Sk8erBoiZach
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Ok i've never posted on here before but i have not many peopel to talk to about this.
School started tuesday, i go to a pretty big college (meaning the campus is huge) and met this guy named P, I never carry my books around because i have classes all over so when we needed to look at our books i asked if i could share with him (btw he came and sat next to me out of 300 other students) and he very willingly said yes. As the class went on the teachers accent got really starnge to listen to and we both laughed and looked at each other. Then we started talking about school stuff, and he told me hes taking Calc, Ballet (cuz hes been doing it since a kid), Bible class (confusing to me), a language....and he told me hes a Computer Science major. We're the same age (18) but im a sophomore. Anyways, he really looks into your eyes when he talks, and hes just super attractive.
So the second day, i went in early and the seats on both sides of me filled so as he walked in i grabbed my bag and went up and sat next to him, forgetting my book (purposely)....and we got to talking about other school things and a little bit about where we grew up etc....
when class ended i asked for his number, and he said txt me so i can get urs, and if i wanted to study i should contact him. So then we proceeded to get out and he had 15 min to get to his class but since the school is so big he had to run teh first day but he walked with me this time for the majority of the way and then he had to run (literally) when he had 2 min left.
So i'm done with my day i go and grab coffee i see a text on my phone that says if u wanna study sunday im free.....i was intrigued why he wants to meet on a sunday, but i wasn't gonna refuse so i said yea, and where he wanted to meet on campus. He txted back saying he would rather me go to his dorm.....
SO:
I do not know hes gay, normally ballet would definitely be a sign, but hes in a bible class out of the hundreds of history/religion classes he could have picked.
But, he does seem very engaging when we're together he leans in to talk to me even though the auditorium seats are very closely packed together.
Also, we've only had 2 class sessions and the homework's aren't very hard he seems to know the material fine, as for me other than i cant understand half the things my professor says i can learn teh material through the book easily.
And even if we were to study it wouldn't take any longer than 30 minutes to cover last weeks lecture.
SO does he want to do something more than studying? or get to know me better? I mean the way i look at it is if he just wanted to study why cant we just meet at a library, theres one in every corner.
Normally when someone invites you to their dorm its pretty personal right? Plus he approached me, so does he like me or interested in sex or both? Or worse, is he straight?
Thanks for the help in advance
UPDATE:
Ok just got done, i asked to take him to lunch he responded "definitely!" so we had lunch talked about school and life....our roommates....then we went back to his dorm which looked pretty normal, we had ten problems to go over and its just calc 1 so its not like anything super intricate but we ended up spending three hours on it plus talking in-between. and the thing was he asked his roommate if he could go get lunch and close the door while we were there...no one made a move except i have pretty long legs so when i was sitting my shorts ridded up quite a bit and he wasnt uncomfortable about accidentally touching my thigh while flipping the pages, and i leaned in close to him when i tried to explain like he would do and he didnt back away (at one point we looked right into each other and i totally lost my train of thought and there was a few seconds pause)
and.....im embarrassed to admit it but i looked closely into his closet when he went to the bathroom, i didnt open the drawers or touch anything so its not like i was snooping. but he uses a few skincare stuff and body moisturizer, and he has a few colorful shoes.....
then he came out and said your teh first person im telling this to but i asked out a girl (hes known her since last tuesday) and we ended up going to her room. i first expected just some average girl, but she had a nice haircut and tall and lean and slim, i even liked her taste in music....
what do you guys think? is he just a really cool understanding guy or he might be bi?
School started tuesday, i go to a pretty big college (meaning the campus is huge) and met this guy named P, I never carry my books around because i have classes all over so when we needed to look at our books i asked if i could share with him (btw he came and sat next to me out of 300 other students) and he very willingly said yes. As the class went on the teachers accent got really starnge to listen to and we both laughed and looked at each other. Then we started talking about school stuff, and he told me hes taking Calc, Ballet (cuz hes been doing it since a kid), Bible class (confusing to me), a language....and he told me hes a Computer Science major. We're the same age (18) but im a sophomore. Anyways, he really looks into your eyes when he talks, and hes just super attractive.
So the second day, i went in early and the seats on both sides of me filled so as he walked in i grabbed my bag and went up and sat next to him, forgetting my book (purposely)....and we got to talking about other school things and a little bit about where we grew up etc....
when class ended i asked for his number, and he said txt me so i can get urs, and if i wanted to study i should contact him. So then we proceeded to get out and he had 15 min to get to his class but since the school is so big he had to run teh first day but he walked with me this time for the majority of the way and then he had to run (literally) when he had 2 min left.
So i'm done with my day i go and grab coffee i see a text on my phone that says if u wanna study sunday im free.....i was intrigued why he wants to meet on a sunday, but i wasn't gonna refuse so i said yea, and where he wanted to meet on campus. He txted back saying he would rather me go to his dorm.....
SO:
I do not know hes gay, normally ballet would definitely be a sign, but hes in a bible class out of the hundreds of history/religion classes he could have picked.
But, he does seem very engaging when we're together he leans in to talk to me even though the auditorium seats are very closely packed together.
Also, we've only had 2 class sessions and the homework's aren't very hard he seems to know the material fine, as for me other than i cant understand half the things my professor says i can learn teh material through the book easily.
And even if we were to study it wouldn't take any longer than 30 minutes to cover last weeks lecture.
SO does he want to do something more than studying? or get to know me better? I mean the way i look at it is if he just wanted to study why cant we just meet at a library, theres one in every corner.
Normally when someone invites you to their dorm its pretty personal right? Plus he approached me, so does he like me or interested in sex or both? Or worse, is he straight?
Thanks for the help in advance
UPDATE:
Ok just got done, i asked to take him to lunch he responded "definitely!" so we had lunch talked about school and life....our roommates....then we went back to his dorm which looked pretty normal, we had ten problems to go over and its just calc 1 so its not like anything super intricate but we ended up spending three hours on it plus talking in-between. and the thing was he asked his roommate if he could go get lunch and close the door while we were there...no one made a move except i have pretty long legs so when i was sitting my shorts ridded up quite a bit and he wasnt uncomfortable about accidentally touching my thigh while flipping the pages, and i leaned in close to him when i tried to explain like he would do and he didnt back away (at one point we looked right into each other and i totally lost my train of thought and there was a few seconds pause)
and.....im embarrassed to admit it but i looked closely into his closet when he went to the bathroom, i didnt open the drawers or touch anything so its not like i was snooping. but he uses a few skincare stuff and body moisturizer, and he has a few colorful shoes.....
then he came out and said your teh first person im telling this to but i asked out a girl (hes known her since last tuesday) and we ended up going to her room. i first expected just some average girl, but she had a nice haircut and tall and lean and slim, i even liked her taste in music....
what do you guys think? is he just a really cool understanding guy or he might be bi?
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