i live in a BOX

[cute-zozo]

hey guys
whats up
i live in Egypt , i am 22 yrs and i am virgin
over the days when i was grow up gay .
in my country to be gay is illegal , my country hates gay ppl
all my life i been living in a dark box , all my sexual life is in the internet
i can't tell my friends or my family that i am "Gay " .
i tried years ago to tell my bff that i am gay , the last words that i heard from him that he will keep my secret if i didn't talk to him anymore .
u can't imagen how hard that was on me .
i have 2 lifes the first one is to live as a straight person , the second one is to be gay ,
and in my situation the last one must be in secret , i can't even think about telling anyone about who i am , i had to keep this to myself .
this days it became worst , we having presidential elections , and our ppl voted for someone who is going to close the porn website in our country ,,,
i can't imagen my life without my second life ,
porn websites is the only place that i can live as a gay in it , and now he is gonna close this world , it's gonna be darker and darker in my way .
i can't deal with it
i hate living in here
that's not the country i like to live in it
i hate to be in here
i wanna leave ,
this is not my country anymore
i wanna leave
all my life i been living in a dark box and now it's getting darker .
i am sorry for sharing my sadly story , but this maybe the last time u will see me in here after this candidate has won the elections .
so gayheaven , my best world , my second home ...
bye bye
this maybe the last time u even find me here .
this maybe the end of my life .
right now i have 2 ways to live , either to live in the same box till i die , or to leave this god forsake place .
i hope i will meet u in heaven ,,, i mean the heaven

 

[Sinnerr]

What can I say. Only, Good Luck!

 

[parucci]

I just want you to know that I feel with you.

And I think that theres always a way around the Internet.
So you can enter closed websites.

 

[Tjerk12]

Your story is so sad cute-zozo that I think that I am in no way able to imagine how you feel. My first thought was shoot the new president, but of course that is not very helpfull. I heard that the secretary general of the UN Ban Ki-Moon is rather active on the matter of gay-rights. Maybe that gives a little hope.

 

[cute-zozo]

thanks guys i really appreciate ur words
and tjerk12 i hope so my friend
i hope that Ban ki moon would help us to have our right to exessit

 

[Voyager]

cute-zozo, your story is very distressing, but certainly not unusual.

You have to know that you are not the only gay man living in Egypt, but because of your laws, openly being gay can bring some harsh punishments.

All around the world there has been persecution for anyone being different from the "norm", but in many parts of the world, things are changing so there is now more tolerance.

I know from our conversations, you are in school and for anyone to leave his country is not an easy decision. But from what you are saying you hate living in your country so you now have to make a decision about your life.

If you do not have too much time left to your studies, then it would be best to finish them while at the same time, making plans to leave Egypt when you are done and move to a more friendly country so you can live and thrive as a gay man.

Living in a black box is not a life but given your cirstances, unless you make plans to change this, you will never be able to be free.

I know everyone on this forum wishes you the very best and prays for your safety and your ultimate happiness.

 

[zortek]

stay strong my friend, and don't give up hope

try not to let the way you feel upset your study, that is one of the ways out of your situation

Voyager's words are very wise, and i hope you can get some hope from them

do not forget that your friends here at GH send you all their thoughts, strength and hope

:hug::hug:

 

[jeansGuyOZ]

zozo, if you do decide to leave your home country, many countries will grant asylum to homosexual people if they are satisfied the person is coming from a country where their lives would be in danger for doing something that is not a crime in most countries. A few years ago two gay men from Iraq or Iran - I forget which - were granted asylum in Australia on precisely these grounds.

 

[SimplyJakeAndAlex]

Welcome to Canada dude lol, come here we're the first (Actually the fourth country in the world, Thanks to Rozas for correcting it) that have granted marriage for gay people. We are gay friendly much more than San Francisco (even if SF is Gay capital of the world, they're not as free as we are), here being gay is okay and you can resume your life. In Canada the gay life is not clustered to a single city or village, you're free to live where you want and yes you can walk hand to hand with your boyfriend in daylight without being thrown tomatoes. As for your issue with gay website... dude come speak to me I have solutions through my private VPN that I have provided to a friend of mine working in Abu Dabi, he connect to my network from a very secured business network (My own) and nobody can trace you back. Until you decide to move that is a patch solution that I can offer you. PM me If you decide to come here, I own 2 apartment buildings... finding you a place to live would be as easy as 1 2 3. I hate haters and I'll do everything in my power to help those who needs it.

 

[XMan101]

See Cute-zozo, all is not lost, you have many friends here, you won't get rid of us that easily

 

[Sinnerr]

Thats cool. So cute-zozo just buy filght ticket and take the airplane.

 

[cute-zozo]

thanks all guys
u are very supportive to me
i am gonna leave this country as long as i finish my studies
i have made my dissection

 

[tonka]

Within the darkness there is light. And it's name is Jake.

Keep yourself safe, Zozo.

 

[SimplyJakeAndAlex]

Within the darkness there is light. And it's name is Jake.

Keep yourself safe, Zozo.

