how good is your gaydar?

[newage]

So like title says how good is your "gaydar"? Like are there distinct signs that are telltale? I wonder if this guy i recently met is gay...but im not sure. So far i think he is cause well he twirls his hair alot, though he also needs to shampoo it, and he stresses the importance of his "beauty sleep"...thats when i went ding ding ding..but there seems to still be a margin for error :worried:

 

[bloop2]

.. sorry i can't help you.. I have a horrible gaydar... you can show a gay man in front of me and I will not realize he is gay until i see him sucking on someones dick. That is how rusty my gaydar is .

 

[newage]

.. sorry i can't help you.. I have a horrible gaydar... you can show a gay man in front of me and I will not realize he is gay until i see him sucking on someones dick. That is how rusty my gaydar is .

)))

lol yea....mine isn't all that good too. Sometimes its just wishful thinking on my part . It'd be nice to have a gay friend...not even to fuck..but that i can talk to :worried:

 

[jeremyboycool]

So like title says how good is your "gaydar"? Like are there distinct signs that are telltale? I wonder if this guy i recently met is gay...but im not sure. So far i think he is cause well he twirls his hair alot, though he also needs to shampoo it, and he stresses the importance of his "beauty sleep"...thats when i went ding ding ding..but there seems to still be a margin for error :worried:

Sounds like a homo to me, although these days it is getting harder and harder to tell.

 

[bloop2]

)))

lol yea....mine isn't all that good too. Sometimes its just wishful thinking on my part . It'd be nice to have a gay friend...not even to fuck..but that i can talk to :worried:

It's unfortunate that we don't live closer cuz i'd be all ears! but this will do! we're all here to listen to what you have to say so don't hold back on anything you wish to say!

 

[newage]

Well today he made a comment that at least there are girls in our spanish class which isn't quite the same with his other classse....so now im all like WTF

seems like that margin of error has just gotten a lot BIGGER!

 

[XMan101]

Sometimes just be bold. There are ways of sussing a person out, spending time with them and talking while checking his eyes . Eyes are big give-away and say far more than words

 

[bloop2]

oOoh i've heard that once before..someone told me if they are interested in you.. or find you appealing their pupils gets bigger.. but sometimes i question maybe its just because of the light.. :s

 

[newage]

oOoh i've heard that once before..someone told me if they are interested in you.. or find you appealing their pupils gets bigger.. but sometimes i question maybe its just because of the light.. :s

hmmm interesting.....


TO be honest i doubt much would change if he really is gay...though i am my self(well almost) with him with like little inhibitions and as long as i can continue that it won't matter much what is sexuality is. Just trying to flex my gaydar for other times...like this one guy i saw at the food store....so hot with jeans so tight it made it seem as if my arm was thicker than his legs....but he was next to a girl ..a cute girl at that. The margin of error in that could be she could be the "hag" ))

 

[taurus2904]

Sometimes just be bold. There are ways of sussing a person out, spending time with them and talking while checking his eyes . Eyes are big give-away and say far more than words

X is right, but so is bloop. Rather than worry about "are his pupils larger" or body language, just watch what his eyes watch. To put it bluntly: watch which butt he watches walk across the room. Could be he likes some of both.

 

[sqa]

to put it honest in this matter, my gaydar even not working at all, even my sister-in-law has better gaydar for blokes than i have, isnt that pathetic??, and she said to me are you gay or not , gosh thats so hurt she saying those, im so hate her when she talk about blokes on street yeah xoxo

 

[jedegame]

omg this is soo weird
i have a really good one and im always right!

i scored a rugby player who i thought was bi

 

[newage]

omg this is soo weird
i have a really good one and im always right!

i scored a rugby player who i thought was bi

sweet care to elaborate on your technique?

 

[jedegame]

^^^ i actually dont have a technique, i just know, haa

but if u ever get the impression that someone is gay who is "straight"
just sort of flirt with them and stuff to wind them up
then i think u could tell from that

 

[newage]

^^^ i actually dont have a technique, i just know, haa

but if u ever get the impression that someone is gay who is "straight"
just sort of flirt with them and stuff to wind them up
then i think u could tell from that

well thats just winging it and depends too much on one's ability to discern..

 

[dubcanada]

Well today he made a comment that at least there are girls in our spanish class which isn't quite the same with his other classse....so now im all like WTF

seems like that margin of error has just gotten a lot BIGGER!

lol, a lot of guys assume your straight and talk about girls. When I'm talking to guys I don't know I just talk about girls and what not.

 

[jedegame]

Best gaydar: saw a guy at the mall and we were walking opposite directions and we made eye contact and he looked over his shoulder and I saw because I looked over my shoulder. We both pretended we had to use the restroom but we didn't, and we hadn't said a word to each other. He went to the parking deck and I followed, pretending my car was nearby. Then I just walked over and he let me in his car. He drove to a place nearby even though nothing had been said out loud about why we would need to go to a private place. We started doing stuff in the front seat, then backseat, then on the hood, even though other cars were passing nearby. We were both 17 and went to different schools but got together several times in different places and still do even tho he is married (to a woman) with kids. We are both bi.

Worst gaydar: several months after the above and hadn't had another dude but was really horny for more. Saw a hot older guy in the library looking good in a tight white T-sh and baggy pants but you could see he had a hot butt, so I sat near him and passed a note saying he should come with me to my dorm but not saying why... and he did! We were barely zipped up and getting shoes tied when my roommate came back and I panicked and had no explanation. The bad gaydar part is -- it was the dark handsome muscular frat-prep roommate who is gay and "married" (to a man) and we wasted an entire semester because of me having no clue.

great story
kinda weird u didnt know about that married guy

 

[newage]

Best gaydar: saw a guy at the mall and we were walking opposite directions and we made eye contact and he looked over his shoulder and I saw because I looked over my shoulder. We both pretended we had to use the restroom but we didn't, and we hadn't said a word to each other. He went to the parking deck and I followed, pretending my car was nearby. Then I just walked over and he let me in his car. He drove to a place nearby even though nothing had been said out loud about why we would need to go to a private place. We started doing stuff in the front seat, then backseat, then on the hood, even though other cars were passing nearby. We were both 17 and went to different schools but got together several times in different places and still do even tho he is married (to a woman) with kids. We are both bi.

Worst gaydar: several months after the above and hadn't had another dude but was really horny for more. Saw a hot older guy in the library looking good in a tight white T-sh and baggy pants but you could see he had a hot butt, so I sat near him and passed a note saying he should come with me to my dorm but not saying why... and he did! We were barely zipped up and getting shoes tied when my roommate came back and I panicked and had no explanation. The bad gaydar part is -- it was the dark handsome muscular frat-prep roommate who is gay and "married" (to a man) and we wasted an entire semester because of me having no clue.

haha when i started the second part i thought perphaps the guy in the library was not gay and all sorts of bad thoughts came in my head...))

 

[john7611]

It's good I guess. There's always those certain folks that surprise the hell out of me though.

 

[ERICOOL85]

i think i do have a good gaydar, and like some said before, i just know XD. but some lil things can say a lot, the voice tone, uhh the way he moves, the way he talks -or expresses himself- but even though you need to have in mind those small details, that kinda of details always stereotype gay or bi guys XD
and well even though my gaydar is quite good im always doubtful of it, or dont make any moves or such.