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what age is ok?

Thor

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what age is ok?

this is a tricky subject...but at what age are you able to make your own choices?

I can join the army and go to war at 18...but i cant drink a beer:?

all governments make there own decisions, but what do you think?

im 44 and have no clue:p lol
 

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I know plenty of people who are under the age of 18 who were making "good" decisions and plenty of people over the 22 limit who still are as dumb as ever. I think 18 and 22 are average numbers to control the general population from making decisions that might end up considered "terrorist" acts. I have to say though, I'm pretty glad some people don't start voting until their 21/22; sometimes people haven't gotten to know the world around them and may vote in a way that can really hurt people and haunt them (me) for the rest of their (my) life.
 

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I know plenty of people who are under the age of 18 who were making "good" decisions and plenty of people over the 22 limit who still are as dumb as ever. I think 18 and 22 are average numbers to control the general population from making decisions that might end up considered "terrorist" acts. I have to say though, I'm pretty glad some people don't start voting until their 21/22; sometimes people haven't gotten to know the world around them and may vote in a way that can really hurt people and haunt them (me) for the rest of their (my) life.

But then you also get people in their 50's and 60's in this country who would vote BNP. Are they sensible and informed? It's a tricky one
 

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i dunno what age is ok but i wanna be a fifteen years old boy again, maybe thirteen... i liked those...
 
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i dunno what age is ok but i wanna be a fifteen years old boy again, maybe thirteen... i liked those...


Whosh...I'd be dangerous if I was 13 or 15 these days, but I'd love to give it a try....:p

I think you do have to draw a line somewhere....here in the US its generally 18...but if thats the age that distinguishes you from a juvenile to an adult then so be it....you cant then determine any act that a "juvenile" commits is the act of an adult...because here in the States if you were to have consensual sex with a 17 yr old, he is now an innocent juvenile (and god knows at 17 i'd hump a horse) you'd have some serious issues...however...if that same 17 yr old gets in a fight and hits a boy who drops on the ground, hits his head and dies, he can serve his life in prison...

A kid is a kid and when he's not you can be sure there's an adult that has influenced his ways...one way or another.
 
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smallsleepyrascalcat

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here in Germany we had an election some weeks ago and a few days before the election, they made an election for people under age who were not allowed to vote in the real election. Yes, there were more votes for the nationalist parties than in the real election, but the most votes would still have gone to the social democrats, the green and the left.
So is people under 18 were the only once to decide in Germany we would have a government of the social democrats and the green in charge instead of what we got now...
 

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If it's about 'making your own choices' I think children should be empowered to do so much, much younger than 18, and should be listened to, given control over their own destiny, as opposed to being the victim of moral hatred and discriminating stereotypes. So I think children should have a vote regarding many things long before 18. I know that in Austria the general voting age has been lowered to 16, alongside other forms of civic engagement and participation. I'd be very comfortable moving it down further, at least to 14. I don't think there should be a group of people set aside for whom others are allowed to enact their prejudices upon; since we know that age doesn't mean a damn thing, people under 18 shouldn't suffer from a lack of legal rights and protections.
 
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glamfunk84

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I wish I was 13-18 again so I can experience what I'm experiencing now, lol. I felt so sheltered for some reason. Then again I didn't get the internet until age 17 anyways. :p
 

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16+

I'm 21,it's kinda legal in Canada. 16 is the age of consent,but for anal it's 18,lol. Hypocritical laws,lol.
 
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No an even better question is this: You are a thirty something, and there is a very hot juvenile that is sniffin all around ur crotch, let's say he is definitely hot for ur cock. He is a neighborhood boy, and he you hired him to take care of your lawn or to do odd jobs around ur house and he always is shirtless with some snug jeans on. U almost croosed the line once, but u decide it's too risky, so u back off of the twink. But then it happened, he walks up and grabs your manhood, and really tells u how bad he wants it. WHAT DO U DO?

PS...I hope i didn't cross the line here, but it's a question, and for the sake of arguement let's say he is 17 and will be 18 in a couple of months.
 
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goejavin

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Legally, at least here in New Jersey, its a no no, but having been in a similar situation, well......X_X
 

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imo your not truly an adult until you can rent a car which is at 25. however i think at 16 your enough of an adult to make informed decisions. at least i was...
 

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No an even better question is this: You are a thirty something, and there is a very hot juvenile that is sniffin all around ur crotch, let's say he is definitely hot for ur cock. He is a neighborhood boy, and he you hired him to take care of your lawn or to do odd jobs around ur house and he always is shirtless with some snug jeans on. U almost croosed the line once, but u decide it's too risky, so u back off of the twink. But then it happened, he walks up and grabs your manhood, and really tells u how bad he wants it. WHAT DO U DO?

PS...I hope i didn't cross the line here, but it's a question, and for the sake of arguement let's say he is 17 and will be 18 in a couple of months.

This has happened to me, except that he wasn't a neighbor, He was a kid I worked with and very persistent...

But the age of consent in my state is 16, and being 17 (and 10 months) he was allowed to join the National Guard. His mother even let him move into an apartment in my building. When I bought my house he moved in with me. We were together for 4 years. Then he decided to join the Navy as a medic and was stationed at Camp Pendleton half way across the country...
 
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glamfunk84

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No an even better question is this: You are a thirty something, and there is a very hot juvenile that is sniffin all around ur crotch, let's say he is definitely hot for ur cock. He is a neighborhood boy, and he you hired him to take care of your lawn or to do odd jobs around ur house and he always is shirtless with some snug jeans on. U almost croosed the line once, but u decide it's too risky, so u back off of the twink. But then it happened, he walks up and grabs your manhood, and really tells u how bad he wants it. WHAT DO U DO?

PS...I hope i didn't cross the line here, but it's a question, and for the sake of arguement let's say he is 17 and will be 18 in a couple of months.

Wait are you saying you gave into temptation to this kid? Well I hope nothing happens to get you caught because as far as I know 18 is the age limit in NC.
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burnshitup

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Wait are you saying you gave into temptation to this kid? Well I hope nothing happens to get you caught because as far as I know 18 is the age limit in NC.
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No, I'm not saying anything....I simply asked WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF.....
 

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What age is ok?

When they can cum in my mouth.
Seriously, in the early 70's the USA lowered the drinking age to 18.
We had a blast!
Cracked up our cars, got slapped with $300 DUI's, lost a few friends along the way to death, and thought only others would get hurt.

That didn't work.

Now days the laws are very strict due to our actions.
Maybe more controls will see a longer life for many of our current youth.
I would not be pleased with another outcome.
KevinInLA
 
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ton14

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In my country the age of consent is 15. It is, however, a criminal offense if you grossly abuse your superior experience/maturity to seduce a person under the age of 18.

So the seductive neighbourhood boy in Burn's example (or fantasy? xD) wouldn't be a problem here :D
 
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