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HELP: Cute guy i like at school invited me to his dorm

Sk8erBoiZach

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Ok i've never posted on here before but i have not many peopel to talk to about this.
School started tuesday, i go to a pretty big college (meaning the campus is huge) and met this guy named P, I never carry my books around because i have classes all over so when we needed to look at our books i asked if i could share with him (btw he came and sat next to me out of 300 other students) and he very willingly said yes. As the class went on the teachers accent got really starnge to listen to and we both laughed and looked at each other. Then we started talking about school stuff, and he told me hes taking Calc, Ballet (cuz hes been doing it since a kid), Bible class (confusing to me), a language....and he told me hes a Computer Science major. We're the same age (18) but im a sophomore. Anyways, he really looks into your eyes when he talks, and hes just super attractive.

So the second day, i went in early and the seats on both sides of me filled so as he walked in i grabbed my bag and went up and sat next to him, forgetting my book (purposely)....and we got to talking about other school things and a little bit about where we grew up etc....

when class ended i asked for his number, and he said txt me so i can get urs, and if i wanted to study i should contact him. So then we proceeded to get out and he had 15 min to get to his class but since the school is so big he had to run teh first day but he walked with me this time for the majority of the way and then he had to run (literally) when he had 2 min left.

So i'm done with my day i go and grab coffee i see a text on my phone that says if u wanna study sunday im free.....i was intrigued why he wants to meet on a sunday, but i wasn't gonna refuse so i said yea, and where he wanted to meet on campus. He txted back saying he would rather me go to his dorm.....

SO:
I do not know hes gay, normally ballet would definitely be a sign, but hes in a bible class out of the hundreds of history/religion classes he could have picked.

But, he does seem very engaging when we're together he leans in to talk to me even though the auditorium seats are very closely packed together.

Also, we've only had 2 class sessions and the homework's aren't very hard he seems to know the material fine, as for me other than i cant understand half the things my professor says i can learn teh material through the book easily.

And even if we were to study it wouldn't take any longer than 30 minutes to cover last weeks lecture.

SO does he want to do something more than studying? or get to know me better? I mean the way i look at it is if he just wanted to study why cant we just meet at a library, theres one in every corner.

Normally when someone invites you to their dorm its pretty personal right? Plus he approached me, so does he like me or interested in sex or both? Or worse, is he straight?

Thanks for the help in advance

UPDATE:

Ok just got done, i asked to take him to lunch he responded "definitely!" so we had lunch talked about school and life....our roommates....then we went back to his dorm which looked pretty normal, we had ten problems to go over and its just calc 1 so its not like anything super intricate but we ended up spending three hours on it plus talking in-between. and the thing was he asked his roommate if he could go get lunch and close the door while we were there...no one made a move except i have pretty long legs so when i was sitting my shorts ridded up quite a bit and he wasnt uncomfortable about accidentally touching my thigh while flipping the pages, and i leaned in close to him when i tried to explain like he would do and he didnt back away (at one point we looked right into each other and i totally lost my train of thought and there was a few seconds pause)

and.....im embarrassed to admit it but i looked closely into his closet when he went to the bathroom, i didnt open the drawers or touch anything so its not like i was snooping. but he uses a few skincare stuff and body moisturizer, and he has a few colorful shoes.....

then he came out and said your teh first person im telling this to but i asked out a girl (hes known her since last tuesday) and we ended up going to her room. i first expected just some average girl, but she had a nice haircut and tall and lean and slim, i even liked her taste in music....

what do you guys think? is he just a really cool understanding guy or he might be bi?
 
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You'll find out when you go. If he's been taking ballet for years, it doesn't mean he's gay. But it certainly means he's been around gay people for many years. it also means he has a ballet boy ass!!!
Good luck.
 

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You'll find out when you go. If he's been taking ballet for years, it doesn't mean he's gay. But it certainly means he's been around gay people for many years. it also means he has a ballet boy ass!!!
Good luck.

The anticipation is killing me....he does have a nice ass ;) almost as good as mine lol

I really just wanna know if hes gay or he just wants to be friends
 

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Take it as it happens..do not be afraid.
 

