simple question: what is heterosexual?

[Heaven1]

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[michelon]

oh i think, we are all bisexual by nature suppressed by social environment. i don´t believe in pure heterosexuality/homosexuality

 

[marcusl1]

Heterosexual is a noun describing a person with a heterosexual sexual orientation.

There are a 4 sexual orientations : Heterosexual, Homosexual, Bisexual and Asexual.

Heterosexuals is a sexual minority! Bisexuals are the majority and seems to be the normal human sexual orientation. Homosexuals is another sexual minority.

The kinsey Scale is probably the best graphic depiction of the different sexual orientations:



(notice it does not include Asexuals).

When we talk about sexual orientation 3 factors seems to determine what sexual orientation a person has:

1) Attractions
2) Behavior
3) (Self) identification


So to answer your question:

A heterosexual is a person who is exclusive physically, emotionally and romantically attracted to persons of the opposite sex. A heterosexual only has sex with someone of the opposite sex. The person identify him/her-self as heterosexual.

A homosexual is a person who is exclusive physically, emotionally and romantically attracted to persons of the same sex. A homosexual only has sex with someone of the same. The person identify him/her-self as homosexual.

Bi-sexual is person who is either physically and/or emotionally and/or romantically attracted to persons of both sexes. A Bi-sexual can have sex with a person of the same sex or a person of the opposite sex. The person or others identify the person as heterosexual, homosexual or bisexual.

Asexual is a persons who is not attracted to either of the 2 sexes. The person does not have sex.

The reason why most people think that heterosexuals are the majority and normal is that the majority identify themselves as heterosexual. But a person who selfidentify as heterosexual may have had sexual experiences with someone of the same sex (behavior) or may be attracted to persons of the same sex but do not act on these atttractions for various reasons. But per definition it is false that hetersexuality is the norm. Exclusive heteroseuxality is not normal.

Again per definition the majority are bisexuals. Many people have (attractions to some of the same sex whether they act on these attractions or not) or sexual experiences (behavior) with someone of the same sex. The person may identify him/herself as either heterosexual or homosexual but is per definition bisexual, if the first 2 factors are present (Attractions and behavior).

Homosexuals are a smaller sexual minority than heterosexuals. Per definition it is not normal to be exclusively homosexual or exclusively heterosexual. Whether it is natural to be homosexual, since it is not normal, is another question. Much scientific evidence points to natural factors influencing sexual orientation. But no single factor has yet to be proved to cause homosexuality or heterosexuality for that matter.

Some homosexuals deny or conceal all 3 factors determining sexual orientations. Many homosexuals live in the socalled "Closet". They may even marry someone of the opposite sex and have children and show a large degree of heterosexual functioning.

Some exclusively heterosexuals may also have sex with some of the same sex (in exclusive same sex enviorments like the army or in prisons.

It is human nature to want to label everything - to organize the perception of the world outside and inside. Some shun labels and a new label for those are POMOSEXUALS;

http://anonym.to? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pomosexual

 

[Thor]

will we ever..."stop labeling people" lol

I just don't think you can pigeonhole any person to anything...lol

 

[marcusl1]

That is why is stick to cornholing those I am attracted to Thor!!!

 

[Thor]

hahaha...thats funny, iv been lookin for a cornholing vid, i just cant find one marcus...lol

I don't think they make gay porn in Nabraska...hahahaha

 

[marcusl1]

You might be right Thor - perhaps Nebraska is one of those US states where sodomy is still ilegal??? Just like Arkansas - "I did not have sex with that woman" - well technically he probably didn't ..... LOL.

That reminds me of straight family value ex-senator "Cottage-Craig":



h go on:

 

[Heaven1]

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[marcusl1]

I read marcusl1 explanation. Now my question:

Which sexual orientation has a (pubescent) person making no sex?

Which sexual orientation has a (pubescent) person only playing with himself/herself?


lds17pl

Since the premise is that the young person is not having any sexual experience (behavior) - we have to ask that person about his or hers physical, emotional and romantical attractions and how he or she identifies him/her-self in order to know.

The answer to the second question is the same. But asking what the young person fantazise about during masturbation might give more precise answers. I do however think it would be inapropiate to ask such a question to a young person.

 

[XMan101]

Michelon is right, plus I'd add that we all are somewhere on that scale, so the dominant part tends to over-rule, but doesn't mean that an encounter with the same or opposite sex , depending where you are on the scale, can not happen.

I believe we're all capable of loving either sex in a romantic way

 

[iFairylicious]

I think as many do, that in some cases bisexuality is greedy since its dipping into both "pools" and not being exclusive to just one. lol.

 

[XMan101]

I think as many do, that in some cases bisexuality is greedy since its dipping into both "pools" and not being exclusive to just one. lol.

Utter crap!!

I'm loyal to whoever I'm with, but I can find attraction in both sexes!

 

[marcusl1]

I believe we're all capable of loving either sex in a romantic way

I really beg to differ Mike. Love have many expressions besides Eros. If you mean Philia or Agape I do hower agree.

I think as many do, that in some cases bisexuality is greedy since its dipping into both "pools" and not being exclusive to just one. lol.

Well better that than sexual anorexia ...:-*

 

[iFairylicious]

I meant to say if one person is with both at the same time. lol. Sorry to not mention that.

 

[iFairylicious]

I have personally been with a bi guy before and probably turned off by it just from personal experience. I was the "person on the side". ugh lol

 

[Thor]

I think we all have the capacity to love anyone, but maybe a better question is what makes you attracted to a girl or a guy? lol

for me IT WAS JUST NATURAL!!! i just like guys better...lol

 

[marcusl1]

I have personally been with a bi guy before and probably turned off by it just from personal experience. I was the "person on the side". ugh lol

Never funny to be the side dish - it feels like you are always getting the leftovers.

I think we all have the capacity to love anyone, but maybe a better question is what makes you attracted to a girl or a guy? lol

for me IT WAS JUST NATURAL!!! i just like guys better...lol

Why we are attracted to either sex? And more specifically why we are attracted to some of the same sex? Personally I have stopped asking that question since I know the answer: PURE LUCK

 

[Thor]

hmmm, wish I knew any answer babe!!! I'm still lernin...what the saying..Ignorense is bliss!! I'm trying to attain bliss, through knowlege...god I'm stupid!!! hahahaha

 

[XMan101]

I have personally been with a bi guy before and probably turned off by it just from personal experience. I was the "person on the side". ugh lol

That can happen in a totally gay relationship too , as it can in a totally hetero relationship.

It's all to do with being loyal to who you're with, makes no difference which sex a person is unfaithful with, it's still unfaithful !

 

[Heaven1]

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