Do You Still Keep In Contact With Your Exes?

[Casanova]

As the title asks, do you still maintain some level of contact with you ex-boyfriend, ex-partner or anyone of that nature in past relationships?

If you do, is the contact a civil one or somewhat of a heartbreak? If you don't keep in contact with them have you ever wished things ended up differently?

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As for me, I have no contact with my ex-boyfriends as both relationships ended on a really nasty and sour path. The first one just left and vanished off the face of the earth and the other was unfaithful. Both instances seemed unforgivable, yet I know of some people who had nasty break-ups and are now friends.

So do you still keep in contact with your exes?

 

[latinoboy21]

Good question.
I'd have to say that out of the three boyfriends that I've had so far I've kept in contact with all three of them until a few months back. I only talk to two of them
The third one cheated on me...it was horrible. I had a lot of feelings for him, yet despite that, a year after we were back to being "friends", i guess you can say. But i just decided i didn't needed him in my life anyways, so i just completely ignored him.

My other two, I still talk to them, in fact one of them is a REALLY REALLY good friend of mine, now.

I see no problem with that because I know deep down in me that everything is left completely in the past, however my current boyfriend doesn't see it that way.
Of course, I totally understand him. It's hard for him to know I still keep in contact with two of my three exes but we both have strong trust in each other. Plus, I commit to someone when I'm in a relationship. It has never crossed my mind to be unfaithful to anyone...i see no point.

 

[dancap48066]

One yes, one no. The no was a pathological liar so I don't associate with him on any level.
The last ex (we broke up 2 years ago) is still a great guy, just we weren't good together anymore. Our goals went separate ways, but we decided we could be friends and still hang out on occasion (though we have no sex). Many people still think we are secretly dating because we still get along so well and hang out on weekends once or twice a month. It may look that way, but I constantly tell people it's not. I have dated a few men in the past 2 years (hopefully people will believe we're not seeing one another when I bring home the new boyfriend..if that happens).

 

[pfantasmes]

All But one that ended very nastily. But gradually lost contact when I move to another part of the coutry

 

[loveless92]

Only one ex and no.

 

[JonnyFantastico]

I tried to be someone who remained in contact with my ex-boyfriends... you share something so intimate with them and it doesn't always go away so easily. I'm not saying that you stay in love with them, but sometimes, there is a huge connection. But alas, it doesn't always work out that way. Many of them hurt me too deeply and others, you just lose contact with. Some people change even more than you could have ever expected.

There is one ex I have maintained a bit of a friendship with over the years. It's weird, because he probably put me through the worst pains I have ever felt on a constant basis. There were many times where I tried to disconnect from him and there were many arguments that usually led about our relationship... we're somewhere now where we do keep it cordial and are decent friends. It can still be pretty tough, though... but I try to be mature about it. There's no interest there to have anything other than friendship, though.

 

[ThatGayForum]

I'm actually friends with one of my exs (hes actually from the relationship I had that ended the worst). None of my relationships really ended THAT badly. I just found it a little too awkward to stay friends with most of my exs =/

 

[noone82465]

i dont see them.

 

[DMsBoy]

There's only really one ex out of the like 4 physical ones I've had that I DON'T Keep in contact with, and that's because he's two-faced, but most of the time I will keep a level of civility with my exe's.

 

[chema]

I'm a very good friend of my ex.
We didn't want to follow as boy-friends, but our friendship is important for us.

 

[jaxfltop]

One of my exes is my roommate and no there is no sex at all. Another is a very good friend and when he is in a jam and needs a place to stay for a few months he comes here. The girls I dated mostly just disappeared. Maybe guys can handle it better.

 

[Quickhamma]

I have had 1 ex and we have a stronger friendship now than the 13 weeks we were lovers.