Comforting things about life

[Shelter]

Well Dargelos it is not only "my" Buddy but "our" Buddy! And never he will get Belgian, German or Swiss chocolate! - Sometimes I think he would like to get something of it! And he gets too fresh food no canned ones (although sometimes it would be easier for us - but not so very good for him!) He loves most of all as a dessert a bone from a calf. Half an hour and its gone! -

 

[Ioanna]

So for instance if you will share a good Margeaux with me - well, I'm yours!!! -[/QUOTE]

Who ever knows... once in the blue bar?

 

[Shelter]

Who ever knows Ioanna??? !!! -

And really only a Margeaux? -

 

[Ioanna]

Who ever knows Ioanna??? !!! -

And really only a Margeaux? -

I have lying a tasty cuvee from a very good year !!:blushing:

 

[Shelter]

I have lying a tasty cuvee from a very good year !!:blushing:

Ioanna, you really are the greatest!!!!! :thumbs up:

That Cuvee after the Margeaux! Let's meet! p

 

[Ioanna]

That Cuvee after the Margeaux! Let's meet! p[/QUOTE]

Shelter be careful or you'll get another poke of your boyfriend:rofl:

 

[jw4833]

In the year 2004, my life took a tailspin and things that I could never imagined had occurred and then some. Despite those "dark years" as I like to call them, I am very happy and pleased with the individual that I've become and the strength that I've obtained as well. However, what I find to be a comfort in my life over the past several years are my six close friends. These guys are amazing and have proven to me over and over and beyond that there is such a thing as true, genuine friends. I also love the relationship that I have with my late partner's immediate family members. I feel so blessed and fortunate to have them in my life because I am treated like a family member and they always checking on me daily and inviting me to family events or just to have dinner with them. This relationship I find special and comforting because after the passing of my partner, I did not think that I would have this kind of relationship with his family. Also, the relationship I have with my younger sister, Connie. She is the only one in the whole family that keeps in daily contact with me, that shows concern with what is going on in my life and stops by to visit me on occasions. Despite the harassment and ridicule that she has received from my family members for having any contact with me, she is very adamant about maintaining a relationship with me whether they approve or not.....this is what makes this relationship comforting to me.

 

[Shelter]

JW4833 - you have told here a story which only can be signed over as LUCK on one side and misfortune on the other side. But as I have written here LUCK in capital letters so I think happiness and luck dominates your life. Your sister sticks by yourself and the relationship to the family of your late partner is very good and you have very good friends. That is LUCK! Be happy and hope for the day your own family will turn towards yourself again.

 

[Otage]

I don't know, as much I hate to say it, maybe I'm depressed. I just all the time screw up things, no matter how hard I try to please others, family, or just try to be myself, it seems always to be the road to trashcan. I mean why do I try? For who do I try? I always wanna help others, but I just don't believe it's any good. It's always the same shit. Nobody understands you, people question you, you are alone, nothing has beens achieved and you're so confused, that what it even was you were supposed to achieve. Nothing ever works, nothing ever feels good. I don't wanna depress anyone... I'm just lost, always has been maybe. I can't bare it. Things that are said to be strenghtning, like friedns, I'm happy for them of course, but why doesn't that happiness ever reach me, even in small bits? It's all just bullsh*t.

 

[Rebel7]

I don't know, as much I hate to say it, maybe I'm depressed. I just all the time screw up things, no matter how hard I try to please others, family, or just try to be myself, it seems always to be the road to trashcan. I mean why do I try? For who do I try? I always wanna help others, but I just don't believe it's any good. It's always the same shit. Nobody understands you, people question you, you are alone, nothing has beens achieved and you're so confused, that what it even was you were supposed to achieve. Nothing ever works, nothing ever feels good. I don't wanna depress anyone... I'm just lost, always has been maybe. I can't bare it. Things that are said to be strenghtning, like friedns, I'm happy for them of course, but why doesn't that happiness ever reach me, even in small bits? It's all just bullsh*t.

Be your own best friend and see how things settle with yourself. Everyone has a battle going on within themselves. I know i do and in it i'm fighting myself more than any thing else all the fucking time. And guess what, it put a lot of resistance in the daily life. A lot of stuffs going on the battlefield are vanities, things that just take up energy. Still learning to clear up this space and get the life i wanna lead into perspective.
Do the things that makes you feel more alive. It's a good thing to help people, but don't spread yourself too thin just to please others. Once in a while, surprise yourself!

 

[puckinla]

my breath

 

[powermate]

looking out on to trees, hills and clean air

 

[Ioanna]

your favorite Shelter? can not! At least not with me because every year around Christmas, this film played hrrrrrr I'm sick of him already !!~X(
By the way Shelter is that German schaper yours? Magnificent beast ... prettier than SOUND OF MUSIC !!!:rofl:

Unbelievable ... I thought well to get rid of when one is not "The Sound of Music" announced but "Mary Popins" hm hm ... sorry Schelter unfortunately just after Christmas was the first film (for the whole family !!! !) yes ... THE SOUND OF MUSIC !!!! not to believe more than twenty years in a row .... congratulations Schelter and a blessed Christmas wéééééééééééé !!!