What makes me sad is when a guy goes out of his way to pursue you and then he finally reveals to you that he is in a relationship but he is very unhappy and is ready to let it go after giving it another try over a year ago. Now, I had decided to have a platonic relationship with this guy because I don't get involved with guys that are in a relationship. However, this guy was determined to pursue me in another way. What really disturbed me with this guy is that after he told me that he fell in love with me and he thinks about me all the time. Nonetheless, after revealing that, I was thrown off by this. He then told me that he didn't want me to respond but he needed to me to know this. Now, what shocked me is that I found out over the weekend that this guy had sex with his so-called best friend who was also having relationship problems. This makes me sad because with all that he had shared with me during the time we've been conversing, this act was unnecessary because we cannot have a friendship because I feel betrayed and can't be trusted and this makes me sad.