Odd things happening with my roommate.

[spacepirate]

Hello so first my roommate which he knows im gay, he acts really weird when im around him, he starts Flirting with me most of the time, he hits my leg and sometimes touches me and every time i back away from it but he does it all the time. He told me he watched gay porn and said to me and my other roommate in a conversation he is willing to try sex with a guy. And i would never do anything with my roommate i guess >_< but he keeps getting closer to me a lot and well i dont know what to do.....:thinking: Any advice on this ?

 

[zortek]

sounds like he is dropping some big hints ... it does happen. even though me may not be gay, he may be very curious.

so two options..

1. next time you are together alone and he is flirting and touching, just straight up tell him that you are uncomfortable with the behaviour

2. next time he is flirting and touching, don't back away. (almost like calling his bluff) see what happens...

either way, don't expect any long lasting sexual relationship ... and be honest and true to yourself.

 

[spacepirate]

Thanks for the advice, im not expecting anything but ill be honest and true to myself

 

[zortek]

meant to add an anecdote from my own experience (but forgot.. typical )

a mate of mine started going for my nipples at every chance. tried to make it look like nipplecripples but was often just a touch. my nipples are definitely one of my zones, so i told him "anyone plays with my nipples, i get a hardon, no matter who it is" i figured i would call his bluff and stop it happening by telling the truth.

his reaction... "oh yeah ??? ... " very next time we were alone he started playing with my nipples, gently and with great interest. (he had been curious and dropping hints)

 

[brmstn69]

You didn't tell us if your roommate is hot or not...

 

[blueway]

lol yes if he's hot, do him. have a boys night.. take a few shots.. sounds like he'd only need one or two really.. and just have fun..

 

[spacepirate]

You didn't tell us if your roommate is hot or not...

He is really hot....xD

 

[jeansGuyOZ]

Spacepirate, seems to me that need to make up your mind.

Your room-mate is obviously beating you over the head with hints that he wants to have some kind of sexual thing with you.

Do you want that to happen or don't you? If you do, touch him back and see what happens. If you don't, tell him you are not interested. Either way, stop giving him mixed signals.

 

[brmstn69]

He is really hot....xD

Well then, speaking from experience, I say go for it. I have had several hot, str8 roommates whose curiosity got the better of them and enlisted my help to expand their horizons. Mind you, this was done without any expectation or desire that anything serious would ever become of it, just helping a buddy out...

The great part was that I was also able to help out a few of their friends as well. But, that's another thread...:devil:

 

[topdog]

Another option, if you don't want to complicate a perfectly good roommate relationship, is to pick out one of your sluttier gay friends and tell him that you have a really hot, bi-curious roommate - and then introduce the two of them. Serve drinks. Arrange to be suddenly called away.

This gives your housemate a chance to get his gay on, without you having to carry the "morning after" emotional baggage. It's a win-win-win - everyone is happy. (Or not. But at least it's not your problem anymore.)

 

[spacepirate]

Spacepirate, seems to me that need to make up your mind.

Your room-mate is obviously beating you over the head with hints that he wants to have some kind of sexual thing with you.

Do you want that to happen or don't you? If you do, touch him back and see what happens. If you don't, tell him you are not interested. Either way, stop giving him mixed signals.

Thanks for all the advice guys, and i kinda want this to happen but im afraid my friendship will get hurt so ill see how this goes.

 

[bsgfan12]

Do it (him)

Let us know what happens and post pictures