Just as the question is writen. I'm fooling around with some guy who doesn't like a little hard nibble on his lip or a little tug on his nipple. We haven't gone all the way but should I even attempt to? It's just sexual so maybe I should just move on. What do you guys think?
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What to do if the person you're fucking with dodesn't like it so rough
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etilit
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respect his wishes
or move on..lol
or move on..lol
topdog
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I mentioned my view of topping about a week ago here:
Has this guy had anal sex before? If he has then he knows what he likes - ask him.
If he hasn't, then ask him if he would like to experiment. Give him a gift - a not-too-big "starter dildo". Tell him he can try it on his own, or with you. Let him get used to feeling something going into his ass. (It takes some getting used to.) Wait until he is comfortable with that, and then he can work on finding what gives him pleasure.
Once he knows how to use his body to get anal pleasure, then he's ready to try a real cock. When that time comes, it's up to you (the top) to "read" how he is feeling (and ask if you are not sure). A great top gets off on driving his partner crazy with sex joy. That is still true even when, for some bottoms, part of the sexual thrill may be being submissive. As the top - you are responsible to provide that experience, whatever that may be, at just the right level to give him the night of his life.
Has this guy had anal sex before? If he has then he knows what he likes - ask him.
If he hasn't, then ask him if he would like to experiment. Give him a gift - a not-too-big "starter dildo". Tell him he can try it on his own, or with you. Let him get used to feeling something going into his ass. (It takes some getting used to.) Wait until he is comfortable with that, and then he can work on finding what gives him pleasure.
Once he knows how to use his body to get anal pleasure, then he's ready to try a real cock. When that time comes, it's up to you (the top) to "read" how he is feeling (and ask if you are not sure). A great top gets off on driving his partner crazy with sex joy. That is still true even when, for some bottoms, part of the sexual thrill may be being submissive. As the top - you are responsible to provide that experience, whatever that may be, at just the right level to give him the night of his life.
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If you need to be rough to enjoy sex, then move on - otherwise, respect his wishes, simple!
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i always think that the bottom has the hardest job, and it is my role to satisfy him as best i can, that means pretty much on his terms. if i satisfy and excite him, then i have a satisfying and exciting time as well = great sex.
most of the time this means going slow and responding to his signals to build intensity. for example, i love nipple play, but tugging or biting straight off is too much for most guys, so i start kissing and licking, then gauge if a playful light nibble works. sometimes yes, sometimes no.
as the other guys have mentioned, it may just be the wrong match.... but this is not a reflection on you, there is no right or wrong, just the right match or wrong match
there are plenty of guys who like it a little rougher, maybe have some fun with them.
most of the time this means going slow and responding to his signals to build intensity. for example, i love nipple play, but tugging or biting straight off is too much for most guys, so i start kissing and licking, then gauge if a playful light nibble works. sometimes yes, sometimes no.
as the other guys have mentioned, it may just be the wrong match.... but this is not a reflection on you, there is no right or wrong, just the right match or wrong match
there are plenty of guys who like it a little rougher, maybe have some fun with them.
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Sex is like a beautiful conversation between two bodies... if one party has no interest in what you consider entertaining, then what's the point?
You said you are fooling around with this guy, so you aren't in a tough position as someone in a relationship, and am guessing you're in it for the sex.. so if the sex is not enjoyable... talk to the guy and if he isn't willing, then move on
You said you are fooling around with this guy, so you aren't in a tough position as someone in a relationship, and am guessing you're in it for the sex.. so if the sex is not enjoyable... talk to the guy and if he isn't willing, then move on
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As a Top in BDSM play, I absolutely uphold that response - - - - along with the boi's legs
and that goes along with the rough play being consensual. Some guys want you to be rougher and they want to demur or deflect your prompting. Being certain before hand makes the play fun, not brutal or forced.
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