I am the king of king :rofl::rofl::rofl: OMG feels like Jesus now... I just need to find myself a diaper and a cross :rofl:. But seriously Cute-Zozo, get out of there as soon as you can, finish university and get the F out of there, before you'll ever be able to live in peace in Egypt, you'll be very old. And yes I can definitely have you connect to my network. I'm a system admin and here's the cute part of it, it's a business network for which I'm the president. If someone access my network without permission they'll be seriously sued and that goes for any countries or individual. I also send timer virus if anybody is trying to compromise my network... a timer virus is a nice little script that wipes your hard drive in matter of seconds, you can't cancel it. So you'll be safe and you can continue to chat with us and browse your favorite gay sites. :cheers:

 

[bigsal]

Dear cute-zozo, I am close.

You have my deepest sympathy.

I hope that the information provided by Jake, may serve to keep in touch with us.

Good luck and never lose hope.

 

[Rozas]

I'm glad you followed my advice Cute zozo (remember our private conversation?)
As you can see you are not alone here and look at the reactions, the wise words the sympathy and not from the least among us ...... hope not?
All, or almost all is said, the rest you must now complete and I wish you the best in your decisions, I am also glad that I've added you to my friends when you asked me and hope you do not leave or that you still remains with us as long as possible.
Congratulations with your full membership.
Here an illustration perhaps not something you necessarily expect but I want to give you something sparkle, something throws light into your dark box.
Love you.

 

[brmstn69]

Fuck waiting to finish school. The US, Canada, and Europe all have much better schools. Finish up someplace you'll be free. Get out now!

P.S. Going to school elsewhere is a great reason to give to your family as to why your leaving...

 

[cute-zozo]

you know what guys ...
when i wrote this thread i thought that no one are gonna talk to me ,, i thought that every one is gonna read and leave .
but i really was surprised when i found that every single person in here are caring for me and for what is happening for me , that what is gonna make me cry if they blocked this site .
i really guys hope that they never do
if they did ... that means that they throw me out of my home
really guys i feel like you are me family
thanks all of u for supporting me
you are guys are very kind
i hope i can be always with u guys

 

[Whisper]

you know what guys ...
when i wrote this thread i thought that no one are gonna talk to me ,, i thought that every one is gonna read and leave .
but i really was surprised when i found that every single person in here are caring for me and for what is happening for me , that what is gonna make me cry if they blocked this site .
i really guys hope that they never do
if they did ... that means that they throw me out of my home
really guys i feel like you are me family
thanks all of u for supporting me
you are guys are very kind
i hope i can be always with u guys

Hello cute-zozo
I've been reading your thread and I wanted to wish you all the luck and strength so you can live your life free :hug:

I also agree that family comment, most of us come here for porn, but people here is that keeps us here.

C:C from Whisper

 

[Rozas]

Welcome to Canada dude lol, come here we're the first country in the world that have granted marriage for gay people. We are gay friendly much more than San Francisco (even if SF is Gay capital of the world, they're not as free as we are), here being gay is okay and you can resume your life. In Canada the gay life is not clustered to a single city or village, you're free to live where you want and yes you can walk hand to hand with your boyfriend in daylight without being thrown tomatoes. As for your issue with gay website... dude come speak to me I have solutions through my private VPN that I have provided to a friend of mine working in Abu Dabi, he connect to my network from a very secured business network (My own) and nobody can trace you back. Until you decide to move that is a patch solution that I can offer you. PM me If you decide to come here, I own 2 apartment buildings... finding you a place to live would be as easy as 1 2 3. I hate haters and I'll do everything in my power to help those who needs it.

Sorry Jake but i have to disappoint you

• 1 Countries where civil gay marriage by the national government legalized
o 1.1 Netherlands in April 2001
o 1.2 Belgium in February 2003
o 1.3 Spain in April 2005
o 1.4 Canada June 2005
o 1.5 South Africa
o 1.6 Norway
o 1.7 Sweden
o 1.8 Portugal
o 1.9 Iceland
o 1.10 Argentina
• 2 Countries where civil gay marriage is legal in some states
o 2.1 United States of America
o 2.2 Mexico
• 3 Sources, nuts and / or references
• 4 External links

Countries where civil gay marriage by the national government legalized
[Edit] The Netherlands
See Gay marriage in the Netherlands for the main article on this topic.

Since April 2001, two women or two men in the Netherlands civil marriage. The law that governs this is on April 1, 2001 entered into force. The Netherlands has expressly agreed not gay marriage, a form of marriage which focused exclusively on two persons of the same sex. In the Netherlands, which is chosen to the existing civil marriage (which was previously only open to persons of opposite sex) is open to same-sex couples. The above Act, the marriage of Opening December 21, 2000, that went on 1 April 2001, is therefore "only" that an amending Book 1 of the Dutch Civil Wetboekaanpast.
The Dutch marriage between two men or two women have in principle the same conditions and effect as the marriage of a woman and a man:
 The conditions and rules for taking up, close and terminate the same;
 The rights and obligations of spouses to each other are the same.
There are two major differences:
 A marriage of two women or two men establish any lineage relationship with the children of the spouses, the marriage between a woman and a man often.
 Recognition in a country that marriage between two men or two women do not know of such a marriage can (and usually will) cause problems. A first problem arises while already in the Netherlands: the "International Marriage Declaration" that the Civil Registry to issue a doent that was designed by an international treaty. Printed for the rules which the name of the man and where the woman must be completed. There is no chance that, for example Morocco, one of the treaty partners will agree to the adjustment of this doent.
Note: A registered partnership between same sex partners, is less problematic when it comes to the recognition of the relationship. Many countries that a marriage between two men or women do not recognize, which is often recognize a registered partnership between two people of the same sex.
[Edit] Belgium
See Gay marriage in Belgium for the editorial on this subject.

