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The more lube I use, the faster I cum? Help...

danwd172

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I'm uncut but prefer to masturbate with retracting the forskin and rubbing my penis and glans directly with lube. I found that when I jack off with a few drops of lube, I can last about 5 minutes before I feel the urge to cum; however, if I use a lot more lube than usual, it's down to 2 minutes or sometimes even less.

It kinda frustrates me. I'm a bottom when it comes to anal sex but would like to be the top sometimes in the future. I'm worried I will cum soon when I penerate a well lubed ass.

Any thoughts?
 

BigBenni

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Hi bud,

I guess your tip is really sensitive and that makes you cuming so fast.
In general more lube should help or just try to use only some lube and place it on the tip but while jacking off not rubbing with retracted foreskin.

And to find out in case of anal sex I can advise you to try a Fleshjack; there you can test how fast you cum and you can experience the best way of cuming not to fast.

BTW, Fleshjacks are really hot :D Use much lube at the first time and then maybe try how it goes with less.

Believe me, you will find out the best possible way for you and if you feel you are cuming just stop rubbing and wait a few time. Nobody forces you to cum fast and you will see the longer you hold it back the more you will explode and shoot a huge load :)

Well I hope this could help a bit ;)

I wish you a nice day
 
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Irishman25

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just a quick thought while i skip through... :p
u can get a lube that numbs u slightly making u last longer i believe...
maybe u could look into that :)
just a quick merry thought... cocks... lube..... hmmmm..... merry.....
 

danwd172

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Hi bud,

I guess your tip is really sensitive and that makes you cuming so fast.
In general more lube should help or just try to use only some lube and place it on the tip but while jacking off not rubbing with retracted foreskin.

And to find out in case of anal sex I can advise you to try a Fleshjack; there you can test how fast you cum and you can experience the best way of cuming not to fast.

BTW, Fleshjacks are really hot :D Use much lube at the first time and then maybe try how it goes with less.

Believe me, you will find out the best possible way for you and if you feel you are cuming just stop rubbing and wait a few time. Nobody forces you to cum fast and you will see the longer you hold it back the more you will explode and shoot a huge load :)

Well I hope this could help a bit ;)

I wish you a nice day
I jerk off with retracted forskin only because I would like to train my glans to get used to the wetness and intensity of sensation that might come from anal sex.

If I am top, I definitely need to use much lube while having anal sex otherwise it could hurt the bottom. That's why I'm starting using much more lube than I used to when masturbating.

Speaking of Fleshjack, I just ordered one today:) as many people recommend that it's a good tool to self train . It will arrive this weekend.
 
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BigBenni

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I jerk off with retracted forskin only because I would like to train my glans to get used to the wetness and intensity of sensation that might comes from anal sex.

If I am the top, I definitely need to use much lube while having anal sex otherwise it could hurt the bottom. That's why I'm starting using much more lube than I used to when masturbating.

Speaking of Fleshjack, I just ordered one today:) as many people recommend that it's a good tool to self train . It should be delivered this weekend.

Congratulations :thumbs up: I promise you will love it and especially your tool :D

If you have your Fleshjack you can change the insights using one that is rubbing your dick/tip more. I only can say: Just testing :) and I'm sure you will agree with all the people who recommended it, including me :)

:cheers:
 
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