Welcome! We are happy to have you here. Thanks for posting.
If you were 30 years old and had some experience and a good group of gay friends that you could turn to, you could size up this offer pretty quickly. He could be great. He could be a serial killer. Or somewhere in the middle.
But at the beginning of your "career", so to speak, you don't yet have the context. You don't know the signals, the pitfalls, and what has succeeded or failed in the past. You need to get your bearings. You are like little Bambi stepping out into the meadow. Everything seems fun and exciting - but Bambi's mother knew the danger signs.
With no mother (or "daddy") to guide you, you must be cautious. Safety comes before sex. Don't jump in to a one-on-one with a stranger where you give up control - yet. You need to lay the groundwork. Concentrate on finding your tribe - your posse. Make friends, hang out, do things together. The social connections are key because that is how you want to find people to play with sexually.
If you want a daddy - hey, I ain't going to stop you. (And all the top daddys say "Yeah"!) But be aware that as a young inexperienced sub placing yourself in the hands of an older experienced top is the most vulnerable thing you can do. Trust me - it can be an incredible, sexy life-altering experience with someone who loves and respects you and is dedicated to your safety and pleasure. But that is the trick - until you find someone that is not just interested in you sexually, but fits the above qualifications, I would hold back and play in less risky situations.
This comes back to the beginning. Now is the time to experiment, learn your way around, make friends and stay safe. As you get your bearings you can take more risks.
Be sexy and well, boy. :big hug:
