Is there any Mr. Right out there?

[Silas]

So the title says all... Is there any Mr. Right? (or Mrs. Right for our bicurious members out there) Have you ever met this person? Did you ever thought, that you met him or her but this was (after a while) not the right thing for you? Did the feelings fool you?

Shall we search for this person? Or shall we try out everybody and hope that it may could be the right decision?

I know, a lot of questions... But my opinion is, there is NOT a Mr. or Mrs. Right. Call me a pessimist... I think we shall take the moment... And we shall not be too choosy... The first impression counts. And time is money And we all know, there's no money at all.

 

[Jamie]

I think there is Mr or Mrs Right for every one of us. Only that for some of us it takes just too damn long to find him/her... Sometimes it takes more than a lifetime to find Mr/Mrs. Right.... I thought I found her a few years go ...and the feelings might have fooled me a bit...I still think she was the right one for me (speaking about mind and soul)...but we just didn`t match in the outside world...When we were us , intimate, inside the house everything was so perfect...out or in reality we were so different...me realist her dreamy...always saying that Love will solve everything (yeah, right!) ...Maybe she was not my Mrs. Right...well who knows...some find their soul mates very quickly...some don`t .... It`s like in that movie: Jeux D`enfants ...A.K.A. Love me if you dare...

 

[Silas]

I just had some same experience like yours... I was totally in love with a girl... But it was not easy... She sabotaged me... I lost a lot of my friends for her. If I wanted sex (yeah, I'm a cute virgin^^) she didn't want it... And if she did, I did not ... If I could not get out with her, she said: "Than I'm gonna ask another guy"... I loved her, I thought I will move together with her... But then I got a best friend... (yeah I was a little into him, but he's strictly straight) I don't know if she guessed it, that I am bi - nobody knows - and she got very jealous. And this killed our relationship... Long speech, short sence: Now she's together with another best friend of mine and I hate both of them

 

[goejavin]

I know Mr. Right exists. I found mine and we were together for 20 years. But it was truly being in the right place at the right time. I think alot of it has to do with luck since you not only have to meet someone but then you have to fully like the person then you have to adjust to the person...and speaking from a gay standpoint...its so much more difficult to meet someone.
With all the social websites these days though, you can at least reach more people, get to know their interests and things you may have in common and so maybe that can make the odds a little better.

 

[Silas]

You are so right goe... I haven't found him or her yet... I really wanna try some relationship with a boy. But I am not in this scene, and I don't really want to be in this scene with all the stereotypes... (Don't take this setence wrong, please) So if I meet a guy in here, he is from anywhere else but not from there, where I live... Anoying... It is much easier finding a female partner as a man.

 

[greekhot]

Yeah that's right Silas...

I don't think that there is not Mr or Mrs Right...There might be one for everybody or there might be nobody for one/some of us...But what I think is that it is extremely difficult or unlikely for someone to find his/her Mr/Mrs Right at one shot...you gotta give it a try with a lot of people until you can find him/her or just be able to judge whether somebody is right for you...Period.

I was in a relationship with a girl, who the only thing she was into was just flirting with whomever she could...I wanted more stability...so we broke up...Another issue is what you've said exactly Silas...That meeting a guy is quite difficult, because you never know if he is into guys, in case he hasn't come out of the closet..Yet, meeting somebody from here is easy cause you know he is gay/bi/bicurious/lesbian/straight but despite the fact that you want to meet him or even worse have a crush on him, he may be in another country...What's more difficult than you and your love/partner live in two different countries?This is so annoying...
And I am in the exact position as you are...

 

[XMan101]

I've always found meeting guys easier! Then again I do live in a backwards universe, had to "come out" as liking girls after years of the people I knew at the time thinking I only liked guys

Nobody comes "purpose built" for anyone, a friendly spark and you can work on it from there, but it takes compromise & understanding on both sides. If that's lacking on either side then the whole thing will flounder.

 

[greekhot]

No, this is not easy...It is easy only if you mean having just sex....for relationships women are easier to find...

