Daddy and Boy relationship

[RazzmaTazz]

I think a relationship like that could work as long as the personalities of the two people are in sync. I have some older friends that we get along great.

Yea, I do find the daddy/boy relationships sexy. I've always been attracted to older men from a young age, and it's one of the porn categories that I find myself watching the most.

Though I don't think that the boy always has to be the bottom. I know some guys my age that prefer to be the top with an older man. Again it goes with what is the most comfortable. Myself, I've always enjoyed being the bottom for a good older top.

 

[buffpaul]

One in a million chance. But even in losing, you still get to play.
I am older, been there, try to stay in my decade now.

 

[Shelter]

One in a million chance. But even in losing, you still get to play.
I am older, been there, try to stay in my decade now.

This sounds very sad. :thinking:

 

[topdog]

Interesting short film about dating outside your generation. Any thoughts?

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[littlebob]

When I was young, I always had sex with guys much older than me. Now that I'm older, I only want sex with guys much younger than me. Is that normal.

 

[Shelter]

I think it is a strange thing, isn't it?! Somethimes I think it would be interesting to be fucked by an older guy ... but then --- I don't know. What the older one has said in the end?: "Never again!" But as well I must admit, that this so called "younger guy" really was a pain in the neck!

But honestly here my question: would really an older guy would have the urgent wish to fuck a twink? Or let me ask the opposite: would a twink here on GH will have the wish to be fucked by an older guy or fuck an older guy?

It would be interesting to read your answers.

 

[topdog]

...But honestly here my question: would really an older guy would have the urgent wish to fuck a twink?...

Uh... yeah! :duh:

Now, long-term relationship may be a different matter. (Though, I've done it and it worked out great for us.) But, I don't know many gentleman of a certain age that would turn down a twink fuck, if they could slip them out the door afterward. (No offense meant to twinks.)

 

[trencherman]

We tend to see the world through prevailing and dominant media coverage but other cultures we hardly hear about have preferences for other than young and callow men. Some Asian group’s preference, for example, for mature or overweight men or Brazilian boys’ tolerance for much older men. I suspect this is an outgrowth of the necessity of several generations living under the same roof which is almost extinct in most Western countries.

 

[Shelter]

Please it was not my intention to abuse older guys with my text. It is my opinion that older guys as well have their horny feelings - but nonetheless it would be for me a strange feeling to make me naked in front of an older man or to have sex with him. And once more that is not to abuse them ... it is only my feeling. Always I would think: it could be my father - and these thoughts would destroy all perhaps existing horny feelings. Sorry, but don't dam me!

On the other hand I must admit, that never before I have done it with an older one. So I cannot speak from experience.

 

[trencherman]

…Please it was not my intention to abuse older guys with my text…Oh Shelter, don’t worry, regulars in this here joint know you enough and won’t think at all that you are that way. Just stating you are not attracted physically to old people does not mean you are putting them down. A lot of us older folks just take it as a given, that physical beauty is just one of the first attributes taken away from us as we age. May be there is an evolutionary reason for us to resemble iguanas as we grow older.

 

[W!nston]

I'm 7 years older than my partner of 37 years. One might say he partnered with an 'older man'. :rofl:

I was by no means a cradle-robber but I have always been attracted to men younger with a slighter build than myself. But I've made exceptions to that rule, too.

I've only been with one man older than me. It was okay but not so much that I ever had a desire to repeat the experience.

I can understand the attraction though. A younger man may feel the older partner offers more than just his good looks. Trust, security, money, experience and other important qualities an older man might offer may make them more attractive to a younger man.

Love is about things above the waste. Sex & lust are about things below the waste. They compliment each other but you must have both for a LTR. So if you are looking for a mate you really should consider above the waste first and below the waste second.

The guy's hair, face, and build are my first check points. His wit and charm are next. Only after he passes those does the below the waste check point come into play. I hope that doesn't sound shallow. I'm just being honest.

I gotta say my partner was beautiful and sexy the moment I first saw him. He felt the same way about me. We offered exactly what each other wanted.

 

[linxinzibin]

When I met my partner,I was a college student and 21,and he was in the late of his 50.I am always attracted to mid-aged mature guys and he is only into younger guys. after being together for more than 14 years,we still love each very much and our relationship become more like family than lovers.We don't have sex as often as we used to,but it doesn't affect me loving him,nor does affect him...So I disagree with someone who said it is not a healthy relationship.

 

[luvboitwinks]

Generation and age gaps can be bridged a host of ways. I've been with guys much younger than I who just wanted a daddy to play with (they loved saying "fuck me daddy" and I loved hearing it - lol) and it was good. Other times I've been with younger guys who truly want to learn new things and to explore sexually but also want some basic life insight (work, relationships, etc.). But for on-going relationships (I've been in 2 that lasted about 6 months each) we had to have some common things we liked such as music or movies and I had to be very open and accepting to the fact they wanted to bar hop and go clubbing when I wanted to get to sleep to work the next day. It can work but sometimes the younger guy needs to be guided as what to expect in a relationship other than some good sex.