Like probably most of the members here, I watch a lot of porn and I think it's warped my my perspective on what's a normal penis size. Most of the guys I hookup with have dicks 5 to 6 inches in length, statistically average, but to me, they all seem small. I'd like to change my perspective on this, but I don't see it happening. Any suggestions on how one might change such thinking?
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Porn warped your view of what a normal sized penis is?
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Best way? Say to yourself, "Next time I see a cock, I'm going to LOVE THE FUCK out of it."
And when you see said cock, eye to eye, say to yourself, "I am going to LOVE THE FUCK out of this." -And do it.
And then the next day say to yourself, "Man. That was fun! I LOVED THE FUCK out of that cock."
-Guaranteed, your thinking will change.
And when you see said cock, eye to eye, say to yourself, "I am going to LOVE THE FUCK out of this." -And do it.
And then the next day say to yourself, "Man. That was fun! I LOVED THE FUCK out of that cock."
-Guaranteed, your thinking will change.
You are SO right, Dendood.
The fantasy world of gay porn (or the internet in general) is great fun.
But the internet 9 inch cock isn't nearly as fun as the real 6 inch cock. That cock will enlarge to your stroking. That cock will spout to your sucking. That cock will have the smell of life, the pulse of life.
It's alive. And it's attached to a live guy.
Now that's HOT!
The fantasy world of gay porn (or the internet in general) is great fun.
But the internet 9 inch cock isn't nearly as fun as the real 6 inch cock. That cock will enlarge to your stroking. That cock will spout to your sucking. That cock will have the smell of life, the pulse of life.
It's alive. And it's attached to a live guy.
Now that's HOT!
It's all how you look at life. Hands down the most fun I've ever had blowing a guy was a guy with the smallest dick I've ever had the joy of getting my devilish, perverted mitts on.
It was the first time I ever edged a guy.... got him to the edge of 4 orgasms before letting him pop. He was groaning, writhing the whole time and when he came just about half of his body came out through the head of his dick. Passed out like a light. I just laid there and watched him sleep. Man, I miss Paul.
On the other hand, I have seen enough big dicks in real life that porn dicks don't seem unusual to me. First two guys I ever hooked up with were hung like horses. I was such an innocent. What do I do with the rest I can't get in my mouth??? Fist it?
And even that paled to the guy on my dorm floor freshman year college. By grace or bad fate I was housed on a jock floor. It was a little before the days of building private dorms for revenue generating sport teams.... Save a few, the guys were all on the baseball team, football, wrestling, track and gymnastics. Nothing but hard meat. -But god, they were stupid. Anyway, one night I'm helping a friend study for a math exam in the lounge while the jocks were busy having a naked water fight in the halls. One of the guys runs in and asks us if we've seen so and so. And I swear to the heavens his dick was as long as my forearm. His dick was so huge we couldn't get out a word to answer. At least I couldn't. The guy flashed a huge grin, enjoying our reaction. So he just stood there a moment with his dick practically draping over the table.
I have a friend still from that floor. A nice Christian/Republican guy. We see eye to eye on nothing regarding politics. Anyway, whenever I ask him if he knows how that guy is doing (they roomed close to each other) he turns beet red and looks away because he knows what I'm thinking about.
(Apologies for telling this story again on the board... I will forever live that moment out....)
Anyway, I've seen big so porn seems normal. Just as I've seen a zillion flat abs, 10% body fat, photogenic athletes..... It all adds up to what is more likely to end up on film.
Just the cream of the crop. Mostly. Sort of.
One big dick I did not expect. A friend I've known for years, one of his boyfriends moved to L.A. and became a porn star for Falcon. I had no clue his dick was as large and fat as it was. Not that it would have mattered, he barely acknowledged my existence when he lived here.
Big Dick. Little dick. I'd scale that bad boy like a Spider-man. Put some lovin' hurt on it.
It was the first time I ever edged a guy.... got him to the edge of 4 orgasms before letting him pop. He was groaning, writhing the whole time and when he came just about half of his body came out through the head of his dick. Passed out like a light. I just laid there and watched him sleep. Man, I miss Paul.
On the other hand, I have seen enough big dicks in real life that porn dicks don't seem unusual to me. First two guys I ever hooked up with were hung like horses. I was such an innocent. What do I do with the rest I can't get in my mouth??? Fist it?
And even that paled to the guy on my dorm floor freshman year college. By grace or bad fate I was housed on a jock floor. It was a little before the days of building private dorms for revenue generating sport teams.... Save a few, the guys were all on the baseball team, football, wrestling, track and gymnastics. Nothing but hard meat. -But god, they were stupid. Anyway, one night I'm helping a friend study for a math exam in the lounge while the jocks were busy having a naked water fight in the halls. One of the guys runs in and asks us if we've seen so and so. And I swear to the heavens his dick was as long as my forearm. His dick was so huge we couldn't get out a word to answer. At least I couldn't. The guy flashed a huge grin, enjoying our reaction. So he just stood there a moment with his dick practically draping over the table.
