Hi, gamecube!
You are right, most men are visual. But you showed your skin on your penis to us and, believe me, if you are able to, it wasn't only said for fun or to be pleasant, your penis is hot! :thumbs up:
These spots are visible, yes, but for me not a big point. Anyway if there are some on your ass, your hands or somewhere else too. Plus, you got more positive reactions here! And I don't think they only told it to be nice to you.
For sure you have to take step by step. But you are on a good way, in my opinion. Your next step after telling it to us, was your picture of your hot tool between your legs. And perhaps the next one will be a date with a hottie, which knows about your skin problem. Even if it would be just to talk about it and look, where this conversation leads you to.
A good point would be to get slowly comfortable with your vitiligo. Like in my first post above already mentioned with other words: you have the skin with these spots, but you are not (only) a skin with spots. I hope I can make understandable what I mean. It is sometimes a bit difficult, to make some things clear, if you write in another language.
A few months ago I saw a guy on youtube with a problem, called "Tourette syndrome". And to be honest, in first I was a bit nervous to see him, if he can't control his speech and screams some really heavy things and moves spontaneously uncontrollable in the interview, but he is so comfortable with his disorder meanwhile (it took its time), he gave it a funny name, makes jokes about it and tells everyone to do the same, if they have problems. Some things he screams are really funny and he has to laugh about them himself after it. And he is a really hot and goodlooking guy, but unfortunately he likes girls and has a girlfriend already! X_X
Try to get comfortable with your skin too. So you will become even more attractive, as you already are, to the guys in your near, if you are that relaxed.
And many thanks again for your courage to show us a bit more of you! :thumbs up: