HELP: Cute guy i like at school invited me to his dorm

[Sinnerr]

I have no more ideas. Only I would say no one takes ballet lessons just for credits. Thats bullshit. I have no doubt that exist many others optional subjects where students are just sitting, relaxing and credits will get in fact "free of charge" cos test are so simple that one would write them right even in delirium. So why he didn't tell you true reason? Maybe because you could think He is gay.

Bottom line. Either you will continue with conversation meetings, or you will make offer.

 

[Sk8erBoiZach]

I think you should join his class show that your really interested. Again you never know what might have been.

See you should join him.

that would be like me following him....

 

[Sk8erBoiZach]

I have no more ideas. Only I would say no one takes ballet lessons just for credits. Thats bullshit. I have no doubt that exist many others optional subjects where students are just sitting, relaxing and credits will get in fact "free of charge" cos test are so simple that one would write them right even in delirium. So why he didn't tell you true reason? Maybe because you could think He is gay.

Bottom line. Either you will continue with conversation meetings, or you will make offer.

true but how does the gf get out of this picture?

 

[Sinnerr]

true but how does the gf get out of this picture?

Read again my old posts. I have written it already.

Gay guys and straight girls are often very good friends. Reasons: same/similar interests like fashion, design, art, dating boys etc... So one gay guy can act straight with female friend help when He is in new enviroment where doesn't feel safe yet.

Does it look like sci-fi? I don't think that. Even personally know few boys who occasionaly do that.

 

[ihno]

How do i ask him to go on a walk alone with me???

I haven't followed the discussion, just one thing: If HE is interested in YOU, on whatever level, you don't have to have an convincing story, he'll be glad to spend time with you.

And since I don't you and your cirstance I cannot answer your question anyway.

 

[AleXXX UK]

Got to make a move dude, gf or no gf. Start by telling him youre bi and see how he reacts. If he's hot for you then he may make a suggestion. If he's turned off the you can not make a deal of it and just carry on.

 

[Sk8erBoiZach]

THANKS guys, i think i am gonna tell him that im bi, and that im really attracted to him. but i figured jumping into a high level math class on the 3rd week in a ivy is a stupid idea, and i woke up thinking im so beyond this situation, if he wants me then me changing into his class isnt gonna facilitate or do anything with the situation.

btw i did get him a wallet for his birthday, the one he used looked pretty beat up, and now he'll always have something to remind him of me everyday.

 

[josh_the_hot_boy]

Sounds like A good idea all around.

 

[achillthatbends]

It is easier than you think. Cut down your choices, you only have one- to find it out. Life is an adventure, just do not be too aggressive or cold and you'll be all right. Have fun.

 

[Sk8erBoiZach]

i feel like i should wait for him to contact me.....thats smart right?

 

[josh_the_hot_boy]

You don't want him to think your pushing away.

 

[Sk8erBoiZach]

You don't want him to think your pushing away.

he txted saying we should still hang out sometimes, i said "sounds good"

 

[amorres77]

I've become intrigued by your story and hope for the best!

 

[josh_the_hot_boy]

he txted saying we should still hang out sometimes, i said "sounds good"

Well that's great when it's over try and schedule something for next time.

 

[ihno]

btw i did get him a wallet for his birthday, the one he used looked pretty beat up, and now he'll always have something to remind him of me everyday.

Did you put a photo of you in the inside?

 

[Sk8erBoiZach]

Did you put a photo of you in the inside?

No, but i wish i had dropped a hint

 

[Sk8erBoiZach]

I've become intrigued by your story and hope for the best!

Haha i think we'll be on a closer level once time passes, we both at least have 2 more years here and he said we should sync a class together in the future plus ive been subtly flirting during texts

 

[AleXXX UK]

I would be careful. Those could be two more very awkward and painful years if something goes wrong. Are you out? If so you should out yourself to him too, not suggesting anything more and see how he responds. The more longer you spend together, the more you'll bond and the more painful it will be if things don't work out. Obviously everyone wants things to work out but think about the worse case scenario. He might get upset if he realises that your only friends because you want him and he doesn't feel the same.

Have fun in college but don't screw up your classes over anyone or anything. You have your whole life ahead of you to find mr Perfect

 

[josh_the_hot_boy]

He might get upset if he realises that your only friends because you want him and he doesn't feel the same.

I don't think he's only friends with this person cause he wants to be more than friends.

 

[Sinnerr]

I would be careful. Those could be two more very awkward and painful years if something goes wrong. Are you out? If so you should out yourself to him too, not suggesting anything more and see how he responds. The more longer you spend together, the more you'll bond and the more painful it will be if things don't work out. Obviously everyone wants things to work out but think about the worse case scenario. He might get upset if he realises that your only friends because you want him and he doesn't feel the same.

Have fun in college but don't screw up your classes over anyone or anything. You have your whole life ahead of you to find mr Perfect

I totally DISAGREE!!!