Are you afraid to fall in love?

[Rebel7]

Me; Yes, but i don't really know why :worried: :?

 

[Casanova]

No, but I'm more afraid of losing the one I love

 

[RefixnarcisM]

Yes. I always wonder is this really love or just adoration? Does my love would be just unrequited love?

 

[perrymason12]

No. I look forward to it.

 

[gb2000ie]

No, but I'm more afraid of losing the one I love

exactly!

Too late to worry about falling in love, that boat has sailed

B.

 

[edkiko]

yes

 

[RuG]

yes especially after several unrequited ones

 

[etilit]

nope

 

[Rebel7]

Yes. I always wonder is this really love or just adoration? Does my love would be just unrequited love?

Yeah sometimes its difficult to draw a line between Love and Like.

yes especially after several unrequited ones

@ both:one sided love sux...you know what it takes to let go, its painful..been there

 

[iotbg]

Yeah sometimes its difficult to draw a line between Love and Like.



@ both:one sided love sux...you know what it takes to let go, its painful..been there

yep,but at the end of the day we´ll survive.

 

[Rebel7]

yep,but at the end of the day we´ll survive.

Love makes you alive, when it slips away you have to survive ; there's a big difference between the two!

 

[Nema89]

scared a lot.. i mean, that's all i want, to find the special one, but i'm so young and full of dreams and problems, i couldn't give enough, i don't wanna hurt nobody..

p.s. yay! i've got 2 stars, i'm a fan now! XD (i know it's stupid but i like it!)

 

[akadoosian]

No, I am not afraid.

 

[Sinnerr]

Very good question. I would say no at the moment, but It depends on my actual mood I think.

As I said very good question to talking about. But it has many aspects from many wiews. It's really alchemy.

 

[Tjerk12]

No absolutely not. I respect individuality. Each person is different and has different needs. I only can tell how I experienced love as living together in which sex is only a part of it. I was married for twenty years. Suddenly it was over. That was a great disappointment. My friends moaned about wasted invested years. I think that is nonsense. Life is a chain of accidents. The variation makes life interesting. I do not regret my marriage. I have three wonderful kids and my mind is full of beautiful memories. Nothing worse than getting old with an empty mind.

 

[Rebel7]

scared a lot.. i mean, that's all i want, to find the special one, but i'm so young and full of dreams and problems, i couldn't give enough, i don't wanna hurt nobody..

p.s. yay! i've got 2 stars, i'm a fan now! XD (i know it's stupid but i like it!)

I understand you cuz i'm on the same boat. For now its best to settle with yourself first, what you want in your life..you know, ride yourself of insecurities!

No absolutely not. I respect individuality. Each person is different and has different needs. I only can tell how I experienced love as living together in which sex is only a part of it. I was married for twenty years. Suddenly it was over. That was a great disappointment. My friends moaned about wasted invested years. I think that is nonsense. Life is a chain of accidents. The variation makes life interesting. I do not regret my marriage. I have three wonderful kids and my mind is full of beautiful memories. Nothing worse than getting old with an empty mind.

Yeah...utterly!
...experiences, i would say
Good you took it all with the right attitude and spirit :thumbs up:

 

[TifaLover]

OMG, I'm terrified of it, it's all I want, I wanna be in love, I wanna have a boyfriend and be in a relationship, but at the same time, I just keep freaking out every time I meet someone, I've actually broken some hearts because of that, I stay emotionally detached while they develop feelings for me, and then I end it, I'm not sure if it's because I'm afraid of getting hurt of because we're actually not compatible, but I know for sure that I was in love once, it was unrequited and it lasted for about 6 years, maybe that has something to do with it..

 

[Tjerk12]

Yeah...utterly!
...experiences, i would say

You are right my friend SenorZeus. Mainly by this forum I learned to write some readable English, but still stumbling.

 

[Rebel7]

You are right my friend SenorZeus. Mainly by this forum I learned to write some readable English, but still stumbling.

Same here my friend Tjerk12 My writing English improved lot since i joined the forum..though i still have Google a lot to write a post.
And sorry i didn't meant to come off as condescending :blushing:

 

[b4pxku4u]

Yes, I am afraid to fall in love because it will no longer be I who controls my life. I will have to let someone else have a say in it. That seems to me to be the main reason people don't venture to express their love to someone, and then give it all up.