Getting dumped? share stories

[colliderus]

I've been dating someone for two months. We get along well, fooling around is not bad. I wouldn't say I'm in love yet though, but I care.

Now I'm getting one or two syllable replies to my texts."k" "sure do" "oh ok"

I know there are many worse ways to get dumped, but it still feels like crap!:worried:

It's my first time dealing with rejection when i thought things were good. I'm eating like crazy! 2 pizzas, 2 cheeseburgers, fries, 100 sodas, lots of candy all today... I'm a small guy here[or was].

I know I've been spoiled. Probably won't be the last time i get dumped.

 

[jw4833]

Hey Colliderus:

You know, it's not worth it!!! ...here you are eating yourself away with all kinds of foods which is not bringing this guy back to you. In fact, he is probably somewhere doing his thing, while you are grieving over him. I feel that there is always a reason or purpose for something to happen in your life...good or bad. More than likely, he is doing you a favor. Therefore, YOU are screwing yourself up..because there could be someone else who could appear in your life that is far better than what you just had..but I have to say that gulping all kinds of junk food down your throat is not doing you any good. I remember years ago when I became very friendly with a guy who used to frequent the bar that I worked at and once feelings prevailed from both parties, his friends gave him much grief because of the different ethnic backgrounds. This is something that I do not pay attention to because I view a person from their personality and their mannerism, not their color. Therefore, due to the pressure from his confidants, he ended our relationship. But you know, it was his lost, not mine..in fact, it was a blessing in disguise. With all that being said..DUST YOURSELF OFF!!..GET YOUR ASS IN GEAR!!!..AND STOP WASTING TIME AND GET OUT ENJOY LIFE!!!!