Having sex with a fuckbuddy or with boyfriend.

[HaiqalEric]

What's the difference?

 

[lhardwick69]

well a fuck buddy is a guy there to have sex with time to time and have nsa with him a boyfriend is one you love and pledge to be with him and only him

 

[Shelter]

well a fuck buddy is a guy there to have sex with time to time and have nsa with him a boyfriend is one you love and pledge to be with him and only him

That is more than true - and nothing is lovelier and more gorgeous than to have a loving boyfriend. I don't want to miss my BF. My life is so much richer than without him! p

 

[jw4833]

Well for me...a fuck buddy is someone whom you have sex with periodically when you are a single person. A boyfriend is someone that I feel you devote yourself to solely with no other parties involved.

 

[j515253]

A fuck buddy is purely for lust. Whereas boyfriend is someone who is there for you for all aspects of your life. Including sex

 

[Otage]

Fuckbuddy is for some serios fun, and boyfriend is just an everyday apparition... Everyday!:rofl: Well no, but I tend to get bored if I see the person I'm having sex with too often. Brolly cause haven't found the right guy, and when with wrong guy things start to go too far, my intuition want's to bail, and I do have 100% trust for it But regular fuckbuddy can after time start to feel more than just fuckbuddy, which is also a great time to bail:rofl:

 

[drakepeter]

Having a boy friend is great but can be a lot of work. For me there is nothing like a fuck buddy.

 

[Shelter]

Having a boy friend is great but can be a lot of work.

That is totally correct - but for both parts. A quickie with an occasional fuckbuddy may be good to dissipate sexual tensions. OK why not!?

But to have a boyfriend means to live with him, knowing him and loving him. Surely there will be controversials and sometimes too severe controversials. But me and my boyfriend are two self-dependent persons and we have had to learn to correspond. And if you have learned this, it is my opinion, you can have with your boyfriend a wonderful and fulfilled life.

 

[Otage]

But to have a boyfriend means to live with him, knowing him and loving him. Surely there will be controversials and sometimes too severe controversials. But me and my boyfriend are two self-dependent persons and we have had to learn to correspond. And if you have learned this, it is my opinion, you can have with your boyfriend a wonderful and fulfilled life.

It seem like you and your boyfriend have good thing going on, and I've noticed you talk about him a lot, and that's great I've never been in serious relationship, and I have always wondered about that committed to only eachother, like sex with the same person only. Ofcourse there are open relationships etc. but don't you ever think sex with someone else? I'm just curious, cause like I've said, never been in serious relationship myself And yeah, I can imagine that it's wonderfull when you have found someone you really feel like you belong to, both ways:blushing:

 

[richardbb]

Just like Shelter, I have a committed relationship and I love every bit of it. Do we find other guys attractive? Absolutely!
So we're actually thinking about finding a friend we could do things with - but it would in any case be something we do together, as a couple

 

[Shelter]

It seem like you and your boyfriend have good thing going on, and I've noticed you talk about him a lot, and that's great I've never been in serious relationship, and I have always wondered about that committed to only eachother, like sex with the same person only. Ofcourse there are open relationships etc. but don't you ever think sex with someone else? I'm just curious, cause like I've said, never been in serious relationship myself And yeah, I can imagine that it's wonderfull when you have found someone you really feel like you belong to, both ways:blushing:

Surely we have thoughts or fantasies to have sex with other guys. At the start of our relationship we have had three and foursomes with friends. But in the meantime we do it only with both of us. He has asked me some day if I would be faithful to him and if we could do it only for both of us. Well to that time I've been 20 or 21 and he was 23 or 24 and I must decide he or free sex. But because he is really a very good lover and he knows what I like and reverse, so I decided for him - and today we are now nearly 28 and 31 and I'm very happy so like it is. I get what I want and he too. I'm a loving bottom and he is a very strong and persistent lover.
Well now I have told you our bedroom secret! :blushing::blushing::blushing:

 

[lovetosuckcock]

Surely we have thoughts or fantasies to have sex with other guys. At the start of our relationship we have had three and foursomes with friends. But in the meantime we do it only with both of us. He has asked me some day if I would be faithful to him and if we could do it only for both of us. Well to that time I've been 20 or 21 and he was 23 or 24 and I must decide he or free sex. But because he is really a very good lover and he knows what I like and reverse, so I decided for him - and today we are now nearly 28 and 31 and I'm very happy so like it is. I get what I want and he too. I'm a loving bottom and he is a very strong and persistent lover.
Well now I have told you our bedroom secret! :blushing::blushing::blushing:

When in a committed relationship that is the best way.