 

[XMan101]

Well I never actively look for relationships , certainly not these days, but when they happened they just happened when least expected!

 

[greekhot]

It is very difficult for me to have the one I want...

 

[brmstn69]

I had Mr. Right once, he was a Navy Medic, but he choose duty over love...

 

[nothan007]

Aww i totaly had found my Mr.Right 2 years ago in the first year of my college . But the only problem is he was str8 when i saw him, i couldnt even talk or breathe . he was everything to me . He was nice,cute,handsome,funny,romantic,intelligent,kind,sexy, indulgent,friendly and loyal :dreaming: yes thats true he had all these things in his chracter he was like perfect to me . we started as a friend then i realized i was becoming obsessed with him. i had totaly felt in love with him that i couldnt stop thinking him and get out off my mind.i couldnt tell him that i was gay.
then i started to talk to him less and now we are not talking anymore . we havent talked since a year ... it was so hurtful but that was the best way because it was so obvious that we couldnt be a couple .. but when i see him now , i still have some kind of excitement in my heart :rolling eyes:

 

[Silas]

Yeah greek we just have to accept the truth... And I'm getting good at this. I mean I was cheated by two of my ex-girlfriends... Maybe I'm getting more realistic. The fact, that 2 people live in two different counrtys is not as bad as you mean... There are relationships like this, and they worked.

Nothan, i know that feeling to. And I was obsessed of a straight guy too, I could swear he's bi, too... We cuddled a whole night. But at the next day, he did not ever talked to me until today... He's a fucking idiot, because I know that he enjoyed this too. But now, he's fucking my last ex-girlfriend... They deserve eachother *grml*

 

[nothan007]

Nothan, i know that feeling to. And I was obsessed of a straight guy too, I could swear he's bi, too... We cuddled a whole night. But at the next day, he did not ever talked to me until today... He's a fucking idiot, because I know that he enjoyed this too. But now, he's fucking my last ex-girlfriend... They deserve eachother *grml*

Oh damn ! He is such a b*stard.and you havent been talking since that day?Shit !But at least you had chance to touch him i mean i can imagine touchig my str8 love one day, we were drinking beer in a bar and he got drunk . he could hardly walk.so i decided to take him to a taxi.i was helping him to walk . while we were walkin he grabbed my body and hug me . i was like dying !!! i inhaled his scent and i went dizzy:dreaming: his smell was like ohhhh :x so i cant imagine kissing with him . probably i would have an heart attack

 

[Silas]

Actually I had his dick in my hand... But I was frightened to wank him... It was not sure that he's bi... Yes he's a bastard. Yeah if he was drunk, he said things about fucking me and so stuff... But as he gets sober, he gets straight... Yeah, HE IS A BASTARD

But this was in the past... Now i think, i got over him.

 

[greekhot]

Nothan I believe that this was not your Mr. Right...or at least this is not what i call Mr/Mrs Right...A person is right for you if you too get on well it is not about the other person just being cute wonderful beautiful wise smart loyal or whatever...it is about how two people get on with each other...Well, that is my opinion...

 

[nothan007]

Nothan I believe that this was not your Mr. Right...or at least this is not what i call Mr/Mrs Right...A person is right for you if you too get on well it is not about the other person just being cute wonderful beautiful wise smart loyal or whatever...it is about how two people get on with each other...Well, that is my opinion...

maybe you are right .. he was just perfect to me i still believe in Mr.Right but the thing that i don't believe is that im not going to find him i dont know but i feel like that :whew:

 

[greekhot]

Everybody feels like that...until he/she comes out of nowhere...so don't get so disappointed...

 

[ERICOOL85]

i think we meet mr right, several times in our life , in many ways and with many personalities, i believe we find mr right, depending on the cirstances we are living at the moment, sometimes mr right can be cute, or sometimes just responsible and caring, some others he can be fun and outgoing.
Mr right is with us a lot of the time, friends, father, boyfriend, lover etc
we cant find a mr perfect ^^ , so look well maybe at this moment, mr right is with you ^^

 

[greekhot]

This is right!!!Good!!