First timer..

[peristeri]

I know it sounds really stupid but i would like an advice. I m almost 22 and never had sex before. I ve only come to be more open and get to meet people round the age of 18. I never had a boyfriend or something but there is this thing going on with a guy and i was wondering...

a) What to avoid the first time?
b) Which position is more comfortable and wont be painful?

tnx guys :blushing:

 

[lhardwick69]

number 1--only do what you feel comfortable in doing some things ight be awkward at first but its knew to you--



answer to number two there will be some pain minor discomfort your first time getting screwed--no way away from it but hopefully you meet a guy that uderstands it is your first time and maybe he will love rimming a long time and maybe finger your ass for a while with alot of lube---another thiing you cando is buy you a toy a small one or skinny one with a little length and some lube and work it in yourself that way it will loosen you up a little but your asshole will retract back to its normal tightness--takes alot of fuckin to get it really loose--but the toy/dildo--isnt as good as the real thing--

 

[gb2000ie]

The single most important thing to remember is that you should never feel pressured to have sex, or to bottom, or to do anything. Take it easy, and just do what comes natural. Maybe you don't get around to penetrative sex the first time, so what, there's plenty of time to get there naturally and comfortably!

If you're doing it right, sex without fucking is not an anti-climax or failure, it can be fantastic fun!

When ever you do get around to bottoming, if you do, remember to use plenty of lube, and to take it slow. Done right it should be every bit as enjoyable for the bottom as the top! Also - remember that you should only ever get fucked by someone you really trust. You don't want anyone you don't have total trust in putting anything up your ass ever! That's a sure-fire way to get hurt and to really not enjoy what should be a fabulous experience.

In short - have fun, and don't be pressured into anything.

B.

 

[json11]

Only do what you feel comfortable with and when your ready and you will enjoy yourself and the person who is lucky enough to be with you.

 

[diklik]

Love and sex can be wonderful together or as totally separate acts. If you like someone, and they seem to respond equally, try just lying nude together in bed, gently touching and kissing each other and enjoying their close and intimate presence. If you get sufficiently aroused to have sex, do it slow until you are comfortable. Telling your prospective partner that you are new to all this, should immediately clue him in to take it slow along with you. If all you get is a response that indicates a preference for "wham bam , sigh", he is probably not the best partner - at least not at this time.

 

[rant17]

HAHAHA im exactly in your position however im very busy with work so i guess extra activities would have to wait just a while longer, though my eyes can't stop wandering!

Dude i reccomend you love yourself, it sounds sad but trust me, if you love yourself others will love you, trust me i know, i love myself, maybe a tad too much

 

[nidorino]

Dude i reccomend you love yourself, it sounds sad but trust me, if you love yourself others will love you, trust me i know, i love myself, maybe a tad too much

LOL thats actually really true!!! the more u appreciate urself the more others will find u attractive! Its a fact!

W regards to ur first time, you can chose... would u rather do a "trial run" before actually trying to get w someone u care about, or would u rather ur first be w someone u care. That depends on ur personality... I personally wanted to just finally have sex and i did a "trial run" and it was a bad experience cause i wasnt really attracted to him... so i just stared at the ceiling the whole time... so a little caveat.

Thats my little imput based on my experience