Fetish Spanking

[Shelter]

From time to time I'll watch a clip from B.......d (I don't know how to encode this). Here naked twinks will be tortured with a special paddle or/and a whip. Sometimes the scrotum is tied with a rope on the floor, so that every movement is hurting and then the guy is beaten on his belly on his ass-cheeks, on his back and from time to time on his scrotum.

Now my question - what will be the reason that someone will do that voluntarily. How can someone endure such torture. Could you do that voluntary?

To watch it it will be sometimes make me horny (perhaps that is my dark side) and I'll get a boner. But endure it for myself - NEVER!

What is your opinion?

 

[dargelos]

You must have seen Tour de France crashes where the rider, badly hurt, covered in blood, gets back on the bike and keeps going to the finish line. The same effect is seen in war when soldiers fight on despite life threatening injuries. What makes this possible is the body's survival mechanism which releases endorphins into the blood. This blanks out pain and fear in exactly the same way as an injection of morphine or heroin.
In extreme sex, the submissive has to suffer pain and fear at first but eventualy the endorphins kick in and instead of reading his sensations as painful, the sub boy (always boy no matter how old he is) begins to experience them as intense sexual pleasure. There is also the effect called depersonalisaton when the sub stops feeling these sensations as happening to himself, instead it's like he is watching a porn film starring hinself. This effect comes in handy when you want to resist interogation by torture.

I have never done this myself and I could never cause pain to anyone else, even if he pleaded for it, and even knowing that it's not as bad as it looks.

 

[Giangiacomo]

Thank you dargelos, you covered the physical aspect. There is also the money and, I suspect, a lot less pain than the face of the "victim" suggests

 

[Shelter]

Thank you Dargelos for your good explanation. I will understand that thing with the endorphins - but what is the next day? I think he cannot sit because his ass-cheeks really have been not only red but sometimes also a little bit bloody.

And the other question is: why it makes me so horny to watch such clips. I'll do it secretly because my BF hates such things. I don't want that it will happen to me - never, believe me! But watching it makes my cock rock hard and very often I'm ming without using a hand. And that is something what is appalling me - do I have such a dark side? Would it be good to watch such clips? I can't ask my BF - because he would be wild about it. He hates it very much - any form of violence. But always again I'm looking for such clips.

 

[dargelos]

What about the next day indeed, the subs will feel very sore. If you go out drinking, you know you will feel ill the next day if you drink a lot, but if the party is good you forget about the future and live for the now, to hell with tomorrow.
It's often men who have a lot of responsibility at work who are attracted to the idea of complete surrender in extreme sex. Judges, senior police officers, diplomats, these are the kind of people who spend the most on kinky prostitutes. That does not make them bad people, it does make them a target for the papparazzi.

 

[Shelter]

What about the next day indeed, the subs will feel very sore. If you go out drinking, you know you will feel ill the next day if you drink a lot, but if the party is good you forget about the future and live for the now, to hell with tomorrow.
It's often men who have a lot of responsibility at work who are attracted to the idea of complete surrender in extreme sex. Judges, senior police officers, diplomats, these are the kind of people who spend the most on kinky prostitutes. That does not make them bad people, it does make them a target for the papparazzi.

:blushing::blushing: I don't hope a paparazzi is lounging around my house and windows.
But nonetheless - thank you that I could speak this here. I know and feel a long time in me this side of violence. - I only hope my BF will not find this post here. :blushing:

 

[chaitanya]

We all have our darker sides. But having a darker side doesn't make us any bad person. Porn is illusion, porn is fantasy. Seeing somebody getting fucked mercilessly in porn or watching some helpless guy getting gang-raped in porn makes us hard. We love that titillation. I do like that also. But in real life, I will never want that happen with me or somebody else.
It's the same with that spanking stuff. While watching that particular act in some porn might make use horny, but in reality most of us would never venture for that. So visual stimulation is something which is far from what we actually like in our lives.
Personally, I love horror movies. I love that thrill, I love those spine-chilling moments. But in reality, I would never want those things happen around me.
While watching porn, the scenes where multiple people on the entire body of another guy or the scenes where multiple guys pisses in the mouth and on the body of another guy make me extremely horny. In real life, I will never go for such things.