way to go, xcommunicated! I think most of us are "average joes". You look great, the kind of guy you can drink a beer with, which is way more important than 20 minutes between the sheets with some eye-candy that's only going to break your heart and stomp your wallet flat anyway. If we're lucky, we all getter older and very un-twinkish, and thank whatever blood-thirtsy god of my pagan ancestors is responsible for that, I don't think I even knew anything before I turned 30. My bf is in his mid-20s and is a constant reminder that "I was never that young" LOL