hurt and confused

[wardell]

Will I met a guy and we hit it off great been talking and texting for about a month but then I text him just now and a girl texted back she says he gave her his phone because he got a new one I just talked to him a day ago made to mention of get a new phone he kept talking about how he has on friends and no mony and now this girl pops up and he can buy a new phone and she will not give me his new number I don't know what to think now sorry I just need to vent

 

[Shelter]

Will I met a guy and we hit it off great been talking and texting for about a month but then I text him just now and a girl texted back she says he gave her his phone because he got a new one I just talked to him a day ago made to mention of get a new phone he kept talking about how he has on friends and no mony and now this girl pops up and he can buy a new phone and she will not give me his new number I don't know what to think now sorry I just need to vent

Obviously he is an asshole! Unfortunately there are so many of these assholes out there! :angry:

 

[ikeabarry]

Obviously he is an asshole! Unfortunately there are so many of these assholes out there! :angry:

I have to agree with Shelter

This guy is not worth your love or affection. Obviously he was playing with you.

You are a sweet man who deserves a real boyfriend, not an "asshole".

Take care and be sure, you'll find love :thumbs up:

 

[jw4833]

I had a similar situation happened to me several years ago...I met a guy at a dinner party and he had been pursuing me prior to this dinner. However, he wanted to exchange contact information. I only gave him my email address and contact to my IM account. Honestly, this guy was coming at me pretty strong which made me very suspicious of his actions. One night he emailed me all of these naked pics of himself with a lot of dirty talk. He also sent me some pics on IM as well. Needless to say..I received this message from a woman claiming to be his wife. She said that she was looking for something on their home computer when she came across his messages to me. She was very upset and began to verbally attacked me. I immediately signed off and then decided an hour later to contact her again. This time she had calmed down once I explained to her that he pursued me without the mention of him being with a woman or being married. I also mentioned to her that if she look over the history of messages...she would see that I did not send him any nude pics nor did I initiate any dirty talking...everything is initiated from him. I then went on to tell her that I am not interested in him more so since he is involved with someone and I do not want any parts of any kind of drama. She apologized and wished me well. When the guy contacted me again afterwards a few weeks later...he was not aware that his woman had contacted me and wanted me to go away with him for the weekend. I decided to tell him about the confrontation and of course...he denied everything...so...in conclusion...DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME!!!!!

 

[topdog]

This seems like an awful lot of drama :nail biting: for a single misplaced communication. You don't have any facts and you are jumping straight to the worst possible conclusion.

 

[lhardwick69]

give it few days he might forgot to get your number off the phone--if he doesn't call you sure it sucks that he quit wanting to talk to you and all that--but best to find out now than months down the road after getting closer to him and having more time to fall in love with him

 

[charlietuna]

We often are crueler to each other than anyone can imagine

 

[havocs]

I agree with topdog, if you have another way to contact him reach out to him that way, or ask the girl to let him know you want to talk to him; if it doesnt happen, move on. i dont see why you would give your phone to another person with a number still active; ive had conversations with people and thought we were hitting it off great and all of a sudden drama insures bc the other person wants to do sexting and i dont do that....

 

[wardell]

Thank you all for the advice. I have moved on. I thought I would be more hurt but any way his problem not mine, I'm a good guy who deserves some better. he his not worth the time. If you don't want to talk just say so don't pull some childish stunt and sorry about the no coma and stuff