From top to bottom... seriously

[Askani]

Erm... I never thought that I'd be in this position(asking and trying it) but seriously any1 else had "issues with the transition" or the new experience, it just seems impossible for me, and I built up so much courage as well hahahahaha... words of encouragement or experience are welcome please ~X( it's frustrating to finally go for it now that I'm 28 and fail terribly.

 

[c750dt]

I used to be a top until I realized that as a bottom, I can watch TV and smoke a cigarette and play with my phone during sex.

 

[Sinnerr]

I also was top only in my sexual beginings. In following time I've experieced being bottom. In first times I had to quelling myself. But I've started to enjoying it more and more. Today I am versatile and like being bottom a little bit more (of course with top who knows what to do it well).

I'd say every gay men is able to be both. And it's kinda foolish to me if some refuses one of these roles, It's one of unique chances what being gay brings, fuck and being fucked.

 

[tonka]

Practice, practice, practice.
Lube, lube, lube.

You can also practice on your own to get the feel of it. Our modern age is full of naughty toys.

 

[Askani]

I suppose it's mostly my fault then to pick a inexperienced straight guy as my first top then... well that was obviously unwise of me but the way things ended up happening, I just thought "it's now or never" since I wanted to try it anyway and I was drunk enough...

 

[whtlkn4blknil]

I always thought growing up I would be a top and would never be a bottom until I first experienced being a bottom. Now that I have experienced being a bottom, I'm a versatible bottom, (more of a bottom than a top) and loving it. There's nothing like ming with a hard rod up your butt.

 

[greglio]

I always thought growing up I would be a top and would never be a bottom until I first experienced being a bottom. Now that I have experienced being a bottom, I'm a versatible bottom, (more of a bottom than a top) and loving it. There's nothing like ming with a hard rod up your butt.

There you go! The last sentence is the practical universal truth man! I feel the same way too :

 

[Askani]

Practice, practice, practice.
Lube, lube, lube.

You can also practice on your own to get the feel of it. Our modern age is full of naughty toys.

Hehe... well I suppose that's the natural way to go, that's also how I'd tell a beginner how to go for it as well but... if not a "go with the flow" situation it's kinda hard for me to get started, I seem to lose all of my usual strength and confidence when I think that I want to be the bottom.

 

[c750dt]

^The lube itself also makes a difference. You don't have to buy anything fancy but the $2 generic might not exactly have you feeling too great. It's almost like underwear in that it's doing an important job and if you make the wrong choice, your private parts are gonna be paying for that.

 

[Askani]

^The lube itself also makes a difference. You don't have to buy anything fancy but the $2 generic might not exactly have you feeling too great. It's almost like underwear in that it's doing an important job and if you make the wrong choice, your private parts are gonna be paying for that.

Tell me about it, when I asked if he had any lube to help and noticed that he actually thought that licks would be enough... I knew that I was done for, he was desperate when he noticed it was the first time too, poor thing.

 

[tonka]

First licks...then lube.
I know there is edible lube, but I'm not a fan.