Sex in relationships

[Otage]

I've been with my guy now for four months, and sex just keeps getting better. I've always been under the impression, that the newer the guy, the better the sex. Any thoughts on this? I mean does the getting bored come at some point? Does it have to come?

 

[lhardwick69]

it only gets boring if you let it--then if in relationship with him are you in it with him to love him or you just in it for the sex--as a lot of guys seem to be in it for sex only anymore

 

[Otage]

it only gets boring if you let it--then if in relationship with him are you in it with him to love him or you just in it for the sex--as a lot of guys seem to be in it for sex only anymore

The hook-up scene is way more familiar to me than relationship, so i I were in relationship just for sex, I would brolly be better just sticking with the hook-up scene So I'm in it for more than sex.

 

[Shelter]

Otage a good relationship will make your life richer and more valuable. Sex is a very important thing, but in a relationship sex will not be the dominating part. Confidence, love and the feeling of being ONE will be the most important things. And if all these three things will come together you always will have great sex and then you can say: sex = love!

Only hook-ups will never give you the feeling of love or to be loved. For a while it may be nice and interesting but then in my opinion it will start to be boring. In a good relationship it never can be boring.

Well, this is my opinion - someone may have another one.

 

[platinumblk2]

For me the best sex you can have is in a relationship. I would not even call it sex, its making love. Feeling that closeness you have with your partner is special and a joy and will only get better as you get to know each other. Its more than just sex and for me, something I have never experienced on the hook-up scene.

There are so many things you can do together as long as you are both open and honest about your feelings. So enjoy it and don't think negatively about it. It will only get boring if you allow it too.

 

[Shelter]

For me the best sex you can have is in a relationship. I would not even call it sex, its making love. Feeling that closeness you have with your partner is special and a joy and will only get better as you get to know each other. Its more than just sex and for me, something I have never experienced on the hook-up scene.

There are so many things you can do together as long as you are both open and honest about your feelings. So enjoy it and don't think negatively about it. It will only get boring if you allow it too.

Platinumblk you have with your post spoken deeply out of my heart. :thumbs up:

 

[kwhotboi]

I have been in an open relationship for some time now with a great guy.
We enjoy living and doing things together and that includes adding a third or more in our bed. WE are both into group action to keep our sex life fresh.

 

[topdog]

Love, intimacy... sure.

On a purely sexual level, my long term partners have pushed me past my comfort zone. Rather than having sex over and over again, it's more like one long sexual encounter that moves deeper and farther month-by-month. They learn my secrets, the buttons to push to trigger new reactions and take play in new directions. It is hot, in a slow burn kind of way.

 

[wardell]

So how do you stay safe when adding third person in the bedroom what is your process to picking them