I have had LTR with both M & W, both satisfying and frustrating and, looking back, almost all of them have been intense, loving, caring, committed, and characterized by incredibly hot sex; at the time I could *almost* forget about my attraction to the other gender. My instinct was to focus on the person with whom I had intense communication, and not make a big deal about my sexuality. Then I discovered my talent and love for (giving) oral pleasure, both to men and women, to the point that a woman paid me a huge compliment: "You have turned the hors-d'oeuvres into the main meal!" I replied, “No, YOU did!”