HELP: Cute guy i like at school invited me to his dorm

logan222 · Sep 9, 2012

^Haha, sadly, I usually don't. Why?

Sk8erBoiZach · Sep 10, 2012

logan222 said:
^Haha, sadly, I usually don't. Why?

Ive never had a actual boyfriend....ive slept with alot of guys but never had the chance to be emotionally invested

logan222 · Sep 10, 2012

You're barely in college. You'll get there, bud.

I still haven't either, but the day will come.

Sinnerr · Sep 10, 2012

Where's the problem? He invited you to his dorm. If he invited only you and not another friends with you it looks almost certainly. So you will go there and you will see. Either you will play on playstation or you will play together with each other. Don't forget condom.

Sinnerr · Sep 10, 2012

Ehm. i just read your editation of first post. Well. He really could be bi, He is no hetero on 99%. He is probably shy. But as long as you are permantly meeting him and talking with him - evyrything is in your hands. Well you probably don't have ballsenought to ask him strictly "Are you interested in me?". But youz can look for another clues. ... "Hmm. ballet I have never been into it. But I guess there should be lot of pretty girls. Are there some?" It looks he's quite intrested about art, so talk with him about music, film ... and time after time mention some gay person by the way. You know you also should give some clues, but this strategy would be safe ... you know Straights also listen to Freddie Mercury, Ricky Martin, Elton John etc.. Anyway biblic class he could be interested about history also - Antic Rome. " I Think it was really interesting era I just wonder how they could built such monuments like Colloseum without modern machines. And their society was so different in compare with our." Insinuate, but have a back door...

Sk8erBoiZach · Sep 10, 2012

Sinnerr said:
Ehm. i just read your editation of first post. Well. He really could be bi, He is no hetero on 99%. He is probably shy. But as long as you are permantly meeting him and talking with him - evyrything is in your hands. Well you probably don't have ballsenought to ask him strictly "Are you interested in me?". But youz can look for another clues. ... "Hmm. ballet I have never been into it. But I guess there should be lot of pretty girls. Are there some?" It looks he's quite intrested about art, so talk with him about music, film ... and time after time mention some gay person by the way. You know you also should give some clues, but this strategy would be safe ... you know Straights also listen to Freddie Mercury, Ricky Martin, Elton John etc.. Anyway biblic class he could be interested about history also - Antic Rome. " I Think it was really interesting era I just wonder how they could built such monuments like Colloseum without modern machines. And their society was so different in compare with our." Insinuate, but have a back door...

thanks thats useful, so far all we've done is sit very closely to study and gaze into each others eyes....and walk from class to a very far building, eat lunch but nothing that would insinuate any sexual energy, its all too friendly but i dont think 100% "straight" guys get so close and lean even closer when talking or explaining something, it would be acceptable if he was russian or italian but hes american coming from south dakota, i dont think the guys there have such close boundaries you know?

Sk8erBoiZach · Sep 10, 2012

Sinnerr said:
Where's the problem? He invited you to his dorm. If he invited only you and not another friends with you it looks almost certainly. So you will go there and you will see. Either you will play on playstation or you will play together with each other. Don't forget condom.

we were alone in very close proximity for like 3 hours then he proceded to introduce me to his new gf from the night before i was like damn.....if i got here a day earlier while u were single

josh_the_hot_boy · Sep 11, 2012

Maybe it won't work out with her and he will move towards you.

Sinnerr · Sep 11, 2012

"If you wanna be my lover you've got to be my friend" sing Spice Girls, you know. Let it in free course. Chance still exist and isn't small. Spending 3 hours in conversation with a guy when He has new gf. It's suspicious. I think bottom line is, How far is he with his coming out.

Sk8erBoiZach · Sep 11, 2012

Sinnerr said:
"If you wanna be my lover you've got to be my friend" sing Spice Girls, you know. Let it in free course. Chance still exist and isn't small. Spending 3 hours in conversation with a guy when He has new gf. It's suspicious. I think bottom line is, How far is he with his coming out.

i was thinking of asking a ex-gf of mine to go out with me for one night with him and his gf and maybe he'll get jealous or whatnot seeing us dance.....is that totally crazy?

Sinnerr · Sep 12, 2012

It seems too comlicated. Easier would be if you would strat visiting ballet lessons with him. Even if you're still good friends with your ex-gf, she could have a new bf. Or she's single and she wants some - so being seen dancing with a boy is not something what would help her in seeking, I guess.

ihno · Sep 12, 2012

Sk8erBoiZach said:
what do you guys think? is he just a really cool understanding guy or he might be bi?

