rejected' then obviously would not appear in magazines. I don't think I would too, so that makes me a 'rejected' right? But the issue here is that the majority of people are 'rejected', a very small amount is in the 'accepted' category. (They might not know they are 'rejected' but thats besides the point) Therefore, when most people fall into the 'rejected' category, there is a similarity between most people right?
*Another interesting idea to explore is the fact that most people are 'rejected' so why are they not considered the 'accepted' when we see that the majority view is often is the accepted one.

The pop culture however might not be the cause of people being close minded. I think people are indeed close minded but is it really due to the pop culture? There is a really big logic leap there.

And now, I come to the main point of my message. Don't say that your chances are close to 0%!! thats so negative! Constantly have hope, even when sometimes its difficult, try to appreciate the world, then, you can be become something more. I think mine chances of finding my other part is low too, but I hope for something more. That someday, someone will come. So, you should too. I hope, I have "kinda" convinced you to continue having hope in life! Find it within yourself or maybe within a higher being. ( I am not really religious you see..)

(Oh no, yet another longlong weird paragraphs..):worried:

 

[rvt2345]

hi my first time posting
I'm single guy and looking a lot times i feel the area where i live is not best in the world but in home
mainly have not find any guy to my liking
expat one we are still talking

 

[Stonecold]

Happily married

 

[luckycharm]

Happily married gay man! With my partner since I was 14, just about 9 years total.

 

[rebornme40]

Happily married gay man! With my partner since I was 14, just about 9 years total.

and how old is your partner?

 

[luckycharm]

I'm 23 and he is 24.

 

[Tomas775]

In a Relationship.....

for 6 years, and happy. We have our ups and downs like everybody else but we are deeply in love.

Also, I am an American citizen and my partner is a Mexican National. We can't get a visa for him (only 140,000 of 1.5 million visa applications are accepted every year), so I have given up my country and moved to Mexico to be with my one and only.

Maybe someday the US will recognize same sex marriage and we can move to the US, my friends and family as a legal couple.

 

[kocksnot]

With the same man for 6 years.

 

[carsonjl]

Single but I haven't really been looking.

 

[hisaronu]

Single now after 27 years with the love of my life who died suddenly 14 months ago at the age of 46.

 

[rednaxela]

Single too. Got a lot of single guys here. :thinking: