checking out guys in locker room

[wardell]

I just started going to the gym it's a straight gym (i guess it is. it's the ymca. but have not seen any village people) I would like to check out the guys in the locker room but i'm afraid of being obvious Some of the guys walk around naked and seem to invite guys to look. I have terrible gaydar so i cant tell one way or the other. If someone is walking around dangling about. is that an invitation to look or do you still need to be careful? So, i was wondering does anyone have any some advice or techniques or experience when it comes to checking out guys in the locker room

 

[Otage]

Have no experience on the subject matter, but I maybe old fashioned, since I think that locker rooms are for changing of clothes, saunas for sauna etc. I take it as a bit of invasion of privacy if someone is there with any other agenda than the obvious:no: Of course it happens, but I do understand why some people don't take it well. There's no harm I guess, but it's bit like male going to Victorias Secret to check out the ladies... Or then not. I don't know Maybe one can meet some one like that:thinking:

 

[sendero]

It's kind of like checking out anyone's bulge - clothed or nude. If you're going to stare, it's creepy. So we all have to learn the art of the passing glance - the quick scan as they enter your line of sight, the side wards peek as you are rinsing off and your head is pointed down, or the casual conversation while drying off that forces you to look at each other.

I don't know about the rest of you, but my biggest concern while checking out nude locker room guys is getting an erection in public...

 

[Shelter]

I don't know about the rest of you, but my biggest concern while checking out nude locker room guys is getting an erection in public...

Sendero I'll understand you in this case for 100%. That will be my problem until today. And I don't know how to suppress. But in this case my dick is VERY autonomous and I cannot bring him under control. :blushing:

 

[wardell]

Have no experience on the subject matter, but I maybe old fashioned, since I think that locker rooms are for changing of clothes, saunas for sauna etc. I take it as a bit of invasion of privacy if someone is there with any other agenda than the obvious:no: Of course it happens, but I do understand why some people don't take it well. There's no harm I guess, but it's bit like male going to Victorias Secret to check out the ladies... Or then not. I don't know Maybe one can meet some one like that:thinking:

I don't have any agenda I'm just there to work out. I don't know how to act I have never been in a locker room before this. but the urge to look is strong i just don't want to make any one mad.

 

[topdog]

I would say that cruising is off limits, or at your own risk. Stay away from that until you've adjusted your gaydar.

But looking is free. Respect and Enjoy. That's my motto. No stares. But you can appreciate what is there.

It sounds like public nudity is a new experience for you. That is a side of life that you can explore more in the future to become more comfortable with it.

Nudity doesn't always mean sex. In my dad's generation most men were very comfortable being naked together. Group activities like swimming at the YMCA, the local swimming hole or beach were common. Army or sports teams were often naked during showers and workouts.

In my generation we went to nude beaches or hung out late nights talking in somebody's hot tub. Being naked was just part of being together and being friends. But I also had the advantage of not only the hippie generation, but growing up in theater and dance. We were always changing clothes together and often wearing minimal clothing in performance, so you just lose that modesty and get on with it.

Today a lot of people seem to have grown up being more private, so your experience is very common. But I'm just sharing this to let you know that non-sexual nudity is something that can be fun, freeing, and comfortable. It takes practice.

 

[brmstn69]

Another of life's little little problems that can easily be solved with the proper accessories...

 

[tonka]

As a long time gym user, making guys uncomfortable is creepy. But a passing glance is just normal.
And if you go regularly, the newness will wear off, and you won't likely spring a boner.

Looking at hot guys, clothed or not, is one of the simple pleasures of life.

 

[Shelter]

Looking at hot guys, clothed or not, is one of the simple pleasures of life.

For me is looking at clothed hot guys a "simple pleasure" as you quoted it. But looking at hot and NAKED guys is really a big pleasure for me AND my cock - and in that case my brains and my cock have very, very different views! And in this "war" or "fight" mostly the little man down there will be the winner!

 

[jeansGuyOZ]

I'm intrigued by how often I find underpants in the men's changerooom hanging on a hook and obviously forgotten. How do you forget to put on your underpants?

I belong to an underwear fetish site, and many of the guys on there boast about "borrowing" (i.e. stealing) underwear from such places. I don't believe in stealing, underwear or anything else, and I have said so to those people. However if the item is hanging there by itself when I arrive, and two hours later when I leave it's still there, with no other clothing around, it's pretty certain that it's been forgotten and that the owner did not think it important enough to return and claim it. In those cases, when it's my size and a style I like,I have been known to keep them. I recently scored a nice grey thong this way, though I have yet to see any other guy actually wearing a thong in the change room.

 

[mrcrownroyal]

I glance every now and then in the locker room but never stare because that is indeed creepy. I've had it happen to me and I don't like it one bit. My favorites are the straight guys that like attention from anyone because it boosts their egos, so when they learn you're gay they walk by you repeatedly with either their underwear on or nude hoping you'd compliment them on something since they rarely get compliments from women. I've said "cool tattoos" and "nice haircut" plenty of times but never a "nice dick" or "nice ass" lol.

 

[riojackblue]

I play a lot of tennis, and there you go after showering. Because it is not that you look at the others under the shower and make comparisons. But to see such huge cocks as in porn, there was not yet. -LOL-

 

[lgwlgw007]

When I was in high school, the guys would shower in one large shower room. I was always checking out my class mates cocks being careful not to stare. One time I noticed a boy with a really big dick and low hanging balls (my favorite combination). I decided to get friendly with him and did so over time.

One day he invited me over to his house after school . His parents worked full time and would be home for hours. He gave me a tour of the house and when we got to his bedroom he lay down on his bed and asked me to join him which I did. One thing led to another and very soon we were lying naked. I immediately popped a boner and he reached over and played with it. He quickly boned up and it had to be at least 8-9". Needless to say, we had a great time sucking each others dicks and mutually sucking and rimming in a 69. We did this many times I am now in my 70's and often relive those days in my memory.

 

[clubinfernocgn]

in my experience ususally if a guy is interested he'll start making eye contact subtly/looking a second longer than a casual glance in the workout area. If you guys connect like this a couple of times there's a good chance he'll ask you for a spot or just happen to go to the locker room at the same time.

 

[littlebob]

When they bust me checking out their crotches, I lick my lips. 2 out of 3 times it works and soon I am on my knees sucking.

 

[Zander Chrome]

Never had the experience as far as I remember

 

[Shelter]

I'm four times a week in a gym after work. And surely I'll go to the shower room after my exercises are over. And - yes I must confess - I'm looking for the cocks of the other guys. And if they are totally shaved downstairs, I think for myself "a nice cock" or so but if they are in their full beauty of nature there downstairs I've very often problems with my cock because he makes himself self-reliant and I can do what I want nothing will help - I'll get a boner.
But never I've got in trouble because of that - the gym is a gay-gym!

 

[jamesjack]

Of course I look

 

[whtlkn4blknil]

When I've gone to the gym, I've always checked out the guys when I'm changing or when I'm in the shower, but I make sure I don't stare cause I want to make sure I don't accidentally get erect. I'm sure they are checking me out too.

 

[Quietus666]

Never been to a gym but this would be good motivation! xD