There's no doubt about it - it is much more difficult to be yourself than to follow everyone else, if being yourself means wearing your hair an unfashionable length, having sexual desires that are different from what society expects, following an unpopular religion, or following no religion at all if you are surrounded by people whose lives are dominated by a particular religion. Much easier to just go with the flow. But think: at the end of your life, if you have the opportunity to reflect on your time spent living on this planet, will you look back proudly and say "I did what I was told"?
Better to say "I
did what I was told" than to say "I
didn't what I was told and now I'm dying poor and at the edge of the society"?
You can be
yourself in your spare time. At your workplace you have yourself to assimilate to the terms of your boss and employer. Nothing more nothing less! As I have said before: during your time at your workplace you can wear your long hair as a pony tail - and everything will be OK (to my mind!).
I'm 29, so you can see I'm not an old crock, but I'm since a long time as well an employer with some employees. And beside of the professional qualification I'll emphasize a decent, confidence-inspiring personal appearance. Which means decent clothes, haircut and most of all friendliness and courtesy. All these things toghether will make it possible that I can pay my employees their salaries.
Not our
"being yourself" is running my office - but my customers are doing that! And if these customers don't feel good because I will be
myself at first - very soon the flow of money will stop. And then? What then shall I ask myself?
I have to fire my employees (for which I have a responsibility!!!) only because I wanted to be myself and didn't what I was told?
Please see it from this point of view. So it is in my office, so it is in the most offices here in Germany and I think too in Australia, USA or wherever!