At first I must admit that such spanking vids are very exciting for me and very soon I'll get a boner - and - well - I'm a little bit ashamed about that. But this vids have a special fascination for me. I would never do that to any other person and I would not endure that for myself.
You are not alone, Shelter: I feel the same way! :big hug:
If I'm tired or in a hurry, nothing will get me off faster than a good spanking video: some can make me go from soft to spurt in two minutes flat! Sadly most are pretty terrible: they're "fetish fodder" going to extremes of pain and the guys are not attractive. But once in a while, one of the standard porn studios will incorporate some moderate (non-torture) spanking with regular porn actors, and that can be very hot. My favorite, gold-medal, "works every time" vintage clip is from a '90s VHS called "Spank Me, Man!". It features Paul Corrigan slowly, steadily, firmly spanking the stud who is eagerly blowing him. AFAIK, this is the only scene that combines "normal" spanking with an extended blowjob (preceded by a good makeout session and rimming the spankee).
More recently, in 2012 MEN released a hot locker room shower scene with Mike Martin spanking Jayden Grey after catching him ogling his crotch. The hotness escalates as Mike realizes Jayden is enjoying the spanking, getting hard and pre
ming all over his lap. This of course leads to some hot aggressive oral and fucking.
More often than not, if you want new spanking videos you need to delve into the fetish stuff and either fast-forward over the extremes or edit them out. I've snipped a few good scenes from some of the Kinkmen/Men On Edge series, like "Daddy" Nick Moretti spanking "Son" Colton Steele after he catches him with a BDSM magazine. Aside from being hot, this is actually pretty amusing: "Mommy" leaves the house and "Daddy" thinks spanking his "Son", then tying him to a coffee table and blowing him, will "cure" him of his fetish? I think not, but thanks for trying!
As to why performers would participate in such scenes, the vast majority are amateurs who get off on it and don't mind collecting some cash to be filmed in action. Many of the "mainstream" performers who dabble in these scenes are obviously into it in their personal lives. Some of them walk onto the set and within seconds completely inhabit the dominant or submissive role they're playing: far more believably than any of the "vanilla" scenes that made them famous. You can fake plain gay sex and often get away with it, but maintaining a dripping erection while getting spanked probably indicates you enjoy it for real.
Maybe thats part of the turn-on for us, Shelter: the sex seems a little more real and intense? Up to a point, anyway: if I see broken skin, welts or bruises I'm outta there. Ditto slings and dungeons and leather: doesn't do a damned thing for me. I like a little roughness to spice up my porn sometimes, but it has to be a plausible fantasy (workmen, boss/clerk, cop/suspect, neighbors, etc).