Oh come on, you go, you take him and you both have a loooong walk into nature. Don't know, where you live but there must be romantic places to go without many people around. What about that?

And then you just let things happen.

Sk8erBoiZach · Sep 13, 2012

ihno said:
Oh come on, you go, you take him and you both have a loooong walk into nature. Don't know, where you live but there must be romantic places to go without many people around. What about that?

And then you just let things happen.

How do i ask him to go on a walk alone with me???

Sk8erBoiZach · Sep 13, 2012

Sinnerr said:
It seems too comlicated. Easier would be if you would strat visiting ballet lessons with him. Even if you're still good friends with your ex-gf, she could have a new bf. Or she's single and she wants some - so being seen dancing with a boy is not something what would help her in seeking, I guess.

Hes taking it for credits so i cant just go in cause its a actual class, and no shes cool, she says she was up for going out, and he said yes very quickly to the idea so i dont know man this might work.....he invited me to study with him again for tomorrow. to be honest i think he might know more about the class than i do so inviting me might just be he wants to spend more time than the before and after class walking time we get. i woke up with a huge zit like on my cheek bone, itll kinda be hard to look him in the eye when i have a spot right on top of my face :/

Sinnerr · Sep 13, 2012

Sk8erBoiZach said:
How do i ask him to go on a walk alone with me???

"I like to ride a mountain bike, don't you want to go with me someday?"
For example.

He has invited you again?! So I guess He is more active in this than you. His gf maybe is not real gf, but just good friend who gives him "alibi" if you would not be a nice guy - I'm trying to look at this from his perspective.
How do you look like - are you gay enought? Or do you make everything to be not suspicious? You know I guess He's thinking about same q as you.
Anyway did you see them together, him and his "gf"? How are the look like? Like two love-birds? Or like gay-guy and his best female friend (also sometimes called a "fag-hag" in slang language).

Sk8erBoiZach · Sep 13, 2012

Sinnerr said:
"I like to ride a mountain bike, don't you want to go with me someday?"
For example.

He has invited you again?! So I guess He is more active in this than you. His gf maybe is not real gf, but just good friend who gives him "alibi" if you would not be a nice guy - I'm trying to look at this from his perspective.
How do you look like - are you gay enought? Or do you make everything to be not suspicious? You know I guess He's thinking about same q as you.
Anyway did you see them together, him and his "gf"? How are the look like? Like two love-birds? Or like gay-guy and his best female friend (also sometimes called a "fag-hag" in slang language).

ive never seen them do anything but i dont see him lyign to me about having a girlfriend. I definitely dont wear sandals or wear baggy jeans if thats what your implying......

Sinnerr · Sep 14, 2012

I'm implying nothing, just trying to help you.

Sk8erBoiZach · Sep 14, 2012

Sinnerr said:
I'm implying nothing, just trying to help you.

Thanks for the help we talked even more about ourselves today....his birthday is on monday i really want to get him a gift, if it too early in the "friendship"? and what should i buy?

josh_the_hot_boy · Sep 14, 2012

Get him a gag gift.

XMan101 · Sep 14, 2012

Sk8erBoiZach said:
Thanks for the help we talked even more about ourselves today....his birthday is on monday i really want to get him a gift, if it too early in the "friendship"? and what should i buy?

You may be chasing a dream! If you're not careful you'll find he gets into your head and you can't shift him. I'd suggest backing down a little, however difficult it may seem, or you'll cause yourself a lot of pain. There is nothing worse than unrequited love! It's very painful and upsets your equilibrium.

Don't buy him a present, ask him out for a birthday drink - perfect opportunity to get him away from studies and into a relaxed social environment with just the two of you, but I suggest you look at him as just a good friend, until you know different

One thing to remember, a good close friend lasts a lot longer than most lovers, and can be far more rewarding too !

HELP: Cute guy i like at school invited me to his dorm

Member

New member

Member

Sinnerr

Guest

Sinnerr

Guest

New member

New member

1-800-DIAL-A-FUCK

Sinnerr

Guest

New member

Sinnerr

Guest

Daughter of Deuterium

New member

New member

Sinnerr

Guest

New member

Sinnerr

Guest

New member

1-800-DIAL-A-FUCK

XMan101

Guest

Similar threads