I have a friend still from that floor. A nice Christian/Republican guy. We see eye to eye on nothing regarding politics. Anyway, whenever I ask him if he knows how that guy is doing (they roomed close to each other) he turns beet red and looks away because he knows what I'm thinking about.
(Apologies for telling this story again on the board... I will forever live that moment out....)
Anyway, I've seen big so porn seems normal. Just as I've seen a zillion flat abs, 10% body fat, photogenic athletes..... It all adds up to what is more likely to end up on film.
Just the cream of the crop. Mostly. Sort of.
One big dick I did not expect. A friend I've known for years, one of his boyfriends moved to L.A. and became a porn star for Falcon. I had no clue his dick was as large and fat as it was. Not that it would have mattered, he barely acknowledged my existence when he lived here.
Big Dick. Little dick. I'd scale that bad boy like a Spider-man. Put some lovin' hurt on it.
Both great answers guys. Thank You! I know exactly what you mean. Your responses reminded me of how I felt about dicks when I first came out. Somehow I lost touch with that kind joy and appreciation for a regular guy and regular dick, the way it feels warm and fleshy, grows in your mouth and hand, how it throbs, how it smells, the silky feeling when it's hard, etc. I'm thinking now that when one is just chasing the big dicks, the mind is not in a place where you can enjoy and appreciate anything about it other than it's size. So you miss out on a lot. Thanks so much for reminding me. I'm looking forward to really experiencing my next normal dicked man.
This is something that bothers me quite a bit - more because I think it's doing bad things to my self-confidence. Not just cock size, but physique in general, I think. Basically I just need to lay off the porn a bit, and concentrate on the real world instead!
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You have to keep porn (fantasy) separate from real life. Yes there are men out there who look like they do in the movies, but the majority of us don't. So just be happy with what you have and what comes along for have fun with you 
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A cock in hand is worth more than a hundred fantasy ones.
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This is a classic example of the selection effect. Porn studios favour bigger cocks, so the average porn star's cock is bigger than the average man's cock.
As long as you remember that natural cocks are often smaller than you see on the net, there's nothing to worry about.
We're all adults here, so we understand that porn is a distorted version of reality, but what I worry about is the effect porn has on teens - their body image can easily be badly effected by the distorted reality they are seeing in the porn we all know they're watching.
B.
As long as you remember that natural cocks are often smaller than you see on the net, there's nothing to worry about.
We're all adults here, so we understand that porn is a distorted version of reality, but what I worry about is the effect porn has on teens - their body image can easily be badly effected by the distorted reality they are seeing in the porn we all know they're watching.
B.
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To me, big dicks are like big breasts -- they might look fun, in the abstract ... but what the hell do you do with them?
I had sex once with a tall black twink who had one of the largest organs I ever saw. I thought, "Woohoo!"
He stuck it in. Then I thought, "Waaaaah!"
Then again, one of my first times on the receiving end of the D was with a beefier guy with 5" ... and the extra padding around his pubic bone meant that he could barely fully penetrate. That hurts, too.
My advice: Experiment with all sizes until you find the size that feels best.
I had sex once with a tall black twink who had one of the largest organs I ever saw. I thought, "Woohoo!"
He stuck it in. Then I thought, "Waaaaah!"
Then again, one of my first times on the receiving end of the D was with a beefier guy with 5" ... and the extra padding around his pubic bone meant that he could barely fully penetrate. That hurts, too.
My advice: Experiment with all sizes until you find the size that feels best.
Are you one of them or one of us "small" dicked wonders? I love coming across porn which features guys with smaller dicks. Most big dicks are amazing to look at (although some look really ugly) but in real life I prefer something in the small/average range.
You're so right about some of those megadicks. Barrett Long? That's 10 inches of fugly!
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Believe me, size queens existed long before there was any porn industry.
An extra large phallus won a man a special kind of respect way back in history, not so much that other men wanted to have sex with him, more like the way a fast car is a status symbol today.
The porn biz, as every other biz, has but one purpose, making money, and since films with massive members on the cover sell more copies, thats the sort of movie they're going to keep on making. The public gets what the public wants.
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Porn warped a lot of things for me.
I'm one of "them" not a small dicked wonder, which adds to the warped perspective. I think I've posted dick pics here before.
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When you think about it, the Transsexual porn industry is the only one that shows the on the average cock size a bit more than most. Unlike the straight and gay porn industry that emphasizes size of the larger proportions in the shemale industry a pretty shemale is a pretty shemale regardless of functionality and size. While there are a few standout performers that are well hung, there are just as many averagely hung popular performers.
