Confused LOL

[bimyself1]

ok im 21 years old been gay for like the past 5 years and i'm learning more and more about the gay sex life i under fetishes like feet, leather, and food all that good stuff lol i just want to know what's up with the extreme fetishes like fisting, peeing and feces like what is the sexual arousal and attraction to that?

 

[jaxfltop]

I once saw a porno that had this cute young guy in it. then he took most of a traffic safety cone up the butt and suddenly I wasn't so attracted. I don't understand the last 3 either. so i will just look away and let those people enjoy themselves however they want to. I also like to keep food away from sex, but I can understand and watch that one. As long as it is between two (or more) consenting people that understand what they are doing, it is ok in my book, just don't ask me to watch some of it.

 

[hawtsean]

i just want to know what's up with the extreme fetishes like fisting, peeing and feces like what is the sexual arousal and attraction to that?

To each their own pleasures. Not into scat (feces) or golden showers (urine) myself, but I read up on them in stuff online about kinks and fetishes. I guess it goes way deep into a guy's childhood and stuff. For me it's the health hazard in human waste and the mess/smell factor that turns me off. But if two guys do it and they both agree and they know the risks, well that's their personal shit - pun intended.

 

[XMan101]

These aren't just gay fetishes, they go right across the board!

 

[dargelos]

Just when you think you seen the strangest fetish, something new comes along even more oddball; check out the 'enforced chastity' scene, actualy no, don't check it out, that stuff really is weird. But those people must get some pleasure out of it, they spend enough on all the equipment. Takes all sorts; some men even claim to enjoy (?) playing golf.

 

[topdog]

Does the sight of a hard cock turn you on? That is a fetish. Any object that has an erotic charge for you is a fetish. Some are common, like a cock, but then people diverge and it becomes different for different people. It also will change over the course of your sex life. The flip side is that whatever turns you on, may just as likely be repulsive to someone else. ("You put what in your mouth??") That's just the way it goes.

One of the great discoveries in a sexual relationship is learning to embrace the things that turn on your partner. Something you have never given a second thought to may kick them into high gear. Even if the fetish doesn't do anything for you personally, you may really like the effect it has on your lover.

 

[dargelos]

"You put whatin your mouth??" You could describe any sex act in such a way that the innocent reader would think "why would anyone want to do that?" So from a cold factual description, any unusual kind of sex may sound freaky, kinky, scary even. Only with experience can you know if you love it or hate it?
That is what the golf analogy was about, who would want to pay a lot of money to walk round a large field hitting tiny balls with a metal stick?. Actually lots of people.

 

[Diangelo88]

So from a cold factual description, any unusual kind of sex may sound freaky, kinky, scary even. Only with experience can you know if you love it or hate it?

Agree. That is why I think being open minded is important in life, you can't really judge unless u really know what u're rejecting... though I have my limits in the sexual matter. There are some stuff I haven't thought of trying but if the cirstances come I might just try a bit and see what they're about unless they mean harming myself.