Are you afraid to fall in love?

[loretta]

no - i am in love. i met this adorable man last week, today he is visiting me and i am feeling like a teen - it is so wonderfull, crazy and exciting ))))
we are talking everyday for hours on the phone, i can not sleep, eat, think...
it is GREAT!!!!

 

[melanie]

yes im afraid, because i always fall in love with straight guy :/

 

[name_1]

Yes, I am afraid to fall in love because it will no longer be I who controls my life. I will have to let someone else have a say in it. That seems to me to be the main reason people don't venture to express their love to someone, and then give it all up.

Woah! I used to think like that too: that uncertainty, the fear of the unknown is inherent in us humans... losing what you know for certain and just jump into an unknown and trust that the person you are loving wont kill you along the way...

but i "used" to think like that (ok, maybe sometimes i would think like that too when i am down) now i think falling in love is inevitable... some guy will just come along being so perfect and wowwwwww that you just cant help it. so there isnt any point fearing something that just happens; instead try to make it work:thumbs up: (though most of the time )

 

[luxferre]

yes falling in love is inevitable

so does broken heart

just hoping with the new one will be better

 

[Nelson]

Yes but that's because it never ends well.

 

[tonka]

There are really two stages of love. There is the great initial passion. Everything about your lover is intensely wonderful. You are drunk with love. What a wonderful feeling.

A year or two later you sober up. But there is a REAL person in bed beside you. Is he your best friend and companion? Can you rely on him as the passion comes and goes through the years? If the answer is yes....lucky you!!! Hang on to that man.

 

[c750dt]

Having fallen in love a time or two before, I must say it's quite a nice feeling though it can influence some less than stellar decisions. It's a good thing but something which to approach with caution too.

 

[bigsal]

The topic is one of the main ingredients of our lives. On the negative side (most often) and in the positive. But this feeling is worth trying because it makes you feel alive. However it ends.

 

[robbober]

No! but I am afraid of loosing the person I love.

 

[Rebel7]

The topic is one of the main ingredients of our lives. On the negative side (most often) and in the positive. But this feeling is worth trying because it makes you feel alive. However it ends.

Yeah! :agree:

 

[Pnkluis]

Im afraid of falling in love again, Im still dealing with the fact I have to see my ex as a friend and no more.

7 years of relationship, best years of my life. Then he joined the army, I only see him every 3 months now and he need to have a wife eventually to get promoted,apparently is an unwritten rule over here :/.

 

[appleseed87]

im afraid to love cause ,the rejection is too much for me .

 

[peter123]

Are you afraid to fall in love?


Definitely: NO!


but sry. to confess it in public

 

[rania]

frankly speaking yes

i like lot of guys, but when they respond

i let my guard up, somehow i'm scared if they're with me .. i will lost them or i'll disappoint them

yeah, i'm a complicated person