losing your virginity?

[Jase]

I was thinking along the same line as you, Shelter...
Sure my first boyfriend and I messed around a lot, come on... we were both teenage boys (lol).

For me, it probably would've around 1995-96 and it had to be a Friday because I was staying over that night since our parents thought were just best friends. His Dad was a truck driver and gone a lot. So, we went to the movie theater. Afterwards, we were in his bedroom and messed around like normal; however, this time he somehow gotten some lube. Which of course meant, we went all the way many times that night.

 

[RazzmaTazz]

I haven't been able to conjour the Sanderson Sisters with the Black Flame Candle since I was way younger. But I'm sure they will still be back here in a month or two.

I agree with @Lucas88 that traditional virginity is an outdated concept. As a straight forward gay man (pun) I've always thought of virginity as either being the bottom and getting fucked the first time, or being the top and doing the fucking. But even then the top is a virgin at anal sex.

Way back when I had only sucked dick and had been blown a few times, I still considered myself a virgin because I had yet to be fucked, or fuck anyone else. My first experience was as a bottom, and after that when I would get asked if I was a virgin I would reply "no, but I haven't been a top yet". I didn't consider myself fully released of my virginity until I had been a top. After that the answer was a straight up "NO".

Ultimately I think you are a virgin to anything you haven't tried yet. If you have been blown, and topped, your a virgin to getting fucked. If your a bottom but haven't sucked dick, you're a virgin to blow jobs. I think the word can have multiple meanings. You just have to know exactly what you're being asked.

I'm a virgin to sky diving and spelunking and plan to stay that way.

 

[cute-zozo]

well
its a good question
as for me and most of the people " losing virginity" is to have a real sex not just having a hand job or blow job ...
yet those hand and blow jobs are a ways to have sex and the most beautiful thing in the whole sex process infact its the most romantic thing in the whole sex for me so if u dont need to think that way buddy

 

[Vince_Doey]

Dose it really matter that much? If you think you are no longer a virgin, you're not.

 

[gregsanison]

Well from a philosophical point of view you can spend all your life a virgin but when you die you are fucked

 

[wardell]

Well from a philosophical point of view you can spend all your life a virgin but when you die you are fucked

:rofl::rofl:

 

[Curiousnomore]

I finally lost mine with a guy from cl I sucked him dry three times and had bb deep hard loved every sweaty raw second