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No doubt ballet boy has been hit on a million times. If you misread the vibe...no harm done. He's used to it. You can both shrug it off.
If you're right....ballet boy ass for you!!!
 

Sk8erBoiZach

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No doubt ballet boy has been hit on a million times. If you misread the vibe...no harm done. He's used to it. You can both shrug it off.
If you're right....ballet boy ass for you!!!

but i dont just want sex....i mean sex is fun and all but theres so mant guys to have sex with, i wanna have a boyfriend or really close friend that i can walk around, eat, study...talk to. i dont think i would go through this much mind games with myself if i just wanted sex
 

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Just take the chance and see what its gonna happen. It doesn't always ballet identically with gays nor some guy invite you to his dorm mean he want to do something with you or is it a personal thingy like you just said. Maybe he want to play video games with you or so. Just take it easy and you will get know him better is he sexually attracted to you or just wanna make some friend or brother like.
So, grab the invitation!
 

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Wear something super sexy and if he complements you on it then it could be a sign.

Edit I don't mean something casual but something real sexy and see if he complements you.
 

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Best thing you can do: let him know that you are gay as soon as possible. It doesn't have to be a big announcement, or anything. Just use the correct pronouns when you yak about who has attracted you in the past, and your point will be made.
 

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Best thing you can do: let him know that you are gay as soon as possible. It doesn't have to be a big announcement, or anything. Just use the correct pronouns when you yak about who has attracted you in the past, and your point will be made.

I agree. Ofcourse If you can summon the gourage. Otherwise this your "situation" may just go on and on, without neither one of you doing nothing. He may just wanna company or smth. You don't know before you try. And what for signs; the ballet, bible, forget them. Might only mislead in one way or another.
If you like him, ask yourself what you wanna do about it, and do it. Cause you brolly will, sooner or later. It's just a waste of time to wait for years for negative answer. Good luck!:thumbs up:
 

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You'll just have to find out. I wish you great fun and much excitement.

Btw, has a Bible-Class ever stopped somebody from having gay sex?
 

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i agree, wear something sexy and watch his eye on you or not
 

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The best defense against those who use the Bible as an excuse to oppress others, is even better knowledge of the Bible yourself...
 

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Just take the chance and see what its gonna happen. It doesn't always ballet identically with gays nor some guy invite you to his dorm mean he want to do something with you or is it a personal thingy like you just said. Maybe he want to play video games with you or so. Just take it easy and you will get know him better is he sexually attracted to you or just wanna make some friend or brother like.
So, grab the invitation!

I am planning on going haven't set a time yet, we both work late so im waiting for him to text me.....
 

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Wear something super sexy and if he complements you on it then it could be a sign.

Edit I don't mean something casual but something real sexy and see if he complements you.

I was planning on going in slim sweatpants.....(its easy to take off, or show off your underwear)

but i dont think hes quite the "fashion guy" i mean he dresses nice but nothing like overdone so i dont wanna show up with a Tom Ford suit on....what do u suggest?
 

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Best thing you can do: let him know that you are gay as soon as possible. It doesn't have to be a big announcement, or anything. Just use the correct pronouns when you yak about who has attracted you in the past, and your point will be made.

i mean if hes a bible freak then wouldn't he feel awkward around me then? i was thinking of asking him if hes texting his girlfriend when he looks at his phone, but thats a bit stalkerish?
 

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I agree. Ofcourse If you can summon the gourage. Otherwise this your "situation" may just go on and on, without neither one of you doing nothing. He may just wanna company or smth. You don't know before you try. And what for signs; the ballet, bible, forget them. Might only mislead in one way or another.
If you like him, ask yourself what you wanna do about it, and do it. Cause you brolly will, sooner or later. It's just a waste of time to wait for years for negative answer. Good luck!:thumbs up:

you see if he isnt gay or bi im more than happy to just be his friend, but if i close that road with me asking if hes interested in men then it'll just be awkward around him, and id have to carry around a 10 pound book everyday :worried:
 

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You'll just have to find out. I wish you great fun and much excitement.

Btw, has a Bible-Class ever stopped somebody from having gay sex?

Good point but if hes spending four grand on that class he must be pretty devoted to god.....
 
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