If any LGBTIQ readers from Australia are seeing this, please take the trouble to vote "YES" in the postal vote.
I'm writing to you to make an impassioned plea not to chuck this by the wayside and ignore that mailout when it's sent out by the Bureau of Statistics very soon. Unless the High Court challenge is successful and stops the postal vote in its tracks, the mailout is likely to happen.
You may or may not want marriage equality personally, but this is being turned by the right and so-called Evangelicals into their culture wars. New battlelines have been drawn up, courtesy of Mr Abbott and co. They're trying to conflate granting marriage equality with political correctness, adoption of children (calling them a new "stolen generation"), religious freedom, civil liberties, bestiality, paedophilia etc.
The right will do anything to try and lump this with other non-related issues to cast doubts in the minds of those undecided, that it's better to hold the status quo rather than bring Australia in line with other progressive democracies.
Don't fall for their trap! Remember, their strategy is "divide and conquer". They would love to create a wedge - using provocateurs if necessary - in the pro-LGBTIQ camp, hoping to return a "NO" vote. If the "NO" vote succeeds, this will embolden them to turn back the clock on even more hard-won civil freedoms that the community have fought so hard for.
If we vote "YES", we will help repudiate their vitriol, dirty tricks, false and deceitful language, vulgar low blows, where the hard right keep trying to muddle same-sex marriage with everything that's wrong in society that leads to a rapid slide into moral decay and social ills.
I admit, this postal vote IS a humiliating process and brings a feeling of almost "being beneath our dignity" to have to ask the wider community to grant us equality, when so many previous opinion polls have already shown widespread support for marriage equality. But if we snub this poll and even sabotage it, we will indeed cut off our own noses to spite our faces, giving permission to the toxic conservative politicians to inflict even more clawbacks on our freedoms, use even more inflamatory language and coalesce disperate political figures looking for an issue to galvanise their ultra-conservative vote.
As a wise, grandmotherly lady who had lived through wars, family tragedies, migration across the world and back, death of a spouse etc. - a gem of a soul, really - once advised me, "every coin has two sides". That has always stuck with me; despite this stupid, money-wasting, divisive action by our Australian government that's paralysed in decision-making, let's use this to send a loud and clear message that will put a big circuit-breaker in the hard-right's pushback against the LGBTIQ community.
Let's be the best ambassadors of our LGBTIQ community - remember, some of us have a voice and platform to speak out, whilst others do not. Let's use our voices to raise a positive platform, to speak about our aspirations, our dreams, our hopes for equality, how our love is no different to any other of our members of our wider society.
Keep reminding and campaigning our family, friends, colleagues and acquaintences that they would show gracious understanding, compassion and espouse the typical Aussie value of "giving everyone a fair go" by granting equality.
This equality would not take away anyone's rights, but just make more people "equal". We all can do our part to help convince everyone that our message is one of "love", whilst those who oppose us strictly work from "fear and prejudice". Let's make that very clear!
And most importantly, stay focused on the end goal - I encourage everyone to visualise the day in November when the results come in. I believe if we do our part, we'll take a majority of the Australian public with us, who will also vote resoundingly that "equality IS for everyone"!
Peace and love to all.