In Belgium it is - based on the Law of 13 February 2003 opening marriage to persons of the same sex - since June 1, 2003 may be same-sex civil marriage act.
In principle, the same rights and obligations as a "classic" marriage (persons of opposite sex). Since 24 January 2004 by a circular from Minister Onkelinx also possible that one partner from a country where gay marriage has been introduced. This scheme was later confirmed by law (Code of Private International Law).
The first gay marriage in Belgium in Chapels on June 6, 2003 entered into between Marion and Christel Huibrechts Verswyvelen.
On 18 May 2006 in Belgium is also the adoption of children by same-sex regulated. Before that time served adopters' of wrong sex to be. The deletion of that provision was also applicable to the Adoption same-sex couples.
[Edit] Spain
See Gay marriage in Spain for the main article on this topic.

On 21 April 2005 passed the gay marriage law for the first time the Congress of Spain, driving Prime Minister Jose Luis Rodriguez Zapatero. Although the Senate voted against, was its decision on June 30, 2005 revoked by a second vote of the congress, the law adopted by 187 against 147 votes, despite protests from the conservative Partido Popularen Catalan Convergència i Unió. Social protest was particularly the Roman Catholic Church and a petition movement which gathered 600,000 signatures.
On July 3, the law has been given legal force on 12 July 2005 in Spain the first men's pair (a Spaniard and an American who knew each other for 30 years) bound in matrimony.
A number of mayors has announced no marriage to same-sex partners to marry, others only those from Spain, Belgium or the Netherlands.
[Edit] Canada
See Gay marriage in Canada for the main article on this topic.

Same-sex marriage since June 29, 2005 in Canada legalized by parliament, despite strong opposition from various social sectors of the population and the resistance of different religions. On July 21 the law was approved by the Senate.
[Edit] South Africa
See Gay marriage in South Africa for the editorial on this subject.

Gay marriage is on 12 November 2006 legalized. The law stems from a ruling of hetZuid African High Court in Johannesburg in 2005 which provided that the constitution marriage to same-sex permits and gave the legislature twelve months to the law to adapt to gay marriage is fully legalized.
[Edit] Norway
See Gay marriage in Norway for the main article on this topic.

Gay marriage was on 11 June 2008 by the Norwegian parliament legalized and since 1 januari2009 possible.
[Edit] Sweden
See Gay marriage in Sweden for the editorial on this subject.

Gay marriage has been since May 1, 2009.
[Edit] Portugal
See Gay marriage in Portugal for the main article on this topic.

In Portugal, on 8 January 2010 the parliament approved a law allowing gay marriage possible. The Law entered into force April 1, 2010.
[Edit] Iceland
In Iceland, on 11 June 2010 by the Althing (Icelandic parliament) unanimously agreed that the marriage law is open to same-sex couples. The law, which now gender-neutral marriage is completed, it began on June 27, 2010.
[Edit] Argentina
See Gay marriage in Argentina for the main article on this topic.

In Argentina, the Senate approved gay marriage on July 14, 2010, after the House of Representatives earlier had given the green light. The Argentine senators debated fourteen hours over the legislation, while supporters and opponents demonstrated outside the parliament building. Especially the Catholic Church and other conservative organizations protested strongly against the legislation. The center-left government of Cristina Fernández de Kirch honor several well-known figures from the media supported the proposal.

First country in the world
Netherlands was the first country in the world where a man with a man and a woman with a woman could be married. This opening up of the marriage does not apply to the Netherlands Antilles and Aruba, a Dutch gay marriage but it is well recognized.
Recognized or not
Good example is followed and it pays to make a small tour through several countries in Europe and beyond to see what is the state of affairs. It is not only to think of the possibilities that exist in other countries for entering into a marriage or other legal connection between two same-sex partners. But also relevant in another country or a given compound can be recognized.
Belgium, Spain, Norway and Sweden
As a small country like the Netherlands a large abroad, is an exhaustive overview with a discussion of all aspects of course not possible. For more information see the example below mentioned link. Besides the Netherlands in Europe there are now only four countries where same-sex partners to marry. Belgium has the marriage as a second country in the world opened in 2003, Spain in 2005, Norway and Sweden in 2009.
Countries like Germany, Poland and Lithuania in the Constitution defining marriage as a link between man and woman. In France and the United Kingdom is the state of affairs that currently have no prospect of opening up the marriage.

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