 

[Otage]

Surely we have thoughts or fantasies to have sex with other guys. At the start of our relationship we have had three and foursomes with friends. But in the meantime we do it only with both of us. He has asked me some day if I would be faithful to him and if we could do it only for both of us. Well to that time I've been 20 or 21 and he was 23 or 24 and I must decide he or free sex. But because he is really a very good lover and he knows what I like and reverse, so I decided for him - and today we are now nearly 28 and 31 and I'm very happy so like it is. I get what I want and he too. I'm a loving bottom and he is a very strong and persistent lover.
Well now I have told you our bedroom secret! :blushing::blushing::blushing:

Well I can get the closeness, the being there, support, knowing eachother, but I just can't get over the idea of sex with the same guy over and over again. I mean if I spend week with same guy with no time of my own, that already feels like I'm starting to get bored and irritated by the whole person. But it's just brolly me I love the closeness, cuddling, but but... well maybe I haven't just met enough good guy, or for relationship just isn't for everybody. Been kinda my own persona from the very beginning And marriage, well clever financially if you wanna secure your back, but otherviseh go on: Just my opinnion! But anyways, I'm happy that you are happy, and I don't mean to slander your relationship or anything, maybe I'm just confused or opening up to a new views

 

[Shelter]

Well I can get the closeness, the being there, support, knowing eachother, but I just can't get over the idea of sex with the same guy over and over again. I mean if I spend week with same guy with no time of my own, that already feels like I'm starting to get bored and irritated by the whole person. But it's just brolly me I love the closeness, cuddling, but but... well maybe I haven't just met enough good guy, or for relationship just isn't for everybody. Been kinda my own persona from the very beginning And marriage, well clever financially if you wanna secure your back, but otherviseh go on: Just my opinnion! But anyways, I'm happy that you are happy, and I don't mean to slander your relationship or anything, maybe I'm just confused or opening up to a new views

Otage there is nothing wrong with your feelings! Many of my/our friends think like you and don't understand our relationship. But we feel good and don't want to miss one the other. And believe me truly both of us have or take time for our own. That is something we need and what we do. We have in our house a joint living room as well as a joint bed-room, but too for each of us a room four our own, where we can retreat if we want.

 

[richardbb]

I mean if I spend week with same guy with no time of my own, that already feels like I'm starting to get bored and irritated by the whole person.

Being in a relationship doesn't mean you have to cling to each other all the time ;-)
Alone-time is just as important in a long-time relationship. Some people even like to have separate bedrooms to make sure they never *have* to be together. Because after all, that's what a relationship is about: You *want* to be together. Once it becomes a chore, the quality of your relationship will inevitably degrade.

 

[Otage]

Being in a relationship doesn't mean you have to cling to each other all the time ;-)
Alone-time is just as important in a long-time relationship. Some people even like to have separate bedrooms to make sure they never *have* to be together. Because after all, that's what a relationship is about: You *want* to be together. Once it becomes a chore, the quality of your relationship will inevitably degrade.

Aah THAT I think is the real key here, I haven't met guy like that. So simple! After a while it has always felt like a chore. But the best way for me to meet that guy, is to keep looking and browsing threw the selection I'm already doing it!:thumbs up:

 

[Fwip]

I once had a really good FWB. We'd hangout, eat pizza, play video games, and then fuck if we got horny. We loved eachother platonically. Best friends. It just never was romantic. He moved and we lost touch.

 

[OLMPKY]

I would want a BF instead of a FB.

 

[Shelter]

I would want a BF instead of a FB.

Uore that's a statement and a wish deep from your heart - so I feel! And you are totally right! pppp

 

[grimgasm]

What about having sex with an ex-boyfriend? What do you think about that?

I fuck with an ex from time to time. We were together for 8 months 7 years ago. We are now good friends, I trust him and I really care for him, but we aren't interested in each other in a romantic way anymore. I can't explain it really well (also, I don't speak english, so it's kinda hard for me to write in this language), but it's like we still have this sexual connection.