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Do you think any one who is gay for pay is truly straight? I don't the straight guys I know would not go near a cock for any amount of money. For me when I find out that a guy is gay for pay I lose interest in him.
 

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This topic of discussion has been brought up on this forum several times and I personally feel the same as you do when it comes to so-called gay for pay. I have straight friends who agrees with me and they feel also that if a guy allows himself to perform sexual acts with another guy in private and better yet on video for many others to see..then they are in denial about their sexual orientation or either bisexual. In fact, I can recall having this conversation with a porn actor who was very popular a few years ago and he was a versatile performer in the majority of his videos. However, what surprised me was one night he and I were chatting and I was telling him about a situation that turned sexual between myself and a so-called straight guy which he initiated and after we have sex...he would make a point to announce that he is straight and what happened was my fault. Anyway...this is when I found out that this porn actor was not gay...but straight and in a committed relationship with a woman. He and I would go back and forth about this all the time because he would contact me at three times a week just to chat. He would tell me that when he would be performing in videos that he would not focus on the male partner he was with and would have straight porn going in the background which helped him get an erection and ejaculate. However, in his videos...it was obvious that he was really into the male on male sex by his movements and facial expressions, etc. With that being said...this is a debatable topic because everyone has their perspective on how they view this as you can see from RockNLol's response which many guys have had similar responses as him. Its a never ending debate...
 

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Some straights take a more practical view.

 

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"if a guy allows himself to perform sexual acts with another guy in private and better yet on video for many others to see.. then they are in denial about their sexual orientation or either bisexual."

How judgemental one can be...

No one has to be "in denial" about anything: if a guy is horny, wants to get his cock sucked + is in shortage of money he'll offer his schlong for suckin' and I'll gladly do it. I'm pretty tired of all this sanctimonious identitarian prayers, creeds, and confessions.

My experience is, that the tricky thing seldom is the actual sucking / getting sucked. The difficult thing is to SAY things so that others may hear.
 

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I can't say it's troubled me one way or the other.

I'm gay and I know it, but in my younger days I did have sex with three different women. Certainly money and cameras weren't involved, but I was functional every time. It'd be a lie to say it wasn't pleasurable, but I also knew it wasn't where my heart's desire lay. Each of those women knew I'd been with men, and didn't care and still led the dance, so to speak.

I've also had affairs with married men that were just as fully functional with me, but didn't leave their wives and kids for me either, and for all I know, didn't continue on with affairs with other men after me.

If favorites of mine like Paddy O'Brian and Colby Jansen identify as straight in their off-duty hours, I wish them all the happiness in the world, and still salute them for the performances and pleasure they've provided. Porn is product, and if that particular product stiffens my dick, it's successful. That's all I ask of it, and the private lives of its various performers is their own business, and none of mine.
 

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"if a guy allows himself to perform sexual acts with another guy in private and better yet on video for many others to see.. then they are in denial about their sexual orientation or either bisexual."

How judgemental one can be...

No one has to be "in denial" about anything: if a guy is horny, wants to get his cock sucked + is in shortage of money he'll offer his schlong for suckin' and I'll gladly do it. I'm pretty tired of all this sanctimonious identitarian prayers, creeds, and confessions.

My experience is, that the tricky thing seldom is the actual sucking / getting sucked. The difficult thing is to SAY things so that others may hear.

Hey..that is your opinion and its to be respected and accepted just like I am accepting your perspective on this subject matter as well. Now.. my straight friends and I don't agree with your analogy of this and that's fine..this is America..free speech..but I don't consider you to be judgmental with your response....its your opinion that's all...no need to be harsh and crude...:duh:
 
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