Does it really hurt?

[cute-zozo]

does it heart in te first time u make sex ?
i just wondering because i am in relationship and maybe we will move to the next level ........

 

[Otage]

does it heart in te first time u make sex ?
i just wondering because i am in relationship and maybe we will move to the next level ........

You are brobably meaning, does the anal sex hurt? Cause blow jobs and stuff usually don't hurt.

Go slowly, relax, be comfortable, remember to breath. Lubricant is a must, and some rimming and fingering may help you get adjusted to the feeling of something penetrating into you.
After all these methods, it can still hurt a bit, but going slowly, and once you get bit hang of the movement, the pleasure begins

But remember to be carefull, take it slow. If there's great amount of pain, you are not enough relaxed, or you are starting with something too big, or there isn't enough lube.

The first guy who penetrated me, just kept saying, that it's supposed to hurt, and that the best thing is just to shove it in, and the pain will stop. Not the right way to go!:duh:

 

[Hyp]

make sure you're clean down there and try practicing with your finger(s) and maybe a small toy first.

 

[garth33]

you should also wait 30 minutes after eating....oh wait, no that's swimming.

NEVERMIND

g33

 

[kwhotboi]

Very important, lots of lube and take it slow the first time. Remember to breathe deeply and have the top enter you slowly until he is all the way in, then tell him to just stay still for a few minutes until you get used to his filling you deep. Once you are relaxed and feel ready, ask him to start moving inside of you slowly and to gradually increase the speed and depth. That way you will be ready when he s in you the first time. Close your eyes and just learn to feel him in you. It does get better the more you get fucked.
Any more questions, PM me here.

 

[xenos]

Remember this. If it hurts too much, you have the right to say no to him. If you say no and he won't stop, that is not love or even sex. It is rape and that is never acceptable.

 

[tonka]

Keep in mind that it should get better with practice.

You'll be more relaxed and confident. You'll also understand better what your ass does and does not like. Different angles and positions work for different guys.

 

[wretch]

just take your time, you've got all night
you'll both know when you're ready
and when he's in look into his eyes and embrace him

 

[Shelter]

and when he's in look into his eyes and embrace him

Wretch - this is the best phrase I've ever read. That is the expression of love! pppp

 

[trencherman]

Of course it hurts, but like the gambler who chases the lost money with good money, it’s the sunk cost that keeps the bottom in agony to holding the course, you know, in pursuit of the promised pleasure after the pain but just like opportunity, sometimes it never knocks.

 

[lovetosuckcock]

I've never felt any pain from anal.

 

[skntn]

Use plenty of lube. Slowly open yourself up with a finger, then two or toys of increasing girth. Better yet, have your partner do it.