Sex is Lust?

[sweetuttsada]

My boyfriend say my urge to have sex is out of control.
Maybe he's right...I just cant say NO to my lust.... I need to learn to control it.
From now on, its just cuddle,kisses and bubble bath :x ahh sweetness
sex is only once a week and on special occasions.
:x:x

 

[bloop2]

Thats a good point.. maybe I should consider it.. *ponders and smiles*

 

[Diangelo88]

naaah sex isnt always lust, i mean i've had some nice sex with someone i love and some other times we've made sweet caring love which was as good. It's all in the mood you both are for.

(bloop2 i love ur walking monkey hehe)

 

[XMan101]

Making love is not lust ! If you're seeing someone regularly, though, it's not always necessary to have sex, cuddling up for an evening can be just as nice. It depends on your sex drive, some have higher ones than others. It's only trouble if you're both at different ends of the scale.

Restricting to once a week is a bit extreme and harsh !! If you're with someone you care about it's all quite natural

Sex is lust if you're out every night looking for different guys simply to have sex. That's a different matter.

 

[sweetuttsada]

LoL the problem is I keep having sex all night. cant focus on my work. Every morning I wake up feeling very tired. I Need to control it.... Once a week is not so bad. Plus I have more time to talk to him, go dinner, watch movies, take a walk and cuddle. I Like that.

 

[marcusl1]

Once a week???? No way!!! But all night - may be too much too! I think you need to compromise. Talk him into 2 or 3 or 4 or 5 times a week sweetie.

 

[sweetuttsada]

Okay~ 2 times a week then

 

[intensepump]

Sweet...
When I was your age...I was having sex 5 times a day nearly..everyday...

Not trying to brag or exaggerate or anything; just that some people do have very high sex drives. There is nothing wrong with that.

However, mismatched sex drives with a partner, can really be a problem, particularly when one partner says...it's this way, because they say so. BULLSHIT!!!X(X(

There should be a compromise, a middle ground and if it can't be found, it isn't the right partner. I would admit, that the eventual difference in sex drives, is one of the main reasons why 2 of my marriages ended.

 

[sweetuttsada]

okay~~ 3 times a week then....LOL

 

[Diangelo88]

yeah both definitely need to be on the same page. Im guessing its kinda obvious when just one wants to get it going and the other one...not so much (a)

 

[sqa]

for me it depend on each other mood most, even sometimes me and my bf did more than once everyday for that week coz he's not tired or had many office problem but sometimes we just did once for 2 weeks or a month, we live together , well he work while i go to univ.